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33 M Bellingham, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:39pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I'm a music junkie, a dark beer lover, an analytic philosophically-minded person, a bohemian fool. I have a few great friends, and a great many acquaintances. I'm happiest engaging people in small groups, getting into deep conversations, and making obscure references few people understand.

I'm INFJ, for those in the know.
What I’m doing with my life
I spend about half of my waking moments inhaling.

The other half I spend paying the bills through anonymous pseudonym-published writings online and on-call IT work. This gives me a lot of free time at home, which I spend listening to music, marathoning TV shows, reading, or occasionally writing. I'm currently at work on a novel which promises to be both intensely personally rewarding and god-awful, and I'm super happy with it.
I’m really good at
Music trivia. Process optimization. Troubleshooting. Listening to people who need to be listened to, without passing judgement. Chess (maybe not really good, but most people who've played against me won't play against me any more, and I'm always looking for new challengers :P).
The first things people usually notice about me
Most comment on my eyes. Others on my size -- I'm a husky build, heavier than I look but I carry it well. I'm working on making this a less-obvious trait. I'm either intensely quiet or embarassingly loud, depending on how well I know the people around me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorites over the last year:

- Generosity, Richard Powers
- 1Q84, Haruki Murakami
- The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Douglas Adams (but I read and love this every year)

- Moonrise Kingdom (anything Wes Anderson, really)
- Crazy. Stupid. Love. (It's a default 'there's nothing on' choice)
- I Heart Huckabees

- Breaking Bad
- Dexter
- Doctor Who

- Pond - Beard, Wives, Denim
- Opossom - Electric Hawaii
- Field Music - Plumb
- Plants & Animals - The End of That
- Asoflate - Widows & Orphans
- Boat - Setting the Paces
Seriously, if you know and like any of these, we should hang, or at least talk about it. I dig trading music advice with strangers; it's how I've built the collection I have. will have up-to-date info regarding this matter.

- Pizza
- Bacon
- Chicken
- All of the above
The six things I could never do without
My guitar, though it's a simple home hobby.
My record player/collection.
Good conversation.
Dark beer (no IPA's!).
Evergreen trees.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Ethics. In the general, philosophical sense. I'm intrigued by the debate between relative morality and universal morality, and by the layperson's ingrained moral sense, and thrilled by puzzles which seem to throw one or the other into focus.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spinning records and digging on Black Butte. I don't do the bars on Friday, too crowded -- Wednesday's my "out" night, and I'll usually be at the Up & Up.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a very, *very* mild case of cerebral palsy. It doesn't affect me much, and most people don't notice, but it's still a large part of who I am.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
No if. You just should. I'm all about getting to know random people and figuring out what makes them tick. Especially if you can hold up a conversation, or if you want to go have one over coffee and/or cheap beer. I don't bite.

I'm always looking for new friends, activity partners, especially if you want to go hiking around the trails here or need a workout buddy. I would be stoked to find a fellow insomniac who wanted to help invade Anytime Fitness at 3am and help me encourage my stomach-buddy to be more fit and lean.

If you want to be pen-pals... The real kind! Actual pen(cil) and paper handwritten letters over snail mail. I haven't done this in a long time, but last year I started corresponding with some old friends and it was fantastic enough to make me want to share it with some new ones as well.