59 Somerville, NJ
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My self-summary
Successful, dynamic and active! I'm also a hopeless romantic and looking for a forever polyamorous partner that lives in this country.

Full disclosure, if you're hoping to find your one and only soul mate, read no further, and I sincerely hope that your quest is successful.

If we drop the "one and only" part, we have common ground. I am looking for a nontraditional, committed relationship with the right woman,

If you're just interested in friendship, that is always nice to have.

I'm an active, smart, creative, literary, fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, fit, attractive, vibrant women 35-62 or so, with whom I share values, interests, fun times and activities.

I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of guy with a good sense of humor, and I like women who enjoy being feminine.

Physical fitness is important to me, so if you're not into it or not willing to get into it, I think you'd find me hard to take. You don't need to be a fanatic or a gym bunny, though.

Not looking for marriage. Please be familiar with the concept of polyamory. There is an excellent, balanced article about it on Wikipedia that discusses the pros and cons. If you've read this far, I'm excited to hear from you.m
What I’m doing with my life
In the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.

Which is strange, in a way, because I also have a MFA in creative writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly nonfiction.
I’m really good at
Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic" (Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia)
The first things people usually notice about me
Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the Gates.

Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, many more to be added to this list later

Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Neil Young, many more to be added to this list later

Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au vin, whole grains

Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon
The six things I could never do without
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
La condition humaine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out with to have some fun. Either that or a good dinner and movie or cultural event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
You should message me if
If you think we might be able to enjoy each other's company, sharing laughs, adventure and quiet times.

If you're an adventurer.