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Skaramax

58 M Bellingham, WA

My Details

Last Online
Aug 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Law
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Latin (Okay), French (Poorly), Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I like to think of myself as a multifaceted person with intricate and subtle personality traits - but the short version is:

I'm a humanist.
I'm a hedonist.

And I have a rather pronounced sex drive, with tastes that range from everyday "vanilla" sex to very esoteric and kinky (perverted?) practices. I've been into BDSM my entire adult life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Since I am self-employed I work a lot; my spare time is devoted to kinky sex, reading, writing, walking, and furniture-making. And I do attend social affairs at least once a week: Parties, music theater, BDSM events, cocktail parties and the like. I have traveled extensively - dozens of countries on three continents.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My profession.
Sex.
Writing & reading.
Political and philosophical discourse.
Well, I guess I'm good at the things that I like and do often....
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Positive outlook on life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Sci-fi: "The Mote in God's Eye."
Biographies: Cronin, "Napoleon;" Fest, "Hitler."
Philosophy: St. Thomas, "Summa Theologica;" Hobbes, "Leviathan;" Locke, "Two Treatises on Government;" Marx, Engels, "Das Kapital."

Movie:
"Amadeus."

Show:
Richard Wagner's Ring Cycle

Music:
Uriah Heep, "The Magician's Birthday" (God, that was tough - I love virtually all kinds of music...)

Food:
Grand Cuisine / Haute Cuisine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex
Books
Intellectual conversation
Good food and wine
Physical activity (i.e. walking, furniture making... yanno?)
Sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to enhance the quality of my life, the lives of those I touch, and the lives of those who touch my life. Always, I strive for the better and finer things in life: better and finer food, better and finer sex, more sophisticated and rewarding discourse, and the like.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, or out on the town, or writing. Or in bed (use your imagination...).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can show my feelings openly, and do so frequently. It was hard, at first.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you want to know me better;
- like to engage in kinky sexual practices (not necessarily with me) or are curious about them;
- enjoy a good conversation; and
- fit the description of who I am looking to meet.