Full Disclosure: Technically, I am still married, but will be officially divorced before 2014 ends. All the necessary documents have been filed and are being processed. However, I am currently living as a single dad. I wish OkCupid had a marital status option that says "legally separated". I am very open with my life. I just wish there was a way to help women realize that they still can just talk to me, at least get to know me while my divorce is almost done. Ask me anything or just feel free to read on.
Somebody told me here on OkCupid that in today's society people give up on marriage very easily. I disagree, because in this case, it was my ex - not I - who decided she did not want to be in a committed relationship, due to unresolved issues stemming from her past. And honestly we couldn't go on together anymore, we're meant for someone else. We have parted on friendly terms, and I truly wish her well.
I can stand here and tell you so many things about me but I would prefer the intimacy of a phone call or meeting in person. It's tricky to communicate emotion via texting and emailing. No amount of smiley faces in a text or emails compares to hearing the sound of one's voice, don't you agree?
I have been using this app called VIBER which is very much like Facebook messenger but it works with our cell numbers. So if you're open to that, my cell number is below.
I don't mind dating someone who is quitting smoking, but I prefer a non-smoker. I am not a regular drinker. I only enjoy alcohol to celebrate special events and holidays but even at that I can do without. I don't mind a few tattoos that are tastefully placed, but not head-to-toe. Birth marks and freckles are beautiful to me. You can be tall, average or short , but I do prefer a woman who is height/weight proportionate, or is making an effort to reach a healthy weight, or at least weighs less than me. Outward appearance is important, but I am also drawn to women of substance and good character. My ideal woman will possess natural beauty ( a little makeup is fine) and a virtuous soul, with just a hint of naughtiness ♥