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31 F South Bend, IN

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 21–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:20pm
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly halal
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Well, first of all, I think I'm HILARIOUS!! And smart. I think being smart is what makes me hilarious - I've got the whole 'sharp wit' thing going. I also think this makes me fun to be with - what's more fun than being around someone who keeps you entertained with funny stories and ridiculous dance moves, right?
In a relationship I tend to be quite a care taker. I'm not co-dependent or a door mat, I just enjoy taking care of the people that I love.
I'm a natural introvert. This means that while I enjoy going out, I need quiet home time to recharge.
I value honesty and chivalrous behavior. I truly hate when someone lies to me, even when it's over something inconsequential or to be funny. It makes me feel like I can't trust anything that person says. Ever.
Frankly, I think I'm a catch. I'm confident, fun, cute, smart, funny, loyal, organized, healthy, empathetic, logical, fair, experienced, level-headed, communicative, and open. I'd love to find someone who can recognize and value these traits in me.
About You:
You are fun and confident. You don't need me to constantly tell you you're great because you already know. You just like to hear it from time to time from the people you care about. You don't need to be taken care of or looked up to, you just want to be comfortable and companionable with someone you enjoy and who enjoys you.
You're happy. You're not waiting for this or that to happen to get you to contentment, you know the only way to be content is to create that yourself.
You like actually doing things: going to museums and festivals and out to dinner and the movies. You don't need money for enjoyment, you need enjoyment to make the money worth anything.
You're optimistic and always seeking joy. You love to laugh and play.
You aren't ashamed of love and romance. You don't play games. You're tired of the little white lies, the hints, the cloak and dagger shenanigans that 'the dating game' entails.
You're honest by default. You're ready to love someone else because you're already good at loving yourself.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've recently embarked upon what I like to refer to as a path of sexual discovery. I am allowing myself to explore and experiment with anything that attracts me or that I'm curious about. So far I've found that I enjoy being submissive and that I enjoy sharing my experience right now with more than one person. I also have a profile on - I'm SirenAbbe there, too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking care of people and animals. Word puzzles. Criticizing movies. Explaining how to do something. Saving money. Finding good parking spots. Making up ridiculous dance moves.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I try to make people laugh when I'm nervous, which I usually am when I meet someone new. Usually people think I'm funny first, then notice that I'm nice and caring, etc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I LOVE audiobooks - they're the perfect multi-tasking tool. I can always get into Agatha Christie and Laurie R. King. I try to slip some classics in there at least occasionally, although I've found a few highly over rated. I at least want to know what everybody's talking about. I have to admit to owning the entire Harry Potter series as well as Twilight - and enjoying them immensely.
I go in for lighter fare as far as movies go. Romantic comedies, psychological thrillers, historical dramas, and the like. I am definitely not interested in horror or violence. Life is horrific enough on it's own, I don't need to spend my precious entertainment time on it as well.
Music is like air - yes please, keep it coming. Trying to specify is just too difficult.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First- the obvious list: God, air, water, food, sleep, love.
Second - the list that actually tells you something about me: Burt's Bees chapstick, soy milk, Reese's peanut butter cups, lotion, the library, and flip flops.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Winking. It makes me weak in the knees. Why is this? Actually, I don't care why - I just like to think about the winking......
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Snuggling in for a good night of rest. PJ's, audio book, my flip flops.....ahhhhhh..... Of course, I would be willing to change my habits. I suppose having activities to do could be equally long as there was someone to have fun with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I got married too young (for me). That ended with a divorce. Lesson learned. Let's just count that as a practice run...
Also, I'm weirded out by men who describe themselves as 'curvy'.
You should message me if
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Ooh, yeah, message me. I love getting messages. It's like getting mail. Sure, maybe it's a bill but maybe it's a card. Or a check. Or a card with a check in it!