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40 Los Angeles, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–54
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:02pm
White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Do you know what is incredibly sexy?

Telling the Truth.

Do you know what else is incredibly sexy?

Doing the Right Thing.

And acting like a full grown man.
A loving, giving, kind, creative man.

That's what this love-bird is looking for.

You may find this love-bird...roaming Powell's Books or SF's Brides of March, the Philae Temple or the Temple of Juno. You may find me steaming in a Turkish hamam or hot springs in the forests of Oregon, hiking the woods of Washington, Half Dome, or across a Roman aqueduct in the south of France, running barefoot in summer thunderstorms, sled riding, or making snow angels.

You may find me dancing at a Goran Bregovic concert, music festival, or Moroccan Palace, delighting in a Louise Bourgeois sculpture exhibition, at the de Young or Wim Wender's film Pina. You may catch me discussing TED talks, new theories and ancient wisdom, playing hide & seek and ghost in the graveyard.

You will find me riding the paradox.

Sincere, sumptuous, (and frequently silly) Siren seeks complementary merman (one who is not afraid of soulful depths) for CREATIVE fires and luscious lasting LOVE and partnership and certainly amazing friends to join the journey. Ones who are caring for the Body Temple, living one's gifts, loving one's life. Filled with optimism & integrity... Those who are Cool in the head and Warm in the heart. Ones who know that one in a million chances happen 9 times out of 10 when the heart is dedicated.

* Although I currently hang my hat in Los Angeles, it doesn't own me. I'm open to the adventure. Nothing is tying me down.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Co-creating, thought and beauty provoking, inspiring, liberating, keeping and rediscovering traditions... Dancing, designing, art making, culture jamming. Adoring my beautiful, hand-made, fun-filled life!

I love living in my long lean dancer's body, my mermaid hair, my saucy humor and mischievous nature. I live for European paced days: love to work & create in the world, yet savor delicious meals, relish a siesta, dance a Hasapiko. I adore ripe salted tomatoes from my garden, power tool projects, night-time skinny dipping, my legs in black seamed stockings, silent walks on snowy nights...

Some favorite travels: The remnants of the Ottoman Empire, Ancient Egypt, Greece, and Rome, the Aegean & Mediteranean, Anatolia, Istanbul, the Rhone Valley, the lavender fields of France and Cote d'Azur, Italia, the Swiss Alps, Britain, the Sierras and the Snake River, the Blue Ridge Mountains and Adirondacks, Nova Scotia & New Brunswick, the whole PCH, Cross country trips: Oregon to Vermont & the Carolinas to California.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Wicked come-backs, scintillating conversation, finding a way out of no way, hitting a straight lick with a crooked stick, singing in harmony, drawing up the plans, coming up with a better scheme, winning the costume contest, sinking the shot after never having played, dancing with pure abandon.

Shooting from the hip. Calling it like I see it. Cutting through the red tape. Remembering the ancient traditions. Finding the words that heal our contemporary confusion. Speaking volumes without a word, with just my hands and eyes.

Reveling in the curve of my Love's jawline and clavicle, hands and scent. Sleeping skin to skin, coiled in deep dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Friends say (I asked!):
"Every part of her dances....
She has eyes like deer...
Curves like a mermaid...
She is dangerous in a pencil skirt...
Little Miss Hot & Spicy...
Toooo funny!
An ass that doesn't stop!
(oh my goodness)!
Apertura y entrega total a la vida".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Dance & Music: Traditional, Contemporary, Club, Modern, Ambient, Electronic, Funk, Blues, Roma, Rai, World (Tunisian, Algerian, Afrobeat, Afro Brazilian/Caribbean/Haitian, Moroccan, Egyptian, Turkish, Andalusian, Transylvanian, Greek, Gypsy, Tanoura, Dervish, Russian, Georgian), Historical, Hula, Hokey Pokey, the Hustle! Aretha, Nina, Etta, Bessie, Emmylou. Whatever moves me.

Recommended Reading: The New Feminine Brain, Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth: Her Stories and Hymns from Sumer; The Way of the Superior Man; , My Side of the Mountain; Women Who Run with the Wolves; Tagore, Rumi, Mirabai, Hafiz, Neruda, Nin, Brezsny, Jung, Campbell, the I Ching.

Art: arte povera, street art, folk art, installation art, environmental art, public art, interactive art, temporary art, performance art, Indigenous art & architecture, artful gardens, eco art, elements of BRC, Wilmarth's glass orbs inspired by Mallarme, Banksy, Doris Salcedo, Magdelena Abakanowicz, Marina Abramovic...

