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35 Umeå, Sweden Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 31
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
High school
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am often quiet and withdrawn. Being around people can make me uncomfortable and exhausted, but I still want to do it as much as possible. I like to think things through carefully and plan for the long term, but I despise being confined by plans and preconceptions. I think I have answers to every question, but I have never kissed a girl. I want everyone to read what I write and give me feedback, but I can hardly put two words together when anyone asks me what I think about anything. Basically, I'm a person. With Asperger's.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
There's two things I want: To finish my book and to meet you, the wonderful woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Stories. Extrapolation. Straightforwardness. Caring. Priorities.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I never seem to know what I should say. I may drop extremely personal information without warning. I mean, my mom died last year and I'm still not sure how to feel about that. Also, I tend to mumble when I speak.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A lot.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I do not own six things I could never do without. Property is not something I want to control my life. There are things that are important to me, but they're not things that could really be taken from me; language, imagination, people, music, stories, the sky.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I probably don't spend enough time feeling or doing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home, writing, maybe taking a break to walk down by the river, possibly watching a movie with a friend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know how to measure the privateness of my personal information, but I can try: My dad, who was absent for a large part of my life, has asked me to define what relationship I want to have with him, and I have absolutely no idea how I'm supposed to know that.

I think that I spent so much of my childhood learning to adapt to circumstances I had no control over, and having no idea that having control over them was a thing that could exist, that being allowed to tell someone if and how much I want them in my life is unimaginable to me.
You should message me if
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If you don't want to play games. If you want to have and to give yourself to someone to grow old with, to have a life together with, to explore the boundaries of reality and imagination together with. If you can see a possibility for love. If you're as lonely as I am. If you read my blog at and still want to.