I don't expect you to be some wonderful character out of a TV show, just a human being. I'm not judgmental, I'm one of those humans too. HOWEVER, I am only looking for women who live nearby and are willing to meet. Sorry, but I'm not interested in a cyber "romance".
I want to meet a single woman who'll be my partner and the love of my life. We don't always get what we want. If you're not actually single, that's OK so long as I know from the START and I'm not being used to hurt someone else.