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41 M San Antonio, TX

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Last Online
Today – 1:22pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
July 19, 2014 (just came back on)

FRIENDSHIP FIRST 41, Male, 5' 11", Straight, Available, Hispanic (Ethnicity is not important to me, we are all human), San Antonio, TX 78207

I am not looking for something very quickly. I' I'm a father of four (two step/two biological but consider all of them my kids) and I am amicably divorced. I'm looking to first and foremost build a strong friendship with someone.

For the serious-serious ones. I am willing to meet for a friendly cup of coffee (any other drink but no liquor) of conversation in order to know one another better. If you live a couple of miles or more from me hopefully we can still meet somewhere half way.

I don't think I can be with anyone who doesn't feel romantic most of the time. I know that's what it is about me. I love to always (or at least, most of the time) be sweet to one another. Is that wrong... I know it exists... somewhere out there.... beneath the stars, the moon, and sky....something like that.
What I’m doing with my life
I look forward every day to wake up with a smile on my face and to make sure my kids live the best life that they can.

I want to have as much fun with one person for the rest of my life but I do feel that FRIENDSHIP FIRST is one of the most crucial things to do. As we text and talk more we will then know one another enough to go further.

I started going to church this year. I had go in the past but some how, I feel, got lost along the way. My kids and I now go on a regular basis. I have family that go to the same church and in my future I would hope that whomever I meet would eventually feel the pleasure of enjoy the similar situations together.

This past year I have been slowly moving forward with my life. It has given me a great deal of positive feelings. Always trying new things and always trying to better myself.

I am an electrician for now and the musician for life.

A note about being a MUSICIAN:
I am NOT the kind of musician that is always digging or going to different clubs. I wrote music for myself and just recently I've started putting them online.
I’m really good at
Talking, playing the piano (I'm kind of a simple writer/basic/folk like). Giving love in every which way possible. Listening. I'm really good with my hands.
The first things people usually notice about me
My deep voice and my long eye lashes. I've been told I look between 27 and 35. That's a plus, right?

Very talkative when I know someone better, I'm a touchy-feely type of guy. Very open minded (to a certain point, that is). Friendly. I am a gentle guy. Some say that I'm just a nice guy.

Some friends say I'm passionate, hopeless romantic, driven, daydreamer, intelligent, very good with direction (a map-head). Quirky and fun most of the time. I'm an extrovert, talkative. When I get really comfortable with someone I feel more at ease speaking with them. Some people say I don’t have a filter but I don’t think that’s entirely true, maybe a little. I am open minded.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Finding true love by Daphne Rose Kingma, Married for Life / Inspireations from those married 50 years or more." The five love languages" (the secret to love that laughs). by Gary Chapman
Daphne Rose Kingma's one of my favorite writers. The Bible. Anything having to do with commitment, staying together forever, helping one another through this place we call life.

MOVIES: (there are so so many but I'll add them later or check me out on Facebook).
I love most of John Hughes films… a fav… “Some Kind Of Wonderful.” I love both Starwars and Star Trak. I love mostly romances films…a fav… “Before Sunrise.” I love true stories… a fav… “Love Actually.” I also love Disney films, especially if it’s some kind of love theme like… "Frozen" "The Little Mermaid” "Lady and the Tramp.” I also love Pixar and dreamworks films. I also love "Corpse Bride" and “Tim Burton’s Nightmare Before Christmas.” Christmas is so wonderful, I know for sure. I love historical based film. Comidies too… "Say Anything..." - "Better Off Dead” - “The Dilemma.” I love Tyler Perry films… a fav… “thefamilythat preys" and "Good Deeds.” I Love Stephen King films …a favs… “Creep Show” - “Pet Cemetery” - “Shawshank Redemption.” Action in movies like the Lethal Weapon’s and The Fifth Element.” The Twilight Sage are to me, beautifully made films.

I love the scene on the movie "The Dilemma" (which I can't find on youtube and if you find it please sent it to me) where Ronnie (Vince Vaughn) give Beth (Jennifer Connelly) an engagement ring in the bag. And his take on HONESTY.

