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29 Houston, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:22pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Good day! My name is Carl.

When people say, "Don't be that guy" they are usually talking about me. Being 'that guy' requires me to be the only person wearing board shorts, sandals, and a polo at a company happy hour or saying something off-the-cuff that I shouldn't have but needed to be said. Regarding music I enjoy ambient, jazz, & anything '80s and despise anything released past 2003 with a few notable exceptions. I have a passion for the Asian culture, specifically China and find it important to share that passion with others. I love marine and oceanic life. Being laid back, I also walk slow trying to take all of life in.

The only way I know how to get to a good relationship is a deep connection. Perhaps its as simple I listening to music and analyzing the lyrics or watching the Matrix and understanding abstract philosophical concepts about society.

I am perfectly comfortable staying at home, watching a movie, cooking together, as opposed to going out a lot. I am an alpha personality looking for a delicate, quiet balance that is simple, yet deep. If I haven't scared you away, I hope to hear from you!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a former management consultant temporarily in procurement trying to get into consumer insights/ analytics. I enjoy my job; however, I have an interest to work in target marketing and segmentation for Yum! Brands and perhaps become a global business strategist for multinationals located in China and the United States.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Arguing, Shotokan Karate, Cooking, Swimming, Surfing, Swing Dancing, Ballroom Dancing, Tailgating, BBQing, Relaxing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Extroverted, deep, ambitious, intelligent, compassionate
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I read non-fiction mostly; right now reading "What Color is You Parachute" and "Career Warfare." If I am up for a good story, I'll just play a fantasy roleplaying videogame.

Music: Van Halen, Transiberian Orchestra, Snow Patrol, Sade, Run DMC, Quincy Jones, Queen, The Police, Poison, Ozzy Osbourne, O.A.R., Moby, Miles Davis, Glenn Miller, George Michael, Eagles, Donna Lewis, Chris Botti, Burt Bacharach,Billy Idol, The Beach Boys, Pink Floyd, AC/DC, Classical, Big band, Jazz, Fourplay, John Cougar Mellencamp, Sting, Ayumi Hamasaki, Wham!, Vince Guaraldi Trio, Toni Braxton, U2Stray Cats, Sneaker Pimps, Michael Bublé, Brian Setzer, 80's, 陳綺貞, Louis Armstrong, Little Dragon, Guns N' Roses, Bobby Darin, Boston, The Eagles, Delerium, Frank Sinatra, Hanz zimmer, Journey, John Williams, Nobuo Uematsu, Gorillaz, Vivid, Instrumental, Opera, Death Cab for Cutie, Glen Miller, John Coltrane, Simon & Garfunkle, Tony Bennett, Celine Dion, The Postal Service, Jeff Kashiwa, Dave Koz, Elvis Costello, Elvis Presley, David Bowie, Def Leopard, Richard Marx, Patrick O'Hearn, Enigma, Vangelis, Dr Didg, Gorillaz

Movies: The World of Suzie Wong, Wall Street - Money Never Sleeps, Lost in TranslationDogma, Toy Story 3, Pretty in Pink, The Notebook, A Walk To Remember, Toy Story, Star Wars, Wall Street, Little Shop Around the Corner, The Breakfast Club, Batman: The Dark Knight, 16 Candles, Predators, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Gattaca, Final Fantasy VII: Advent Children, Pan's Labyrinth, Mallrats, Autumn in New York, Corpse Bride, The Rocky Anthology, Pirates of the Caribbean trilogy, Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet, Edward Scissorhands, Garden State, Prince of Persia: The Sands of Time, The Odd Couple, A.I. Artificial Intelligence, Vanilla Sky, Sleepless in Seattle, Bloodsport, Grindhouse, Stalag 17, Kill Bill, Roman Holiday, Predator, Indiana Jones, Cube 2: Hypercube, Finding Nemo, Monsters, Inc., Gladiator, Braveheart, The Good, the Bad and the Ugly, Phantom of the Opera, Casablanca, Frankie and Johnny, Heaven Can Wait, Four Rooms, A Christmas Story, It's a Wonderful Life, A Christmas Carol, Ducktales: the movie, Doctor Zhivago, Life Is Beautiful, ChocolatWe're No Angels, Weird Science, An Affair to Remember, Love Actually, House of the Flying Daggers, Moonstruck, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Cinderella Man, Citizen Kane, Singin' in the Rain, Memoirs of a Geisha, Big, The Hidden Blade, King Kong, Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind, Spirited Away, Fearless, The Lake House ,Princess Mononoke, Howl's Moving Castle, The Protector, Apocalypto, Disney movies

TV shows: Spartacus, The Big Bang Theory, Entourage, Burn Notice, Archer, Red Eye w/ Greg Gutfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Scrubs, South Park, How I Met Your Mother, Seinfeld, Tosh.0, Desperate Housewives, According to Jim, Everybody Loves Raymond, The King of Queens, Cheers, Fox News, Two and a Half Men, Beavis and Butt-head, Even Stevens, DuckTales, Chip n' Dale Rescue Rangers, Garfield and Friends, Fresh Prince Of Bel-Air, Fraiser, The Boondocks

Food: Up for anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, water, sleep, clothing, shelter, and music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Society, economics, politics, love, music
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, maybe having a drink on my patio...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I fear being alone.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Because I am a relaxed person, I do not work well with "type A" people, workaholics, or addictive personalities (unless you are addicted to me :D). I have a tendency to attract very professional (and selfish) "type A" women and no longer have a desire to date such women. I want a girl that I can relax with, not compete with. I am not the guy for you if you are overly proud of your independent nature and "don't need a man."

In the end I need someone that enjoys talking about complexity, who doesn't mind if I tell her truths, even uncomfortable truths. I need a girl who I don't have to tip-toe around, who I don't have to worry about saying one thing and it meaning another.