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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:55pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Has kids and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm an active, smart, physically fit, artistic, literary, fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, fit, attractive, vibrant women 35-59 or so, with whom I share values, interests, fun times and activities.

I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of guy with a good sense of humor, and I like women who enjoy being feminine.

Physical fitness is very important to me, so if you're not into it or not willing to get into it, I think you'd find me hard to take.

Please be familiar with the term "polyamory". I have room in my life for the right woman for a committed, romantic long term relationship, or for more casual relationships if that is what you desire. Friendship always comes first.

My partner lives in Ireland and cannot move here for child custody reasons. She is now dating, so this would be very balanced.
What I’m doing with my life
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In the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.

Which is strange, in a way, because I also have a MFA in creative writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly nonfiction.
I’m really good at
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Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic" (Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia), physically fit
The first things people usually notice about me
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Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the Gates.

Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, many more to be added to this list later

Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Adele, many more to be added to this list later

Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au vin, whole grains

Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Physical fitness, innovation in health care, the evolution of society and culture.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out with to have some fun. Either that or a good dinner and movie or cultural event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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If you think we might be able to enjoy each other's company, sharing laughs, adventure and quiet times.

If you're an adventurer.