I am upbeat, thoughtful, and authentic.
My Self-Summary
Looking for an adventurous lover of life who is confident,
dependable, intelligent, honest, gentle, affectionate, passionate,
loving & kind, values integrity & character, knows what he
wants, & has either figured out/or is seeking his
purpose.
Self-description: Kind, caring, passionate, generous, giving,
funny, friendly, grateful, introspective, intuitive, affectionate,
honest, adventurous, responsible, dependable, loyal, value
integrity & character, optimistic, joyful, truth seeker, open
minded, good listener, respectful of myself & others, value
peace & serenity
Why you should get to know me: I'm a great person, and a wonderful,
considerate friend. And I'm sure you are, too.
What past relationships have taught me: That every being has worth,
value, & purpose, and is deserving of respect, love, and
compassion. That there are many paths, all leading to the good
& true. That we are all connected in the global community. No
single deed or individual operates in isolation... every
thought/word/deed has a ripple effect. That God is good, loving,
accepting of all, & dwells in all of us. We are powerful beings
who are here for a purpose. That when we know better, we have the
responsibility to do better. That there is only love and fear, and
love heals all and transforms lives. That the triumph of man arises
from his mistakes. That we should learn from the strong and
courageous, and from those who live in spite of everything. There
is beauty in everyday things. If we are grateful for the things
that we have, the Universe gives us more and better; conversely, if
we do not value what we have, those things are taken away. That
happiness is a conscious choice.
Some of the most important things in my life: Relationships,
surrounding myself with good energy -- a loving & supportive
circle of friends & family. I'm also passionate about social
issues, and volunteer at a local homeless shelter. Love spending
time with my dog.
My idea of a great trip: Love to travel, especially off the beaten
path. Love ocean, mountains, nature, 360 degree sky.
Description of a perfect day: One of my favorite days was spent
with a small group of dear friends hiking in Montana. Once at the
peak, we spent the remainder of the day enjoying the warmth of the
sun, the stunning blue skies, the majestic range views, and most of
all each other's company.
One final thing I'd like to mention:
Time is a precious commodity... I plan to make the most of this
wonderful life.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Music: Classical, Classic Rock, Contemporary, Folk, Jazz, Oldies,
World
Favorite movies: Love funny, upbeat adventures, grand epics, love
rooting for the underdog, stories about triumph of the human
spirit. Too many faves to list them all, but, a few are: Color
Purple, Great Debaters, Shawshank Redemption, Green Mile, Matrix,
Must Love Dogs
Books & Authors: Avid reader with lots of favorites including
Amy Tan, Sue Grafton, Carol Ione, Lalita Tademy, Toni Morrison,
Maya Angelou, Sue Grafton, Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum series,
Kaye Gibbons' Charms for an Easy Life, Bailey White, Jennifer
Weiner, Marian Keyes, AJ Jacobs' Know-it-All, Adriana Trigiani.
The six things I could never do without
1. Love, hope, & joy
2. Bringing joy to someone's life/making a positive
difference
3. Family, friends, community
4. Peace of mind/a clear conscience
5. The beauty of nature & an appreciation for the
arts/creativity
6. An inquisitive mind & adventurous spirit