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25 Birmingham, UK Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 10
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hey! My name's Matt. Born in Finland, raised here! Currently enjoying the view from my city centre apartment.

My favourite thing in the whole world is gathering together a group of special people, and heading out to some of the best trance music raves europe has to offer.

I live for a variety of creative pursuits, including music production, DJing, freelance graphic design, sound engineering, and writing/publishing.

I'm a music producer, DJ, and graphic designer. I'm signed to several labels covering house and trance music.

I also write lifestyle articles for AskMen and other male lifestyle websites.

I graduated from the Birmingham Institute of Art and Design in 2011, with a degree in Visual communication and graphic design.

I've done pretty alright considering I once swallowed a two pence coin during a heated battle of Pokemon cards. Sometimes I think it gave me super powers.

Speaking of super powers, if I could have one it would be the ability to fly. Simply because I'd love to annoy people by leaving their garden ornaments on the roof.

I'm musical, artsy, motivated, introspective, playful, optimistic, philosophical, hedonistic, and excitable.

My personality type is ENFP!

I've been making music for around 12 years and so far I've been successful, with my music getting lots of airtime on BBC Radio one, and gigs across the UK and europe.


I'm rather extroverted. I love the opportunity to passionately exchange ideas with people, though I don't feel the need to dominate every conversation. I enjoy listening for long periods just as much as speaking for long periods.
I'm a socially energised person and I enjoy seeing people having a good time and doing well. I tend to lead social situations and ensure everyone is enjoying themselves.
I'm confident, very open, and I always have time for anyone wanting to chat. My larger than life sense of humor really shines when I'm telling stories.

I've been involved in poly relationships in the past, including an MFF triad. That said, polyamory isn't my life, and I don't consider myself poly. It's more of a by-product of being open, genuine, non-jealous and sex-positive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Drinking energy drink.
Dancing to the music in my head.
Beatboxing. Boom-tiss-Boom-tiss.
Listening to the same song OVER AND OVER.

The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and my headphones.

I can tell if someone likes me, because they'll comment on how dark my eyes are. It's something you don't really notice until you're holding strong eye contact.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Reading non-fiction is a big passion of mine. I read about 8 books a month, so far I've read up on social and behavioural psychology, body language, neuro linguistics programming, relationship dynamics, music production technology, mixing and mastering electronic music, and books on the the philosophies of Hedonism and Taoism - particularly Hedonism.

And I have a rather large collection of design books to help get my inspiration going.

A small selection of my favorite musicians includes:
Armin van Buuren
Andrew Bayer
Above & Beyond/Oceanlab
Mat Zo
Jody Wisternoff
Super8 & Tab
Oliver Smith
Ummet Ozcan
Carbon Based Lifeforms

If you've heard of more than one or two of the above I have a drink with your name on it waiting at the nearest bar.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First things first; Trance music. I honestly cannot tell you how much enjoyment and support trance music has given me over the years. It's my oldest friend and my form of meditation. It might sound silly but this noisy music genre has had more influence on my life than anything else.
Trance music has been a love of mine since before I could talk, and so the values, themes and expression the genre perpetuates have influenced me as I grew up and are now responsible for my happy outlook on life and my generally sunny disposition. It is a core part of my identity, and it leads my life decisions.

You don't have to feel the same about trance music to gel with me, just trying to understand my passion is enough.

Other than that:
My hearing.
My computer.
Rockstar Energy drink.
My headphones
And a hell of a lot of sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up late. Either because I'm out DJing, in the studio working on music, or writing another article!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My first job was as a trainee massage therapist in a small local beauty spa when I was 18. I have around 150 hours training in various massage techniques. Nothing quite like making a pretty girl melt. :)
You should message me if
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You're looking for an adventure in both heart and mind.

Honestly if you managed to read everything up to here, you deserve a prize.