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60 F Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 10
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I was raised in the south east but you won’t hear an accent in my voice. I lost that many years ago but maintained my southern demeanor and strong sense of community. After graduating from the University of Florida, I left my southern roots and moved to Boston where I lived for several years before moving to the Bay area. 30+ years in Oakland, I consider myself a Californian.

By profession I am an Occupational Therapist but my sweet tooth sent me down a different path and into a thriving business that I still own and enjoy. I continue to practice OT a few days a month because I enjoy that too.

I am a good and compassionate human being with an adventurous streak which has taken me to Tanzania on safari, Costa Rica to the rain /cloud forests , Oaxaca to learn the art of making Mole’ and to the sky to jump from a plane.
I love travel and hope to do more in the near future. Perhaps you would like to join me?

Volunteerism is important to me so I give a few hours of my time weekly helping women who have cancer and cannot manage on their own. I also volunteer with a few animal rescue groups and even started my own 15 years ago.

I would describe myself as a practical idealist; level headed and almost always looking for the upside in what happens in life. I enjoy good food and wine, movies, theater, museums, and dance performances. I am also an avid baseball fan, both A's and Giants.

I hope to have a long term relationship with a man who like me, would like it to be his last. I grew up in a loving and supportive family and know what it takes to be in a good relationship. I look forward to hearing from you.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to do my share to make the world a better place.

Staying in good physical shape.

Walking with my 13 year old dog, being a slave to my 16 year old cat.

Enjoying the lovely weather. I prefer a temperate climate to the cold.

Reading, listening to music, visiting with friends, trying to find you.

Aspiring to make the most of my life and learning to accept joy and let go of fear.
I’m really good at
Engaging in conversation and learning from others .
Being loyal.
Making the best of a situation and working through the difficult ones.
Being a chameleon.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and ability to make people comfortable in my presence.
I look, feel and act much younger than my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A House in the Sky, The Language of Flowers, Awakening Joy, The Art of Fielding, Cutting for Stone, A Thousand Splendid Suns, The Art of Racing in the Rain, The Golem and the Jinni. My reading preferences are historical fiction-non fiction too.
The New Yorker and the Sunday Chronicle.

Movies: I have seen almost all of the ones that got Academy Award nominations.

I don't watch much TV but have recently gotten into Downton Abbey and Treme'. Sad that Breaking Bad is over. I watched that religiously.

Food: I enjoy most ethnic foods and a glass of good red wine a few times a week. Bread pudding and anything dark chocolate are my favorite desserts.

Music:Prefer Rock n Roll to Classical. Listen to Jazz too. Small venues to hear music. Loud and crowded concerts don't usually appeal but on occasions you'll find me at the Greek.
The six things I could never do without
Honestly, I can do without almost anything but if I must answer this question I would say:
1. Family and friends.
2. A valid passport.
3. A library card and my IPad.
4. Sunshine and warm weather.
5. Coffee in the morning and a little something sweet at the end of the day.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My head is full of so many thoughts. I'll share them when we talk.
On a typical Friday night I am
not sure what I am doing.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You find joy in your daily life and wish to share it with me.
You understand that a relationship encompasses both the best of times and the worst of times and you are willing to stick around if we are not at our best.
You are stable financially and emotionally.
You are compassionate, passionate, creative and sincere and like dogs and cats (I have both).
You have no children living at home or they are on their way out soon.
You live within 30 minutes of Oakland.