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32 F Shanghai, China

My Details

Last Online
Jun 2
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Be prepared to be wowed by the best profile ever! Ok...maybe not the BEST, but top 10?

Actually, I'm not the most eloquent of writers, but I think I'm pretty good at making lists, so here is a list of some random stuff about me!

1. I LOVE to eat! And I grew up in a household where we had to eat everything on our plate and I can't shake the habit.

2. I have the tendency to say things without thinking first. This has gotten me into some awkward situations and has made friends question our relationship.

3. I have allergic reactions to liars, suck ups, men who sing show tunes in bars, socks with sandals, slow taxi drivers, fast taxi drivers, Shanghai's air quality, arrogant people, cats, reality tv shows, that guy who always break dances in clubs, shopping, black Twizzlers, cold weather, people who talk about themselves ALL THE TIME, and the smell of bleach.

4. Despite my "allergies", I'm pretty optimistic and can find the good in (almost) any situation.

5. I find it painful to run for exercise, but I can't seem to stop doing it!

6. I have the bad habit of tuning people out if it's a boring conversation, but will continue to be polite, nod my head and time the appropriate "Oh really?" (you know you've done it, too)

7. I'm a great listener despite my previous comment.

8. I love saving money and talking about money and finances. I don't know why, I just do.

9. When I grow up, I want what a lot of other people want: to run/own a hostel with a bunch of friends and live near the beach, of course.

10. I'm looking for a guy who's not afraid to bust a move on the dance floor (even if you can't dance) or hold my hand in public. Someone to be honest with me when I make an ass of myself, tell me when I have food in my teeth, make me laugh even when I don't feel like it, give back to others, and buy me lots of pretty diamonds (just kidding...rubies will do).

I can't end my self-summary without a cliche quote! Carpe diem quam minimum credula postero.
What I’m doing with my life
Just taking it day by day! Trying to enjoy whatever life throws my way.
I’m really good at
I think I'm good at making people feel at ease and I'm quite a good listener.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Middlesex is my favorite book and I'll pretty much read anything that's recommended to me or what's really cheap on my Kindle.

Currently finished reading Jane Eyre, Admission, The Road, Siddhartha, What I Talk About When I Talk About Running, Ultra Marathon Man

Up and 50 First Dates are my favorite movies (and Pitch Perfect, but I don't admit that to too many people)

I love The Office, Breaking Bad, The Wire, 30 Rock, and Modern Family

Shakira will always get me on the dance floor (while others choose to leave). Fun. always puts me in a good mood!

I could eat pizza, sushi, cheesecake, and mangoes every day until I die!
The six things I could never do without
My alone time
Dental floss
Hot running water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I've been trying to think about nothing. It's a lot harder than I thought.
On a typical Friday night I am
I used to be at Happy Hour with my friends! But just relaxing at home is starting to be more and more tempting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I once tried peeing like a boy. That did NOT work out the way I thought it would.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You just want to hang out or go for a really slow run!