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59 M San Mateo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 48–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Love music of all kinds, dancing, and performing arts. In a relationship I am romantic, dedicated and loyal. My children are important to me; it's been a blessing to be a part of their lives. Degrees in Engineering and Management. My work can be demanding at times, so I actively seek balance in life. I grew up in the US, mostly, and for a few years in Chile (so bilingual, English and Spanish).

I’m on OKCupid to meet that special someone with whom to share and enjoy a caring, loving life together.
What I’m doing with my life
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Parenting my 15 year old son (he lives at my house every other week), working at a startup, fixing/updating my house and garden.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the big picture
Thinking creatively
Helping others
Cooking with what's available
The first things people usually notice about me
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... are in the eye of the beholder. I hope that most people see what others have told me - a man who is honest, bright, kind, thoughtful, and who has a good sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Many - this is a great topic to get to know each other better when we chat or meet.

One book I've been enjoying lately: "Love Illuminated -- Exploring Life's Most Mystifying Subject (with the Help of 50,000 Strangers)", by Daniel Jones. Mr. Jones is the Editor of the New York Times column "Modern Love".
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids, family and friends
Peet's coffee
Love (maybe ours?...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whatever is happening in the here and now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something with family or friends, or enjoying staying at home, or going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I'm on OKC?
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You are kind, loving, and affectionate. You have a good sense of humor, and a healthy, comfortable sense of self. Being honest and forthcoming is one of your core values. You are as much at ease in a hole-in-the-wall restaurant as at a fancy event -- and enjoy both. You enjoy travel, of all kinds. You are well educated, and like learning. You value a healthy lifestyle, without being extreme about it. You're fun and easy to be around.