What I really want is one woman with whom to have a once a week play date. I want to go see live theater, try interesting restaurants, spend time outdoors, practice partner yoga, work on creative projects, etc.
When I am with you, you will have all my attention. When I am with my kids or working, I am fully focused on that. If you need a lot of daily attention, I can't do that for you.
If you, like me, already have a life full of love and joy, but would like someone to fill in the gaps, we should get together and see if there is chemistry.