I soon discovered that pugilism and boxing were altogether different; and that I'm a lover not a fighter.
Seriously though, I am relatively laid back. I'm doing things I enjoy and have a mostly stress-free and happy existence. I have friends of all ages and feel comfortable talking with almost anyone.
Dating can be fun in of itself, even when it turns out there isn't chemistry. It's all about expectations. My expectation is just to meet someone and have fun getting to know them. If there is chemistry, then all the better. I think it would be great to meet someone I might fall head over heels for, but I think it is a mistake to expect that or to think that is a prerequisite for a happy and healthy existence.
Here on okcupid, I used to believe Match % is at least as important as anything that can be gleaned from pictures or a one page profile. I thought Match % is more 'honest'. However, I've met a few really awesome people who were relatively low matches, so I might be changing my tune. I still put some certain faith in the math, but you'll never really know until you get into the same room ;)