Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Well, first of all, I think I'm HILARIOUS!! And smart. I think
being smart is what makes me hilarious - I've got the whole 'sharp
wit' thing going. I also think this makes me fun to be with -
what's more fun than being around someone who keeps you entertained
with funny stories and ridiculous dance moves, right?
In a relationship I tend to be quite a care taker. I'm not
co-dependent or a door mat, I just enjoy taking care of the people
that I love.
I'm a natural introvert. This means that while I enjoy going out, I
need quiet home time to recharge.
I value honesty and chivalrous behavior. I truly hate when someone
lies to me, even when it's over something inconsequential or to be
funny. It makes me feel like I can't trust anything that person
Frankly, I think I'm a catch. I'm confident, fun, cute, smart,
funny, loyal, organized, healthy, empathetic, logical, fair,
experienced, level-headed, communicative, and open. I'd love to
find someone who can recognize and value these traits in me.
You are fun and confident. You don't need me to constantly tell you
you're great because you already know. You just like to hear it
from time to time from the people you care about. You don't need to
be taken care of or looked up to, you just want to be comfortable
and companionable with someone you enjoy and who enjoys you.
You're happy. You're not waiting for this or that to happen to get
you to contentment, you know the only way to be content is to
create that yourself.
You like actually doing things: going to museums and festivals and
out to dinner and the movies. You don't need money for enjoyment,
you need enjoyment to make the money worth anything.
You're optimistic and always seeking joy. You love to laugh and
You aren't ashamed of love and romance. You don't play games.
You're tired of the little white lies, the hints, the cloak and
dagger shenanigans that 'the dating game' entails.
You're honest by default. You're ready to love someone else because
you're already good at loving yourself.
You can see yourself ending up with someone like me: whether it's
race or religion or sexuality or anything else. If you're
uncomfortable with something that I am then we're not going to be
right for each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've realized that I'm at the point in my life where my number one
goal is starting a family. I don't want to just play around any
more. I know I want a partner. The search is on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking care of people and animals. Word puzzles. Criticizing
movies. Explaining how to do something. Saving money. Finding good
parking spots. Making up ridiculous dance moves.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I try to make people laugh when I'm nervous, which I usually am
when I meet someone new. Usually people think I'm funny first, then
notice that I'm nice and caring, etc.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I LOVE audiobooks - they're the perfect multi-tasking tool. I can
always get into Agatha Christie and Laurie R. King. I try to slip
some classics in there at least occasionally, although I've found a
few highly over rated. I at least want to know what everybody's
talking about. I have to admit to owning the entire Harry Potter
series as well as Twilight - and enjoying them immensely.
I go in for lighter fare as far as movies go. Romantic comedies,
psychological thrillers, historical dramas, and the like. I am
definitely not interested in horror or violence. Life is horrific
enough on it's own, I don't need to spend my precious entertainment
time on it as well.
Music is like air - yes please, keep it coming. Trying to specify
is just too difficult.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
First- the obvious list: God, air, water, food, sleep, love.
Second - the list that actually tells you something about me:
Burt's Bees chapstick, soy milk, Reese's peanut butter cups,
lotion, Audible, and flip flops.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Winking. It makes me weak in the knees. Why is this? Actually, I
don't care why - I just like to think about the winking......
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Snuggling in for a good night of rest. PJ's, audio book, my flip
flops.....ahhhhhh..... Of course, I would be willing to change my
habits. I suppose having activities to do could be equally fun...as
long as there was someone to have fun with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I got married too young (for me). That ended with a divorce. Lesson
learned. Let's just count that as a practice run...
Also, I'm weirded out by men who describe themselves as 'curvy'.
You should message me if
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Ooh, yeah, message me. I love getting messages. It's like getting
mail. Sure, maybe it's a bill but maybe it's a card. Or a check. Or
a card with a check in it!
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