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60 M Hampton, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–60
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:37pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Active, smart, physically fit, artistic, literary, fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, fit, attractive, vibrant women 35-60 or so, with whom I share values, interests, fun times and activities. I'm up for friendship or a committed relationship. Bisexual or straight women equally encouraged to contact me and us.

I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of guy with a good sense of humor. Most sarcasm goes over my head, and I won't be subjecting you to a lot of banter. I hope that works for you.

I should add though that I enjoy standup comedy, which thrives on sarcastic, self-deprecating humor. I just don't enjoy sarcasm as a form of passive agression. I note this because so many women on this site mention that they love sarcasm in a partner...can't get my head around that.

For the past six years, I've been involved with a woman in Ireland. It's been a successful, fun-filled and pro-growth relationship for us both. We have decided to allow each other to have other intimate partners in a poly framework--so far it hasn't happened.
What I’m doing with my life
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In the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.

Which is strange, in a way, because I also have a MFA in creative writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly nonfiction.
I’m really good at
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Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic" (Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia), physically fit
The first things people usually notice about me
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Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the Gates.

Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, many more to be added to this list later

Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Adele, many more to be added to this list later

Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au vin, whole grains

Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physical fitness, innovation in health care, the evolution of society and culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out to have some fun with. Either that or a good dinner and movie or cultural event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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the spirit moves you.

If you are brave, courageous and bold.