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60 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 55–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:35pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For me, life is about relationships. I am fortunate to have a close group of friends and family nearby to share triumphs, travels and the ups and downs of day-to-day life. I would like to enrich my life with a love relationship – a loving, compassionate, and good- natured man who will contribute an added spark, laughter and joy to my life.

I am focused and very curious. There is more to me than meets the eye. I get excited about discovering and learning new things. I enjoy discussions about current events, philosophy, politics, art, music, movies and even religion. (see details to the right for my religious background). I have a soft and tender side that enjoys cuddling, snuggling and telling the one I love that I love him. Please be comfortable with this and have a desire to reciprocate. That is important to me.

I keep fit by going to the gym and for fun and recreation, I like to walk/hike, go to movies, museums, theater and concerts. Baseball is a passion. It would be great if you would share some of these activites with me.

I own a modest house in Oakland that I have lived in for over 30 years. On occasions I enjoy dressing up and going out on the town. I appreciate modest excess but live within my means. I usually take one major trip a year, recently have been to Italy, Spain, Africa, Costa Rica and Mexico. Next year I hope to travel to Viet Nam and Cambodia.

Though I don't put too much emphasis on astrology, I should mention that I am a Scorpio. True to my sign, I am a deep thinker and very passionate about much of what I do. I am also very up front about what I think and what I want in my life. You will need to be accepting of this.

My ideal relationship is one in which we are open and honest with our feelings, bring out the best in each other and find pleasure in sharing each others achievements and joys. We want to support each other when there are sorrows and disappointments and when we are not at our best. We can be silly and lighthearted and like to make each other laugh. Most of all we have an open heart and value what each other brings to our relationship. We are truly partners in life. How much better can it get?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to do my share. I volunteer weekly; sometimes with animals, sometimes with people. Right now it's people.

Enjoying the lovely weather but hoping for rain so I can flush my toilet more often and water my garden.

Working hard(ish) so I can travel. Some day I would love to take a long road trip the National Parks in this country.

Learning to accept joy and let go of fear! Living in the moment when I think of it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discovering the good in others.
Engaging in conversation and getting you to engage with me.
Working through the difficult stuff.
Being very flexible in attitude and actions.
Being a good friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile.
I look younger than my age. Guess I got good genes when it comes to that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: mostly fiction, historical fiction and the occasional trashy novel.
Movies: Anything other than violent ones. Boyhood was great! Usually see the big blockbusters in advance of the Academy Awards.
Music: almost anything other than R and B, country and rap.
I keep up with the latest groups by listening to the radio as I travel around the Bay for my work.
Shows: Occasionally a play at Berkeley Rep or Curran, dance at YBCA or Zellerbach.
Food: Anything. Southern (really good fried chicken and bread pudding are favs) and Creole, Thai, Burmese, Vietnamese, Japanese Mexican, American esp burgers and fries, pizza (Arezmendi).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Relationships
2. A valid passport.
3. Phone and computer.
4. Sunshine and warm weather.
5. Coffee in the morning and a little something sweet at the end of the day.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world and why it is so messed up. The meaning of life. How to find you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually something fun like going to the de Young, a movie or dinner with friends. Sometimes its nice to stay at home and read or watch a movie or baseball game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My dentist says I have great teeth.
I would like to be in a relationship that could lead to living together or even marriage. I am not afraid of commitment and hope that goes for you too.
You should message me if
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You think that we might be a match and are interested in finding out more.
You live less than an hour from Oakland and are willing to share the driving.
You love dogs. I have one. We are a package deal.
Family is important to you. They are a big part of my life.
You have raised your children and they are no longer living at home or are on their way out.