Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an active, smart, physically fit, artistic, literary,
fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, fit,
attractive, vibrant women 35-60 or so, with whom I share values,
interests, fun times and activities.
I am not looking to be someone's one and only, but I am looking for
long term romance and companionship. Please be familiar with the
I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As
such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of
guy with a good sense of humor, and I like women who enjoy being
I am in an open marriage (my wife is willing to verify that I am
not out cheating and that we are both poly.)
There is an excellent and balanced article about polyamory on
Wikipedia. I recommend it to you. There are also quite a few books
on the subject. If you're interested, I'll suggest some titles.
Assuming that you're curious, the most informative website is
lovemore.com, which lists many resources to help understand this
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
In the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.
Which is strange, in a way, because I also have a MFA in creative
writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic"
(Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia), physically fit
The first things people usually notice about me
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Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the
Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, many more to be
added to this list later
Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Adele, many more to be
added to this list later
Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au
vin, whole grains
Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physical fitness, innovation in health care, the evolution of
society and culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out
with to have some fun. Either that or a good dinner and movie or
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you think we might be able to enjoy each other's company,
sharing laughs, adventure and quiet times.
If you're an adventurer.
Anyone needing confirmation that I am in a poly relationship, not
out cheating, and that I am available for a long term relationship
can have it from my partner for the asking.
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