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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:47am
White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
English, French (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I dance, design, create, curate, write, sculpt, costume, construct, instruct, travel, learn, move, grow, laugh, and love.

I'd love to connect with a complementary merman for creative cahoots & lasting partnership and certainly amazing platonic friends to join the journey. No crisis though. I'm looking for best friends first.

Ones who are caring for the Body Temple, living one's gifts, loving one's life. Filled with optimism & integrity...

Those who are Cool in the head and Warm in the heart. Ones who know that one in a million chances happen 9 times out of 10 when the heart is dedicated.

* Although I currently hang my hat in Lost Angeles and have for many moons, it doesn't own me. I'm open to the adventure. Nothing is tying me down. Really!

I've had the great privilege of growing up on my grandfather’s forest and farm in Pennsylvania, working and eating from the land, and feeling one with it... With beautiful woods and places to roam and I would love to return to a simpler, greener, rainier place. I was just visiting, adoring, and considering New Orleans. Loved it!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Co-creating, thought and beauty provoking, inspiring, liberating, keeping and rediscovering traditions... Dancing, moving, building, designing, art making, performing, culture jamming. Adoring my beautiful, hand-made, fun-filled life!

I live for European paced days, love to work & create in the world, yet savor delicious meals, relish a siesta, dance a Hasapiko. I love ripe salted tomatoes from my garden, power tool projects, night-time skinny dipping, my legs in black seamed stockings, silent walks on snowy nights...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wicked come-backs.
Scintillating conversation.
Finding a way out of no way.
Hitting a straight lick with a crooked stick.
Singing in harmony.
Drawing up the plans.
Coming up with a better scheme.
Winning the costume contest.
Sinking the shot after never having played.
Dancing with pure abandon.

Shooting from the hip.
Calling it like I see it.
Cutting through the red tape.
Remembering the ancient traditions.
Finding the words that heal our contemporary confusion.

Speaking volumes without a word,
with just my hands and eyes.

Reveling in the curve of my Love's jawline and clavicle,
hands and scent.
Sleeping skin to skin,
coiled in deep dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friends say (I asked!):
"Wonderfully creative...
Every part of her dances....
She has eyes like deer...
Curves like a mermaid...
Apertura y entrega total a la vida".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Dance & Music: Traditional, Contemporary, Ambient, Electronic, Funk, Blues, Roma, Rai, Tunisian, Algerian, Afrobeat, Afro Brazilian/ Caribbean/ Haitian, Moroccan, Egyptian, Turkish, Andalusian, Transylvanian, Greek, Gypsy, Tanoura, Dervish, Russian, Georgian, Historical, Hula, Hokey Pokey, the Hustle! Aretha, Nina, Etta, Bessie, Emmylou. Whatever moves me.

Recommended Reading: Harville Hendricks, Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth: Her Stories and Hymns from Sumer, The Way of the Superior Man, My Side of the Mountain, Women Who Run with the Wolves,Tagore, Rumi, Mirabai, Hafiz, Neruda, Nin, Brezsny, Jung, Campbell, the I Ching. I love to read up on psychology, science, cosmology, physics, metaphysics, archaeology, anthropology, gender, neuropsychology, and on and on...

Art: arte povera, street art, folk art, installation art, environmental art, public art, interactive art, temporary art, performance art, Indigenous art & architecture, artful gardens, eco art, elements of BRC, Wilmarth's glass orbs inspired by Mallarme, Banksy, Doris Salcedo's cabinets, Marina Abramovic's crystal brooms, the yearning spaces in and poignant details in Andrew Wyeth's works, humming colors in early Rothkos mysteries of Maya Deren.
Art that is a gift, not an imposition.

Cuisine: French everything! Carbonara, bolanese, gnocchi, souvlaki, perogi, bulgoki... Turkish kofte, Moroccan chicken with pickled lemon and olives, Cajun Crab boils, Tartare, platanos maduros. Basil, parmesan, olive oil, red wine, repeat. Anything made with pleasure and love. I hope you are a BRILLIANT cook and want to make me fat and happy!

Favorite outings, travels, moments:
Roaming Powell's Books or SF's Brides of March, the Philae Temple or the Temple of Juno, steaming in a Turkish hamam or hot springs in the forests of Oregon, hiking the woods of Washington, Half Dome, or across a Roman aqueduct in the south of France, running barefoot in summer thunderstorms, sled riding, or making snow angels.

