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40 M Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a singer, massage therapist and DIYer. I've been here for almost two years, but grew up in Olympia, WA, college in Pullman, WA and Portland, OR for over a dozen years.

I can be a big nerd, dorking out on how to turn an old propane tank into a camp stove, turning 20lbs of persimmon into wine, researching the best route of hammock setup for my next hang, all while learning new massage techniques.

I love making things. I've made cheese, roasted coffee, countless batches of beer, kombucha, and wine. I've been spotted with a circular saw, scheming out a gray water setup, rebuilding the Craigslist popup camper I bought for $40...I have a hundred projects and feel useless if I'm not working with my hands.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm working as a massage therapist throughout the LA area, building up to a point where I can own my own space and fill it with talented health care practitioners.

I'm trying to always figure out what motivates me. I've worn so many hats over the years, by way of different careers, and wellness and health have been what motivates me.

I'm trying to do a hike and overnight camp once every month and explore the area.

Lately, I've been working on my 80s motorcycle. The biggest job so far was rebuilding the carburetors.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm really good at figuring you out. For example, you just narrowed your eyes at this profile.

Spot on, huh?
The first things people usually notice about me
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Some say I look like a young Paul Newman, but it's usually the standard "eyes" most people get.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Robert A. Heinlein and Philip K. Dick -they have some great novels and short stories. Orson Scott Card and Larry Niven have also inspired me.

I listen to a wide range of music, but veer toward Tool, Gavin DeGraw, Brandi Carlile, Black Keyes and Queens of the Stone Age. I subsisted on James Taylor for awhile in my youth, then rock got its hold on me.

I was lucky enough to work as Security at a great music venue in Portland and saw some cool music come through. One of my favorites was Colin Hay.

Like a lot of people, I'm enjoying Walking Dead, but it's been screechingly slow at times. Also, after all that time, wouldn't you be jumpy as hell? I want to see them duck when pin drops. Game of Thrones, Fringe was awesome, American Horror Story and so on.

Mexican food, Italian, Thai, Indian, Bar Food (sparingly), and I'm usually down to try something new. Being fed is important.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2-Patience with traffic
3-Sharing art with others
4-A good beer
5-All variants of getting outside to camp, run, cycle, golf and more (I got greedy on this one)
6-My memory
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think the alien apocalypse is more likely than the zombie apocalypse...we need to plan!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the neighbor's house for whiskey and trivia (essentially at home) or at a local dive bar with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm using all of your music interests to look up some new shit! So far, it's hit or miss...thanks a lot. Oh, and I never got past season 2 of Breaking Bad. I know, I know, but it was their job to hook me in.
You should message me if
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You'd like to meet!
I'm not interested in dinner out for a first date. I'm into a coffee or a beer, then see how things roll out with conversation.
You have similar passions, but not the same in every way. I'd rather not date a carbon copy of myself. Ugh... Who wants to date that guy? Oh, wait...
You're a funny, nerdy girl with a great heart.
You like a man with strong hands.

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