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55 Bridgewater, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35-62
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 3:57pm
Relationship Type
5' 11" (1.81m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm an active, smart, physically fit, artistic, literary, fun-loving man looking to connect with intelligent, fit, attractive, vibrant women 35-62 or so, with whom I share values, interests, fun times and activities.

I'm a war veteran and a survivor of 9/11 in lower Manhattan. As such, I'm an empathetic, down-to-earth, sincere, masculine type of guy with a good sense of humor, and I like women who enjoy being feminine.

Physical fitness is very important to me, so if you're not into it or not willing to get into it, I think you'd find me hard to take. You don't need to be a fanatic or a gym bunny.
What I’m doing with my life
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In the healthcare and pharmaceutical industry.

Which is strange, in a way, because I also have a MFA in creative writing. Working on a novel and have published a lot of scholarly nonfiction.
I’m really good at
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Public speaking, writing, wine selection, having the "craic" (Gaelic -- look it up on Wikipedia)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Deep blue eyes, kind of a baby face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Life of Pi, Schindler's List, AI, Sixth Sense, Enemy at the Gates.

Books: Crime and Punishment, Maltese Falcon, 1984, many more to be added to this list later

Music: Love Beethoven, Lady Gaga, Bach, Adele, many more to be added to this list later

Food: pasta bolognese, Asian fusion, a good steak, venison, coq au vin, whole grains

Shows: Les Miserables, Miss Saigon, Book of Mormon
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food and wine, getting out in nature, the time to sit and write
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
La condition humaine.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to find a good place to go and the right people to go out with to have some fun. Either that or a good dinner and movie or cultural event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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You should message me if
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If you think we might be able to enjoy each other's company, sharing laughs, adventure and quiet times.

If you're an adventurer.