I am in a happy polyamorous relationship. I adore my primary
partner. I'm not actively seeking new connections but I am open to
meeting new people and exploring possibilities.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a good job in government that keeps me interested, engaged
and challenged, most of the time. I'm trying to add more to my life
outside of work. I've been working out (not that I look like a
weight lifter). I enjoy hiking, kayaking. Writing is my creative
outlet. I have been meditating though this hasn't become a regular
I’m really good at
My job. Writing. Listening. Empathizing. Communicating. Making
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm intelligent, easy to be with, compassionate/empathic,
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Recently read Sex at Dawn which was awesome.
Movies: It's a Wonderful Life, many others
Shows: The West Wing, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Breaking
Bad, Game of Thrones
Music: A range of music - lately: Ray Lamontagne, Fleet Foxes, Iron
and Wine, Wilco
Food: Mexican, Thai, Sushi, Indian
The six things I could never do without
I'm not sure how many thing I could NEVER do without. The things I
never want to do without include:
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, social issues, and sometimes sports. Spiritual and
On a typical Friday night I am
Tired, but still up for going out for dinner, a drink, and even
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll answer almost anything if you ask, but I won't put my biggest
secrets out there unsolicited.
Having said that, I'll admit that I'm a voyeur. That doesn't mean
I'm a peeping 'Tom' or that I'm here to collect naked pics. It
means I like people-watching. I'm not just a visual voyeur. I like
meeting new people and learning about their lives. I guess that's a
little of what brings me to this site.
You should message me if
If you're open to alternative relationships and are not attached to
monogamy and possessing the people in your life.
If you're looking for someone who's authentic, intelligent, honest,
compassionate, fun and funny.
If you're in Victoria.