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  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 4:14am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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Once upon a time I lived in LA*, but then I packed all my things up in a Ryder van held together with duct tape and a wish and bounced up the coast to Seattle. After two years hiding out in the northwest woods, I decided it was time to wring out my clothes and attempt a hasty re-entry into Los Angeles. This is one of several cross-country moves. I've also lived in Chicago and Austin, and the only thing that I can surmise from my apparent inability to pick a home is that I really love packing everything I own into a 12x8x7 foot space and conducting it along the great Eisenhower Interstate System. Though, I'm happy to be back and am having something of an LA Renaissance, so I'm hoping this is the last of the great cross-country moves. Though international is still totally on the table.

I work in a reality television, so yes, I'm one of the people helping to destroy America. I talk too much and at length about things that I only kind of know about. I read widely and absurdly. I'm a writer, a musician, and a performer, therefore I chastise myself for not spending enough time strapped to my computer actually plugging away at the manuscript or otherwise pursuing my vocation. I played noise rock and punk in college, so my hearing is punctuated by a shrill E chord. I adore the outdoors, so I try to hike every couple of weeks and want to start doing it a whole lot more - not to mention I desperately need more camping in my life. And I'm as neurotic as a 1970s Woody Allen. If a 1970s Woody Allen wanted to be anywhere near mountains and trees and potentially wild animals.

* I'm very sorry for beginning with "once upon a time." It was completely unnecessary and a little weird.
What I’m doing with my life
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What am I doing with my life? Thanks OK Cupid, now I'll be up all night critically replaying every moment of my past.
I’m really good at
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Gosh, so many things... so many things. So many.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Oh, God. You'd have to ask them. I'd guess it's if it's not my dashing good looks and erudite charm then it's my abrasively loud and obnoxious laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Graham Greene, A.S. Byatt, Margaret Atwood, John Fowles, Haruki Murakami, the DeLillo that I've read, Cormac McCarthy, Jeanette Winterson, recently Helen DeWitt, and a whole slew of others.

Movies: The Tree, American Beauty, There Will Be Blood, Network, Amelie and much much more.

Shows: The West Wing, Sports Night, Six Feet Under, BSG, Carnivale, and Arrested Development, of course. I think the mini-series is probably the greatest format ever invented for television.

Music: Clanky, rocky, loud, noisy, soft, folksy, indie, awesome, moving, swirling, ecstatic and huge, intimate and soft, epic, everlasting, dismissible, fist-pump-inducing, languid-dream-sleep-inspiring.

Food: Cheese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, Water, Shelter, Clothing, Companionship, and Rationalizations.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
It's a constant barrage of noise up there. If I stopped to think about what I'm actually thinking about*, I'd get lost in some sort of feedback loop and cease to exist.

*Please. No need to quote Inherit the Wind... unless you really want to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing typical Friday night things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Gosh, so many things... so many things. So many.
You should message me if
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It seems like you should.