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Single4once84

28 / M / Straight / Single

Groton, Connecticut

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:41pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
**** Just made it through bootcamp at great lakes and recently relocated to Groton. My weeks are pretty busy but i'd love to find someone to show me around the area on the weekends! ****

Well if the screen name wasn’t enough of a hint I’ll just go ahead and say it, I’m recently single for the first time in well…. kind of ever. I’m the type though that figures you can either dwell on the past or move on and live your life to its fullest. I’m a big fan of grabbing what fun you can and having friends there to do it with, sometimes in more ways than one. I’ll be honest I’m not looking for anything too serious right now but I would love to meet someone who could get to know me outside of the bedroom as well. That being said I’m still a guy and am open to most things if you’re convincing enough (except guys, there is no way you can be that convincing).

On the personal side of things I’m college educated and well read. I can actually hold a conversation on substantial issues without staring at your chest the entire time (well ok I’ll probably at least peek). I’m also an avid outdoorsy type and well versed in everything from kayaking to wild edibles (it used to be my job actually) but I also enjoy a night out on the town with friends and I’m never against heading out for a drink or dancing.

On the physical side of things I’m 6” foot tall and built like a linebacker. I’m usually in the gym most days and I enjoy being physically active whenever possible. I’m into weight lifting but not the drugs sometimes associated with the sport. One nice bonus I’ve found that goes with this is very good circulation. In some ways, or perhaps places, I still feel eighteen…
What I’m doing with my life
That has been a subject of some debate lately... I was recently going back to grad school for teaching but I kinda did a 180. I'm now currently enrolled in the Navy and set to depart later this winter. I'm looking forward to a more unique life in the near future.
I’m really good at
* Picking up heavy things.
* Talking with complete strangers
* Making friends
* Being honest and forthright
* Making others laugh
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Michael Crichton (until he got weird) and so on. I read the entire Game of Thrones series so far and loved it.Rright now I'm currently on a Joseph Campbell and Alan Watts kick.

Movies: I like a wide variety of flicks and can find value in most films. That being said I love comedies and challenging mind bending films (Inception, Fight Club, etc.).

Shows: I don't watch a whole lot of TV anymore these days but I enjoy a bit here and there.

Music: Anything Alternative. I love Gannon's 90.5 station locally and listen to it all the time. I'm also a nerd at heart though so I do love me some NPR when I have the time.

Food: I'm not very discriminating here. I love to travel and have brought back an eclectic set of tastes. I enjoy cooking so it works for me but wow my kitchen looks odd at times.
The six things I could never do without
* Nature
* Travel
* Friends
* Books
* Love
* Duct-tape
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How well I would do in the Zombie Apocalypse...
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with a few good friends having fun.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
* Your'e looking to laugh and have a blast doing anything and everything
* You're looking to have a surprisingly deep conversation on subjects including (but not limited to) agriculture, politics, Philosophy or Monkeys.
* You know how to have fun and you would like a partner in crime
* You realize life isn't meant to be taken too seriously.