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Skyydreamer

46 / F / straight / Single

Stafford, Virginia

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English, Occitan

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I am upbeat, thoughtful, and authentic.

My Self-Summary

Looking for an adventurous lover of life who is confident, dependable, intelligent, honest, gentle, affectionate, passionate, loving & kind, values integrity & character, knows what he wants, & has either figured out/or is seeking his purpose.

Self-description: Kind, caring, passionate, generous, giving, funny, friendly, grateful, introspective, intuitive, affectionate, honest, adventurous, responsible, dependable, loyal, value integrity & character, optimistic, joyful, truth seeker, open minded, good listener, respectful of myself & others, value peace & serenity

Why you should get to know me: I'm a great person, and a wonderful, considerate friend. And I'm sure you are, too.

What past relationships have taught me: That every being has worth, value, & purpose, and is deserving of respect, love, and compassion. That there are many paths, all leading to the good & true. That we are all connected in the global community. No single deed or individual operates in isolation... every thought/word/deed has a ripple effect. That God is good, loving, accepting of all, & dwells in all of us. We are powerful beings who are here for a purpose. That when we know better, we have the responsibility to do better. That there is only love and fear, and love heals all and transforms lives. That the triumph of man arises from his mistakes. That we should learn from the strong and courageous, and from those who live in spite of everything. There is beauty in everyday things. If we are grateful for the things that we have, the Universe gives us more and better; conversely, if we do not value what we have, those things are taken away. That happiness is a conscious choice.

Some of the most important things in my life: Relationships, surrounding myself with good energy -- a loving & supportive circle of friends & family. I'm also passionate about social issues, and volunteer at a local homeless shelter. Love spending time with my dog.

My idea of a great trip: Love to travel, especially off the beaten path. Love ocean, mountains, nature, 360 degree sky.

Description of a perfect day: One of my favorite days was spent with a small group of dear friends hiking in Montana. Once at the peak, we spent the remainder of the day enjoying the warmth of the sun, the stunning blue skies, the majestic range views, and most of all each other's company.

One final thing I'd like to mention:
Time is a precious commodity... I plan to make the most of this wonderful life.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Music: Classical, Classic Rock, Contemporary, Folk, Jazz, Oldies, World

Favorite movies: Love funny, upbeat adventures, grand epics, love rooting for the underdog, stories about triumph of the human spirit. Too many faves to list them all, but, a few are: Color Purple, Great Debaters, Shawshank Redemption, Green Mile, Matrix, Must Love Dogs

Books & Authors: Avid reader with lots of favorites including Amy Tan, Sue Grafton, Carol Ione, Lalita Tademy, Toni Morrison, Maya Angelou, Sue Grafton, Janet Evanovich's Stephanie Plum series, Kaye Gibbons' Charms for an Easy Life, Bailey White, Jennifer Weiner, Marian Keyes, AJ Jacobs' Know-it-All, Adriana Trigiani.

The six things I could never do without

1. Love, hope, & joy
2. Bringing joy to someone's life/making a positive difference
3. Family, friends, community
4. Peace of mind/a clear conscience
5. The beauty of nature & an appreciation for the arts/creativity
6. An inquisitive mind & adventurous spirit