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49 • M • Sacramento, CA
I’m looking for
- Girls who like guys
- Ages 38–53
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 8:25pm
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body Type
- Strictly anything
- Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
I have done many of the above pieces independently, built intentional communities, amazing gardens, taught woodworking for profit, and done well buying and renovating properties. So, while the goals are lofty, the foundation is build on solid ground not pie in the sky ideas..
These are qualities partners have appreciated and are ones I have worked hard to develop because I used to be a bit of an asshole.
I am emotionally open and very much in touch with myself and have the communication skills to express myself AND hear you. I only want a relationship where deep and profound openness is desired by both of us.
I am also rather funny in a wry sort of way, spontaneous and full of joy, I firmly believe that life is best lived at the edges, blasting along Hwy 1 or taking the time to just sit at a cafe reading a paper.
I am also a talented woodworker and enjoy creating with almost any material and would love to have a partner to collaborate with.
Oh, and mind blowing, sweep you off your feet kisses. I am the sort who while driving you to work, miss the offramp, then the next one and right before you freak out, tell you I called your boss, arranged for a three day weekend, your bag is in the trunk along with a huge picnic basket and reservations at the B&B you love.
Unless I laugh first, my deep booming laugh tends to get them laughing too. Enjoying life's humor is kinda important!
I grew up around books, my parents were both rare book dealers. I have enough books to fill a room and until I moved onto my boat, rarely left a bookstore without some special find under my arm.
Food, I am one of the few that isn't in love with Indian but love almost everything else. I make an amazing risotto and if I had to pick one food it would be Italian. It celebrates things that I value. Ingredients one knows because you have some connection either because you grew it yourself, its local from a your butcher or a baker you know, or it was chosen for some amazing quality you value.
redundant. I am going to leave out the trite, like friends and
family. Humor, both light hearted and heartfelt. Bread, really
amazing bread with a perfect crust, oh and butter, fresh creamy butter.
Beauty, the sort that you see on Hwy 1 or simply a calla lilly in spring, perhaps more the ability to see it everywhere and appreciate it. Lust, not the panting and porn kind, but that “I still want to ravish you 20 years from now” kind or the “I want to ravish you as much now as when we met 20 years ago” kind. Books.
Yeah that’s five but oh wait…joy, the kind that you find just sitting at a café sipping coffee, or upon finding the cutest bookstore, or the feel of the sea almost washing over your rail as you sail into the wind.
Seriously? I am thinking about how bread without butter sucks and how being single is exactly the same way. Both are wonderful but together they are just so much better. So I think about that and of course, I think a lot about how the heck do you enjoy being single more.
I am actually an open book in a one on one conversation but this isn't the place for that.
Edited to add...I hate to have to add this but if you believe in creationism, think cavemen and dinosaurs co-exited, we are NOT a match. New addition, if you are for the Kings or that terrible arena they are using as a wedge to destroy downtown, no, just NO.
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