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61 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Intelligent, curious, playful, kindhearted, affectionate and hopeful that I will meet a (compatible) man to spend my remaining years with. I have faced life's challenges with courage and humor. My friends are amazed. Sometimes I am too.

Feminine and fit, I keep in good shape by working out at the gym and walking. I volunteer with a few non-profits whose missions are particularly meaningful to me. I believe it is important to do my part helping others who are less fortunate than I. I expect nothing in return.

I try to live my life fully with joy and gratitude. Sometimes I can over think things a bit but am trying to do less of this. In 2012 I went on a safari in Tanzania and in 2013 I jumped out of a plane. There are many things left to do on my bucket list, among them walking the Camino de Santiago ( I would love to have someone to come with me!

I have owned a business for more than 30 years but recently made some big changes that will take me who knows where. I am committed to finding more time to play and enjoy life.

If you like being in nature, like baseball, warm weather, museums, movies, listening to music, tasty food and wine and a little something sweet at the end of a meal, we will probably get along. If you are a man who loves his life and would like to add a great woman to it, please feel free to contact me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to do my share. I volunteer weekly; sometimes with animals, sometimes with people.

Enjoyed a trip back to the East Coast recently but now I'm home and trying to get back into the swing of things. It was a great trip but I'm happy to be home again.

Working on my house (1930's stucco which always needs something.) Thinking about my next travel adventure. Some day I would like to take a long road trip and visit a lot of the national parks.

Learning to accept joy and let go of fear! Living in the moment when I think of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discovering the good in others.
Engaging in conversation and getting you to engage with me.
Working through the difficult stuff.
Being very flexible in attitude and actions.
Being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile.
I look younger than my age. Guess I got good genes when it comes to my looks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: mostly fiction, historical fiction and the occasional trashy novel. Currently reading Americanah which is fabulous. Recently finished The Silver Star by Jeanette walls. Next is The Glass Castle by her. If you have a suggestion, I'd like to hear it. Always looking for a good read.
Movies: Anything other than violent ones. Usually see the big blockbusters in advance of the Academy Awards.
Music: almost anything, Rock N Roll and Jazz.
I keep up with the latest groups by listening to the radio as I travel around the Bay for my work.
Shows: Occasionally a play at Berkeley Rep or Curran, dance at YBCA or Zellerbach.
TV: Totally into American Crime right now. Like Downton Abby, Masters of Sex and on Netflix, Last Tango in Halafax. Love the premise of that. In the scheme of things, I really don't watch very much TV though.
Food: I like it all including Southern (really good fried chicken and bread pudding are favs) California cuisine, Thai, Burmese, Vietnamese, Japanese Mexican, American esp burgers and fries, pizza (Arezmendi). Can't do very spicy though.
Drink: A great glass of Pinot Noir.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Relationships/family, friends.
2. A valid passport so I can travel.
3. Baseball
4. Sunshine and warm weather.
5. Coffee in the morning and a little something sweet at the end of the day.
6. Daily exercise. It just makes me feel good.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world and why it is so messed up. The meaning of life. How to find you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually something fun like going to the de Young, a movie or dinner with friends. Sometimes its nice to stay at home and read or watch a movie. Baseball games during the season when the weather is warm.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My dentist says I have great teeth.
I am not afraid of commitment. I'm ready for it.
You should message me if
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You think that we might be a match and are interested in finding out more.
You live less than an hour from Oakland and are willing to share the driving.
You love dogs. I have one. We are a package deal.
Family is important to you. They are a big part of my life.
You have raised your children and they are no longer living at home or are on their way out.