Cuisine: Persian flavors, Japanese sensibilities, French everything! Carbonara, bolanese, gnocchi, souvlaki, perogi, bulgoki... Turkish kofte, Moroccan tagine and chicken with pickled lemon rind and olives, Cajun Crab boils, Tartare, platanos maduros. Basil, parmesan, olive oil, red wine, repeat. Anything made with pleasure and love. I hope you are a BRILLIANT cook and want to make me fat and happy!

Film: Dreams (Akira Kurosawa), the Piano/Holy Smoke (Jane Campion), Tony Gatlif, Indie, Foreign, Art & Political History/slice of life Films, Documentaries, (Battle of Algiers, Rembetiko, Pitzicatta), Art pieces & mysteries (Maya Deren). Art that is a gift, not an imposition.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dance ecstasy & creating beauty.
Celebration, liberation, expansion.
Moonlight. Starlight.
Succulent food that makes me moan.
Elegant line & movement in art, dance, design, & music.
Travel that reminds me of the kindness, intelligence, and beauty of the world,
Relationships that make me laugh and LAUGH!!!
Love, the Erotic Arts & soulful sensuality.
Disregarding the rules...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next art pieces, designs, choreographies, travels. New decor and improvements for the yurt I built - no I don't live in it. Well, only at Burning Man!

The invisible world (scent, data, sensations, spirit, synchronicity, pleasure, desire, joy, dreams), our inter-woveness with the natural world, solutions to seemingly difficult dilemmas, bio-mimicry, sacred economics, kindness in communication, but less time thinking, and more time living.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On any night I may be creating, dreaming, soaking, dancing, laughing, reading, writing, prowling the streets, roaming the hills, jumping bonfires, gazing at the cosmos, savoring living...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My Moon is in Rohini and Sun, Venus, & Mars are in Scorpio. (I'm not interested in a casual romp. Anyone with this many planets in Scorpio doesn't do things casually. Maybe the laundry...).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to work together to create something brilliant and beautiful: a design, a concept, an art piece, a garden, a travel itinerary, an action plan!

You are completely creative, collaborative, conversational, hilarious and loving!

You are a pragmatic mystic.

You have your head in the clouds!
Feet on the ground!

(Translation: while you are delightfully creative, you have your act together physically, financially, emotionally, socially and soulfully, thereby well equipped to put your work into reality).

Your words are Golden.

(That means your profile is 100% true
and you keep your Word.

We know where you headed
by what game you playin....)

Your heart is Open.
Your heart is Happy & Light!

YOU are a Beauty and a Beast!
You look with the Eyes behind the eyes.

YOU don't want to kiss the mirror;
You want to kiss another.

You are not begging door to door for a cup of water.

You are standing with me, at the bank of the river.

You are a well traveled, well read, well mannered, and a HEALTHY, FIT, FUN AND FABULOUS citizen of the world, planning another adventure abroad, learning & growing, dancing & camping, playing & creating.

You are as quick as a whip,
but would never DARE to sting me with it. Wh-tchhhhhh!!!!

You want to take me to, Funky Town!

You've got soul, and everybody knows, that it's alright. Yeah. It's alright.

You have your camping bag, ruck sack, and Playa gear ready to roll!

You are living life as an ecstatic pleasure, an infinitely pleasurable game, not a finite game.

You do not want a charade of a princess!

You want a Chariot, a Lightning Bolt,
a Robin Hood, a Creatrix, a feline, a falcon, a force 5, a fawn...

You want a Quantum Leaper and a Pioneer Heart.
You want Mardi Gras and Hallelujah.

You don't just "love" women: you - through your words and actions - respect, support, encourage, elevate, honor, adore, and inspire us.

You want to snuggle and love because you are a Lover....

The words "we", "us", and "lasting ecstatic, love and partnership" fall effortlessly and without prompting,
from your mouth.

New friends and kindred collaborators welcome!

If you have not read my writing & question answers, not posted untouched head and body shots from this year and quite recent, nor done the simple math to ascertain your correct height, age, wage, and number of offspring (???), or cannot figure out which city you live in (stop the madness!!), perhaps you are not smarter than a 5th grader and have been automatically disqualified.

If you're channeling the dedicated passion of Johnny Cash, inventive ingenuity of Mac Gyver, the ability to crack a coconut into a 2-way radio or a feast like the Professor, or the rugged good looks of either, come hither...

(I know I list a huge age range - it's because I don't want to leave any wonderful men out. I'm looking for a full grown man, but not an elder in his third phase of life. Reality Check: 30 is not the new 20. I need to be with men who own their adulthood; I was directing art galleries and teaching as a University Professor when I was 26. I have wonderful guy and gal pals in their 50s through 80s, yes 80s who dance, do handstand push-ups, yoga, weight lifting, marathons, and triathlons for fitness and are actively creating their next body of work, designs, writing and building their next dream. I'm looking for men and new friends who defy convention and who are looking to continue to grow wonderful, worldly, witty and wise with me).