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43 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 28
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well here goes....

Once upon a time I was on match, I removed myself, and now I am here.... To put simply, it did not work out.

I am not sure what I am looking for. I trully wish I could say it was this or that, but to be honest, I do not know. I know that in the grand scheme of things, I want to be with someone, I want a relationship, I would like to be married.

I would like to try and date, take things slow, really get to know one another, and have either one of us be ok if we are not one anothers type. I do not want to interview you, and I dont want you to interview me, but I would rather we get to know one another by spending time together as friends, sure friends that like eachother, and want to know more.

Now I know physical is a part of it, so if you are not attracted to me thats ok, and you must be ok too if I am not attracted to you, people just like differnt things, and sadly, here on dating sites, you can only go by attraction first....

For me, its about the partnership, her and I against the world, I do not want someone to stand behind me, rather I want someone to stand next to me, and I will stand beside her as well. We should build eachother up, help one another achieve more, not knock one another down.

Most of all, I want to feel wanted. I will show you I want you, want to be next to you. Sometimes we can show it without saying it (words are nice too) let me bring you flowers for no reason, let me rub your leg while you watch tv with out asking me, let me make you breakfast before I go to work.

I also want something real. What do I mean by real? Simple, I am not going to try an impress you with anything, but rather I will show you who I am. I am someone who will open the car door for you on our first date, have you walk in the restaurant before me as I hold the door and on the second date, and even a year later I will still be doing the same. Yes, out of respect, but also because I want to. I will not take you to Taco Bell after we decide to be exclusive (unless you want too), I will continue tomorrow as it was yesterday.

I want someone who understands feels the same way I do, and treats her time, my time, and our time with respect. I want you to go out with your friends, I dont want you to give up who you are, as I am me, and I want us to support one another.

I want to share experiences, plays, musicals, movies, restaurants, martini bars, drives up the coast..... When I am at work or the drive home, and I am excited, I want to come home and share with you. I want you to share with me, share with me what excites you, what depresses you, what make you happy.

I can sit her and say I like moves, walks on the beach, candle lit dinners, breathing air, well these are the staples in life, I better like these things, you too I hope, so lets do them together!

I know I started out saying I dont know what I want, but who trully does? I want to find out, I want to try, not just sit and wish.

If I may say, I am tired of making excuses, justifying the life I live, the cars I drive. I am truly sorry if you feel I am less of a man because of what I have or do.

Well, if you made it this far, thank you for taking the time to read through a really long profile :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Living every moment the best I can, trying new things, sometimes, taking a break and staying home. but for the most part, curious about life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Nerdy stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends if my hair is in a point or not, and what car I am driving, and if I am in a suit or not.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Seing others happy
Jack n the box tacos
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No two fridays are typical, it can always be different
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am super hero like batman, that is, we both dont have special powers, just neat stuff, and an assistant, although, my assistant is not the same as boy wonder.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You DO NOT have pics of your kid(s) looking like a gang member next to you. (I dont care if its a pic of his first drive by, or if they finaly graduated by the age of 24, you can be proud, I dont have to be)
You are not offended by the line above.
You dont hang out with people who wear their sun glasses on their forehead or wear d-bag hardy clothing.
You do not smoke cigerets at 6am outside the front door, when you have a back porch
You do not refer to yourself in the third person
You have not been on dating sites for over 4 years
You like KFC Coleslaw
You know Kettle vodka is NOT a top shelf vodka
You are not in your PJ's more than half the day
You are 100% positive that you and your friends dont wear d-bag hardy clothing
Your eyebrows are thinner than mine
All your pictures here are not over 1yr old
You do not keep secrets about an alternate lifestyle
You do not drink wine out of a box
You just want to go on a drive and hit dive bars