Dancing at a Goran Bregovic concert, music festival, or Moroccan Palace, delighting in a Louise Bourgeois sculpture exhibition, at the de Young or Wim Wender's film Pina. Discussing TED talks, new theories and ancient wisdom. Playing hide & seek and ghost in the graveyard.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dance ecstasy & creating beauty.
Celebration, liberation, expansion.
Moonlight. Starlight.
Succulent food that makes me moan.
Elegant line & movement in art, dance, design, & music.
Travel that reminds me of the kindness, intelligence, and beauty of the world,
Relationships that make me laugh and LAUGH!!!
The wilderness, forests, and rain.
Love, the Erotic Arts & soulful sensuality.
Disregarding the rules...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next art pieces, designs, choreographies, travels. New decor and improvements for the yurt I built - no I don't live in it, but I could... ;)

The invisible world (scent, data, sensations, spirit, synchronicity, pleasure, desire, joy, dreams, ideas not yet birthed), our inter-woveness with the natural world, solutions to seemingly difficult dilemmas, bio-mimicry, sacred economics, kindness in communication, but less time thinking, and more time living.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going Commando!

(On any night I may be creating, dreaming, soaking, shaking it, laughing, reading, writing, prowling the streets, roaming the hills, jumping bonfires, gazing at the cosmos, savoring it).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sure I'll wear impossibly tall sexy shoes for you, as long as you carry me around all night.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would be paradise to come home to.

You have teeth in your head.
lots of them!
Natural pearly white ones.
And you use them.
You are happy and FUN!

And you have a mouth!
That makes complete wonderful intriguing descriptive sentences!

And you have muscles.
And you use them.
And hands
That want to hold me.
And you want to use them to work with me - to create something brilliant and beautiful: a design, a concept, an art piece, a garden, a travel itinerary, an action plan!

You are completely creative, collaborative, conversational, hilarious, loving and capable of having a lasting, dedicated partnership.

You know better than to try to wrap your head around a woman;
You wrap your arms and your heart around her.

You are a pragmatic mystic.

You have your head in the clouds!
Feet on the ground!

(Translation: while you are delightfully creative, you have your act together physically, financially, emotionally, socially and soulfully, thereby well equipped to put your work and wonderful relationship into reality).

Your words are Golden.

(That means your profile is 100% true
and you keep your Word.

We know where you headed
by what game you playin....)

Your heart is Open.
Your heart is Happy & Light!

YOU are a Beauty and a Beast!
You look with the Eyes behind the eyes.

YOU don't want to kiss the mirror;
You want to kiss another.

You are not begging door to door for a cup of water.
You are standing with me, at the bank of the river.

You are a well traveled, well read, well mannered, and a HEALTHY, FIT, FUN AND FABULOUS citizen of the world, planning another adventure abroad, learning & growing, dancing & camping, playing & creating.

You are as quick as a whip,
but would never DARE to sting me with it. Wh-tchhhhhh!!!!

You want to take me to, Funky Town!

You've got soul, and everybody knows, that it's alright. Yeah. It's alright.

You have your camping bag, ruck sack, and travel gear ready to roll!

You are living life as an ecstatic pleasure, an infinitely pleasurable game, not a finite game.

You do not want a charade of a princess!

You want a Chariot, a Lightning Bolt,
a Robin Hood, a Creatrix, a feline, a falcon, a force 5, a fawn...

You want a Quantum Leaper and a Pioneer Heart.
You want Mardi Gras and Hallelujah.

You don't just "love" women: you - through your words and ACTIONS- respect, support, encourage, elevate, honor, adore, and inspire us.

You want to snuggle and love because you are a Lover....

You are smart enough to realize that I'm not interested in a casual anything. For this to work you need to be hi-fidelity & low drama. If you have an addiction to the adrenaline and cortisol of drama or any other crazy addictions, that will not work for me. I can't watch bad Latin soap operas, nor American ones.

You realize I need a devout, dedicated, steadfast, and lasting lover. I cannot settle for scraps. I am a woman that needs a feast.

You are a knowledgable sensualist. I need a passionate man that loves the erotic arts and who wants to make me ridiculously happy. I am a triple Scorpio (Sun, Venus and Mars). Sex is sacred. Sensuality to me is an oceanic voyage, a transformation, a psychological investigation, an ecstatic connection, and a near-death experience that we travel to the underworld for and return with the victory of resurrection.

You have the interest, ability, self-worth, and value others enough to create a lasting, secure, dedicated partnership.

(If you have not read my writing & question answers, not posted untouched head and body shots from this year and quite recent, nor done the simple math to ascertain your correct height, age, wage, work, and number of offspring (???), perhaps you are not smarter than a 5th grader and have been automatically disqualified! :D

If you look like my brother, or old enough to be my father or grandfather (?????) - for god's sake! It's NOT going to work)!

If you are one of these or another variety of man-child, please seek help immediately!!!

And you wonder why some women marry their cat......


If you're channeling the dedicated passion of Johnny Cash, inventive ingenuity of Mac Gyver, the ability to crack a coconut into a 2-way radio or a feast like the Professor, or the rugged good looks of either, come hither!

I'm looking for men and new friends who defy convention and who will continue to grow more wonderful, worldly, witty, and wise with me.

Bring it!