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54 Clinton, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:36pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm an active, smart, physically fit, artistic, literary, fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, fit, attractive, vibrant women 35-59 or so, with whom I share values, interests, fun times and activities.

I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of guy with a good sense of humor, and I like women who enjoy being feminine.

Physical fitness is very important to me, so if you're not into it or not willing to get into it, I think you'd find me hard to take.

I'm in a long distance poly relationship that leaves me with a lot of "alone time". I have room in my life for someone else or for more casual relationships.

My partner is willing to verify that I'm not out cheating on her.
What I’m doing with my life
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In the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.

Which is strange, in a way, because I also have a MFA in creative writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly nonfiction.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic" (Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia), physically fit
The first things people usually notice about me
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Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the Gates.

Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, many more to be added to this list later

Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Adele, many more to be added to this list later

Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au vin, whole grains

Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physical fitness, innovation in health care, the evolution of society and culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out with to have some fun. Either that or a good dinner and movie or cultural event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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If you think we might be able to enjoy each other's company, sharing laughs, adventure and quiet times.

If you're an adventurer.

Anyone needing confirmation that I am in a poly relationship, not out cheating, and that I am available for a long term relationship can have it from my partner for the asking.