My Awesome MOVIES List (these are the movie I see again and again):

LoveActually, With Honors, The Legend of Billie Jean, Courageous, The Breakfast Club, The Time Traveler’s Wife, Fire Proof, Dead Poet Society, The Crow, Before Sunrise, The Girl In The Cafe, Once, A Walk To Remember, At First Sight, Sleepless In Seattle, The Prince of Egypt, Up, P.S. I Love You, Serendipity, Tuff Turf, The Neverending Story, Nick & Norah’s Infinite Playlist, Reign Over Me, Margot At The Wedding, The Shawshank Redemption, Slumdog Millinaire, Mud, Help, Standing Up, and add more later.

One of my favorite scene from the movie Love Actaully (I adore how the lady (in a red couch and white hat at the end runs and jumps on Hugh Grant, so lovely):

The latest movies I saw were The Host and Slumdog Millionaire. Both very good movies. I did love Slumdog Millionaire more because, of course, the love theme.

I've seen shows all my life. That's a lot of shows. I'll just put the most recent ones:
Seinfeld, Charmed, Scrubs, Everybody Loves Raymond, In The Bedroom (OWN), Friends, Extreme Makeover Home Edition (with Ty Pennington), Long Island Medium, Grey's Anatomy, Ghost Whisperer, Heroes, Criminal Minds, Grey's Anatomy, The Walking Dead (my kids and I watch it together), how i met your mother, the King of QUEENS, the office, CSI:Miami, What Would You Do, Undercover Boss, American Idol, DropDeadDiva, The Voice, The Big Bang Theory, 2 Broke Girls, The Mindy Project.


The Cure, The Cranberries, The Smiths, Morrissey, Pet Shop Boys, Duran Duran, Depeche Mode, Pimpinela, Adele, Pretenders, Alanis Morissette, TLC, The Smashing Pumpkins, Portishead, Damien Rice, Mazzy Star, New Order, George Strait, U2, The Police, Sting, Stina Nordenstam, Dave Matthews Band, Toni Braxton, The Ocean Blue, Tears for Fears, Christina Aguilera, R.E.M., The Beatles, U2, The Stone Roses, Billy Joel, Van Halen, Prince, Madonna, David Bowie, Sade, Mylene Farmer, Luis Miguel, Anything Box, Tracy Chapman, Tori Amos, Babyface, Enya, Enrique Iglesias, Kath Bloom, The Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Danny Elfman, Wendy MaHarry, Alejandro Sanz, Alicia Keys, Hank Dogs, Mana, Julieta Venegas. Some 80’s new wave groups that mostly have a few hits too. And so many more.
The six things I could never do without
Our Heavenly Father, my kids, my family, my music, my friends, and someone who can smile right next to me in my future. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Will there ever be someone for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
With my kids, family, my piano, or someone who deeply cares about me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If it's private, how would it be still private, if put it here.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're a...
Non-smoker… non-beer drinker…mixed drinks ok. I don't have any tattoos but I don't mind them... So long as they are not all-all over your body. Birth marks and freckles are nice. Once I know a person well I do joke around. I would not mind having more kids if my future partner wanted. Height is not particularly a big issue with me within my body type or smaller (in women that's smaller than me)… who would love to dance with me in the most silliest ways and serious too. Moving to or already at the direction of healthy eating. I am completely open to healthy eating because I know it will help me live longer with my future love. I also prefer to see a closeup face and head to toe photo (if you don't want to put them on here then email them to me). PHOTO must be clear, clean, and appropriate. NO NUDE PHOTOS PLEASE! (please cover the private parts at least, leave something for the imagination). Someone who can travel with me on vacation at least once a year. I would love little mini three day getaways. Someone who doesn’t use or doesn't need a lot of make-up. One who can just start acting silly, and sings with me without worrying about what everybody thinks. Must have a somewhat of a good bill of health (good skin, blood, bones). Someone who's also WILLING to workout themselves and with me (run together, hangout together, go to church together, walk together, hangout with family together, cook together, and play together forever). I know I have average on my body type but that's because I couldn't say I'm a little extra, I'm somewhere in the middle but I am losing weight. I want to weigh around 225, which I am 256 now. I've lost around 30 pounds in the last eight months.... sweet. It would also be a wonderful things to have someone who's sweetily motiving with lovable words, hugs, and kisses. I want to be about to come home feeling good and to be happier to do so. I want to always please my partner in every way possible with similar things in return (this can't always be perfect but I've always said a good relationship is one that has good communication). Willing to share one anothers past experiences in order to help our new friendship (of course, to a certain level too, we don't need inappropriate details that might hurt our future partner). ♥


If you're sincere and not afraid of sharing your life with someone then I'm here ready when you are.