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41 M New Haven, CT

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:23am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Used up
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I'm a single divorced guy with one teenage boy. He doesn't live with me. He hasn't lived with me in a few years, it's just easier on him this way. We spend an awful lot of time together. It's too late in the game for drama. Not really sure what I'm looking for here. Just have some extra time lately and would like to spend it with someone. I have jobs and an ugly reliable car and am extremely low maintenance. Good cook, not a slob, not a smoker or a heavy drinker. Not interested in marriage, I've just been down that road and I'm not really interested. Maybe hard to find, but I'm looking for someone with the same interest. Having something in common is pretty important.
What I’m doing with my life
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HVAC Installation, analyzing golf swings, hot dog vending, driving, cutting grass, cooking, drafting, sitting, listening, fixing things and fathering.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at a lot of things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Shows....not much
Books.....I've read a lot of books. Way too many to list. I enjoy Biographies and Research.
Movies...Documentaries, comedies and 80s flix.
Food.........Yes I like food. I eat mostly healthy. I have my moments. I was the athletic type. I'm 6 ft tall, and my weight can hover between 280 and 300. Put it this way, I'm a lot heavier than I want to be.
Music....I like most music. So, I'll list some of what I don't care for. Classical, Opera, Jazz, Heavy metal, Gospel, Enka, Dirty South and Polka. I more likely to listen to Pandora.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I've lived without out most of these....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My son's graduation can't come fast enough. He's in his last year of high school.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking about Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not so private.
You should message me if
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Your Funny.
Your not bi.
Your not married or separated.
You don't live really far away.
Your profile pic is actually you.
Your willingness to text a little before we meet. If your around my age then you understand, time is not on our side. (I love it when all of a sudden the profile is missing........Really?)
You think the match percentages are stupid. Those questions change depending on the day it is.
You've deleted your profile more than once.