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41 M San Antonio, TX

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:35am
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
DON'T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER :) Hello everyone! My name is Frank.

Full Disclosure: Technically, I am still married, but will be officially divorced before 2014 ends. All the necessary documents have been filed and are being processed. However, I am currently living as a single dad. I wish OkCupid had a marital status option that says "legally separated". I am very open with my life. I just wish there was a way to help women realize that they still can just talk to me, at least get to know me while my divorce is almost done. Ask me anything or just feel free to read on.

Somebody told me here on OkCupid that in today's society people give up on marriage very easily. I disagree, because in this case, it was my ex - not I - who decided she did not want to be in a committed relationship, due to unresolved issues stemming from her past. And honestly we couldn't go on together anymore, we're meant for someone else. We have parted on friendly terms, and I truly wish her well.

I can stand here and tell you so many things about me but I would prefer the intimacy of a phone call or meeting in person. It's tricky to communicate emotion via texting and emailing. No amount of smiley faces in a text or emails compares to hearing the sound of one's voice, don't you agree?

I have been using this app called VIBER which is very much like Facebook messenger but it works with our cell numbers. So if you're open to that, my cell number is below.

I don't mind dating someone who is quitting smoking, but I prefer a non-smoker. I am not a regular drinker. I only enjoy alcohol to celebrate special events and holidays but even at that I can do without. I don't mind a few tattoos that are tastefully placed, but not head-to-toe. Birth marks and freckles are beautiful to me. You can be tall, average or short , but I do prefer a woman who is height/weight proportionate, or is making an effort to reach a healthy weight, or at least weighs less than me. Outward appearance is important, but I am also drawn to women of substance and good character. My ideal woman will possess natural beauty ( a little makeup is fine) and a virtuous soul, with just a hint of naughtiness ♥
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I know I have stated a "little extra" on my body type but I am actively losing weight. I now weigh 240 (8-30-2014) which is closer to my goal of 225. I've shed a total about 45 lbs in the last year and a half... sweet. Awesome. Yes!

I love having fun with my two boys-making them laugh feels so good inside, and spending time and enjoying it with family and friends. I love going to church when we can. I just assisted setting up and decorating my sister-in-law's 2nd grade classroom, which looks awesome. ♥
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making conversation.
Being goofy and making friends and family laugh.
Playing the piano (I'm kind of a simple writer/basic/folk like). Giving love in every which way possible.
Being attentive.
Fixing things - I'm a very handy person to be around.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My deep voice and long eye lashes. I've also been told I look between 27 and 35. That's a plus, right?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ask me and I'll let you know. I've got more of this info on FACEBOOK

BOOKS: I like to mainly read books of so help.

MOVIES: I love watching movies. If you honestly could watch movies whenever then you just may be able to join me for one in the future. I have learned a lot from life from movies.

SHOWS: Many.

MUSIC: I love many different styles of music. Favorite group....THE CURE, MANÁ, and many more....I'm really liking the new group called Craft Spells. I have a large range of music from all over the world that I love.

FOOD: I love different cultures food. Very open to different foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
♥ My boys and my whole family ♥ being able to wake up at any time of the night and play the piano for the heavens ♥ having a good strong roof over my head ♥ to one day join with one lady for life :) ♥
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"The One", and if she will ever come around. Will she not be freaked out at my love. I'm extremely loving and affectionate, almost to a fault, ha ha.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With my kids, with family, maybe dabbling another tune out on my piano. And as great as that is, I am looking forward to finding the right woman to enhance those Friday nights with a little dancing (I do dance my butt off to new wave), good music, some talks over coffee, and canoodling. "Canoodling" is just a funny word that means to cuddling and kissing. ♥ ♥
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am a sucker for romantic films. Ladies, I am the guy who TRULY doesn't mind watching a movie like "Love Actually" and classic love stories like "Ghost."


I'm a work in progress.
I am bettering myself every day.
I am open to change.
I am very touchy-feely.
I've been told that my feelings are closely related to a girls feelings.
I've been told I'm the needy type but I have been working on it unless I can find someone who may fit nicely with me.

About me messaging: I will make certain attempts in messaging and if I get no response then I will delete conversation and unlike and just wait and see you they contact me. And if they don't then they do.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
♥ You are seeking friends to get to know, to laugh, to hangout with, to have fun, and to enjoy life.
♥ You are comfortable in your own skin and have goals and truly know what you want. Life is fleeting, and time is a precious commodity that I cannot waste on a woman who is not happy with herself and doesn't have faith in God.
♥ You understand that I have two wonderful sons that are a huge priority to me, so drama.
♥ You are looking for a good (but not perfect) man who is not afraid to show affection, and in fact loves to listen to what you have to say, and looks forward to cherishing every moment together, in the good times, and the bad. It is my belief that is what true love and devotion is all about...being there for everything. So don't hesitate to message me if you think your values align closely with mine. ♥
♥ If I were to meet somebody I would much rather hang out with them for a pretty good while in order to get some kind of a chemistry going and find out a lot of our likes and dislikes because I know that anybody could fall in love with anybody and I believe that to be true in any type of relationship. ♥♥

Now because of my busy schedule with my two sons I will no longer be on here so if you're extremely serious about even meeting find me on VIBER (app) or on Facebook (but please feel free to send me a message through here because I do get it by email). Have a wonderful lovely day.