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34 Nishi-ōkubo, Japan Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:22pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Working on Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids
English, Sign Language (Okay), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I notice these "about me" sections speak more about what we enjoy, rather than who we are. So, here is my feeble effort to capture "who I am" in a paragraph:

I'm a people person. People make me happy, humbled, inspired, and invigorated. In the absence of good company, no man can thrive. I find a great deal of pleasure in life and the many phenomena in it. My love of people and life is what dictates my ethics, rather than dogma. I'm honest because I would hate to live in a web of lies, with no true companions that love me for me. I'm far from perfect though. I have learned and grown by making plenty of mistakes. Oh yeah, and I think a lot, about everything!

Well, that is the best I can do to capture "me".

A little bit about my likes... I have eclectic tastes in food, music, and entertainment. I enjoy going to a ballgame as much as an opera. A visit to a museum, gallery, or symphony is food for my soul. I love live jazz and hole-in-the-wall music venues. I like badminton, hiking, yoga, and rock climbing. I like having random adventures and taking last minute trips. I play the ukulele and piano. I'm a foodie, but I try to eat health conscious most of the time. And yes ladies, I cook! A night in with a great meal and a good wine is heaven. I'm a wine and whiskey buff. So, if you like tastings and trips to Napa, then we already have a lot in common. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I travel, I play, I work. I'm living my life and experiencing the world. I'm not into money or brand image. I'd much rather take a long trip than buy a Mercedes.

I'm currently applying to teach in Tokyo.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening, compromising, learning just about anything, creative problem-solving, fixing things around the house and doing remodels, being a smart-ass.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I smile... A lot! Lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, Mary Shelley's Frankenstein, Mrs. Frisby and the Rats of NIMH, Poets Corner, or anything educational.

Shows: Mad Men, Walking Dead, Breaking Bad, and Game of Thrones.

I love movies, far too many movies to list them all. I especially love feel good movies. You know, the kind of movie that makes you feel humans have the potential to be good and kind and loving.
Some of my favorites are: Stranger Than Fiction, Sideways, As Good As It Gets, The Burbs, Sense and Sensibility, Love Actually, My Name is Khan, Amelie...

Food: I'm an adventurous eater. I'll try anything twice. some favorites are sushi, hot pot (Boiling Point), curry, Mediterranean, Italian and Mexican.
No fast food..except rarely an In-N-Out burger.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends and family
My iPhone (I wish it weren't so!)
My ukulele
Water!! The most delicious drink! I'm a fish... I love water.
Something to stimulate my mind (puzzles, problems, equations)
Good food (seriously! I tried living in England...couldn't hack it)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to survive a zombie apocalypse, project ideas, where I want to be in 5 years, ethics, the meaning of life, where to travel next, moving to another country...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Studying, having a small dinner party, or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sing... In the shower, in the car, and at a karaoke bar.
You should message me if
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You are sweet, spontaneous, and witty.

I am interested in potentially having a long-term relationship, but I want to build that over time. For now, let's get together, exchange some laughs and see if we have chemistry.