Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Alright, I'm re-doing this SHORT this time. It seems when I carry
on and make it too long it tends to scare people away. So I'm gonna
try for quick and blunt and you can feel free to ask me anything
you want and I'll be more than happy to chat.
I'm 35 years old andI own my own house and I do not go out and
party or hang out at all hours of the night. No drugs at all and
alcohol is VERY seldom if any. I try to take care of myself by
eating healthy and going to the gym. I'm most comfortable hanging
out at home and relaxing, but I would like to find someone I can go
out and do things with but also relax at home most of the time. I'm
the type that looks for the silver lining in every situation and
tries to make the best of any circumstances. I feel that everything
happens for a reason and the harder it is the better person you
will be once you make it through. I enjoy making people laugh and
can be a bit of a goofball who can make light of any situation; but
I'm also very serious when I need to be and am very responsible. A
big kid at heart but also very grown for my age after everything
I've been through in life. I do have a daughter that I raised by
myself since she was 2, but she's almost 18 now and is out on her
own. So any potential significant other should not worry about
that. She's out of the house and there would be no interference
with my personal life at all.
I'm a romantic at heart and I've always been the relationship guy,
not the serial dater. I'm either single for a very long time or in
a serious relationship for a very long time. Still looking for the
right person to spend my life with. I'm sure I'll know when I find
her and I'm very hopeful. As cliché as it sounds, she'll be like my
best friend that I'm always happy with even when we're mad. We can
talk to each other about anything and we always make each other
laugh. While I'm admittedly a home body most of the time, I do
enjoy outdoor stuff very much also. It's been a while but I love
camping, hiking, fishing, and other things to do with nature. It
would be nice to have someone to do those types of things with but
not a necessity.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently own my own house and I have my degree and have been an
accountant for the past 10 years. I pretty much work and catch up
on my DVR when I'm not in the gym and that's about it. I never
really go out and haven't been into drinking since I was a
teenager. I know I'm boring lol but I'm looking to build a life
with someone and I'm in a pretty good spot to do that now. I'm
pretty much settled and content and hoping to find someone to enjoy
spending time with, whether it be out doing things or relaxing at
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making People Laugh / Sarcasm / Joking - I'm a natural jokester
(I'm happy if I can make you smile). Conversations - I'm a good
listener and I enjoy intelligent, meaningful conversations. Giving
Advice - I naturally tend to see all angles in every situation and
I'm pretty good at giving advice from an outside perspective or
from my own experiences. Numbers - I'm an Accountant (definitely
not your stereotypical though). I'm also very perceptive and can
read people very well; my first impression of someone is usually
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Always my damn dimples lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Book - Favorite Book ever is Swan Song which is basically like
Stephen King's "The Stand". I also used to be big on Dean Koontz
but its been a while. I used to read all the time but haven't in
quite a while. I have recently read The Hunger Games and part of
Catching Fire (originally for my daughter's sake but they're not
too bad and I actually like the movies).
Movies - Wayy too many to name. I'm a big movie buff and love many
movies from all genres. I'd have to say comedies and horror are my
favorites though. I can watch movies all day any day.
TV - There are way too many to name but the first to come to mind:
Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Spartacus, Smallville, Supernatural,
Heroes, Prison Break, Criminal Minds, Archer, Family Guy, South
Park, Falling Skies, American Horror Story, Grey's Anatomy, The
Black List, The Following, Revenge, Grimm, etc.etc. I can go on all
day. And yes I do like Anime too (I know I know, don't hold it
Music - I can deal with anything ... Except Country. I grew up on
rap / hip hop, but the crap they come up with now-a-days is
ridiculous so I find myself liking 80's and 90's Rock/Soft Rock and
Old School Stuff. Hell I even like old Metallica (but only a few of
the classics) lol.
Food - Anything healthy. The less sugar the better and the more
protein the better.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My Daughter
- A job
- My Health
- A nearby gym
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- I mostly just want to be happy in life. I want my kid to have a
good life and I want to keep moving forward. To be not only
financially comfortable but emotionally happy as well.
- What do I have to do to find that RIGHT lady to be with? Someone
that I can completely be myself with and she can with me. Someone
that I couldn't imagine living without. Someone I can trust without
any doubt and who can trust me just the same.
- And why the hell did I use THIS as my username? Its my original
email I created when I was 14 and now just makes me look like a
total creep ... I'm really not though trust me I tried to change it
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out at home watching movies or season marathons. Possibly
at the gym or occasionally I bring my work home with me if there's
too much to finish at the office.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm really a big dork inside with a bit of a goofy side. Business
and maturity on the outside and a big kid at heart.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You made it through this damn novel I just wrote and I haven't
bored you to death and you think you might be interested.
- You thing we'd be a good match. You can enjoy hanging out home
just as much as going out doing something together.
- You like to laugh and can hold a decent conversation
- You're Mature above all else, not the party all the time type, is
ok hanging out at home relaxing and watching movies, ... did I
mention to please be Mature and not overly dramatic?
- You'd like to talk to a guy that isn't your typical pig of a guy.
You're looking for a serious relationship with a serious person ...
or even just a friend with a possibility of more.
- I would prefer someone who understands proper English and grammar
and knows how to spell properly. It would be great if you
understood the difference between: Two, to, and too ....Your and
You're .... Quit, Quiet, and Quite ... There, Their, and They're
... Through and Threw .... Right and Write ... Weather and Whether,
etc. etc. I do have a teenage daughter so some of the latest lingo
that drives me crazy has rubbed off on me personally a bit so I
understand and don't expect everyone to be perfect lol. It just
always gets my attention when someone actually still understands
proper grammar is all. Brains and maturity in a woman are just as
attractive as looks.
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