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39 F Los Angeles, CA

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White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
You are a glorious sea faring galleon. I am the tumultuous, ever changing depth. I will toss and turn you, (wouldn't that be exquisite...), sail you across the mystery, and guide you back home, but you must keep your course. You must go the distance...

You may find me roaming Powell's or SF's Brides of March, the Philae Temple or Temple of Juno. You may find me steaming in hot springs in the forests of Oregon, hiking Half Dome or across a Roman aqueduct in the south of France, running barefoot in summer thunderstorms or considering the wonder of tidal pools...

You may find me dancing at a Goran Bregovic concert, music festival, or Moroccan Palace, delighting in a Louise Bourgeois sculpture exhibition, at the de Young or Wim Wender's film Pina. You may catch me discussing TED talks, new theories or ancient wisdom, or playing hide & seek, ghost in the graveyard, sled riding or making snow angels.

You will find me riding the paradox.

Sincere and sumptuous Siren seeks complementary merman (one who is not afraid of soulful depths) for CREATIVE fires and luscious LOVE, and certainly amazing friends to join the journey. Ones who are caring for the Body Temple, living one's gifts, loving one's life. Filled with optimism & integrity... Those who are Cool in the head and Warm in the heart. Ones who know that one in a million chances happen 9 times out of 10 when the heart is dedicated.

Wanna run neck in neck & side by side together? Essential Caveat: I am never giving up the gift of play and you MUST have this essence too...

Yes, I'm open to living the Mystery/ connecting from afar/ living in multiple places. Good wishes on the journey.
What I’m doing with my life
Co-creating, thought and beauty provoking, inspiring, liberating, keeping and rediscovering traditions... Dancing, designing, art making, culture jamming. Adoring my beautiful, hand-made life.

I love living in my long lean dancer's body, my mermaid hair, my saucy humor and mischievous nature. I live for European paced days: love to work & create in the world, yet savor delicious meals, relish a siesta, dance a Hasapiko. I adore ripe salted tomatoes from my garden, power tool projects, night-time skinny dipping, my legs in back-seamed stockings, silent walks on snowy nights...

Some favorite travels: (oh life has been good!). the remnants of Ancient Egypt, Greece, Rome, and the Ottoman Empire, the Aegean & Mediteranean, Anatolia, Istanbul, the Rhone Valley, the lavender fields of France and Cote d'Azur, Italia, the Swiss Alps, Britain, Nova Scotia & New Brunswick, the Sierras and the Snake River.... Cross country trips....Oregon to Vermont & the Carolinas to California. Blue Ridge Mountains, Adirondacks...
I’m really good at
Wicked come-backs, scintillating conversation, finding a way out of no way, hitting a straight lick with a crooked stick, singing in harmony, drawing up the plans, coming up with a better scheme, winning the costume contest, sinking the shot after never having played, dancing with pure abandon.

Burning flags. Burning bras. Shooting from the hip. Calling it like I see it. Cutting through the red tape. Remembering the ancient traditions. Finding the words that heal our contemporary confusion. Speaking volumes without a word, with just my hands and eyes.

Reveling in the curve of my Love's jawline and clavicle, hands, and scent. Sleeping skin to skin, coiled in deep dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
Friends say (I asked!): "She is lithe and graceful. Every part of her dances. She has eyes like deer. She is dangerous in a pencil skirt. Her voice, her energy. She lives fully. Is authentic. Feels electric. Wonderfully creative.
Apertura y entrega total a la vida".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Dance & Music: Traditional, Contemporary, Club, Modern, Ambient, Electronic, Funk, Blues, Roma, Rai, World (Tunisian, Algerian, Afrobeat, Moroccan, Egyptian, Turkish, Andalusian, Transylvanian, West African, Greek, Gypsy, Tanoura, Dervish, Russian, Georgian), Historical, Hula, Hokey Pokey, the Hustle! Aretha, Nina, Etta, Bessie, Emmylou. Whatever moves me.

Recommended reading: Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth: Her Stories and Hymns from Sumer; The Way of the Superior Man; My Side of the Mountain; Women Who Run with the Wolves; Tagore, Rumi, Mirabai, Hafiz, Neruda, Nin, Brezsny, the I Ching.

Art: arte povera, street art, folk art, installation art, environmental art, public art, interactive art, temporary art, performance art, Indigenous art & architecture, gardens, eco art, design, elements of BRC, Wilmarth's glass orbs inspired by Mallarme, Banksy, Doris Salcedo, Magdelena Abakanowicz, Marina Abramovic...

Food: Persian flavors, Japanese sensibilities, French everything! Carbonara, bolanese, gnocchi, souvlaki, perogi, bulgoki... Turkish kofte, Moroccan tagine and chicken with pickled lemon rind and olives, Cajun Crab boils, Tartare, platanos maduros. Basil, parmesan, olive oil, red wine, repeat. Anything made with pleasure and love. (I hope you are a BRILLIANT cook and want to make me fat and happy!!!)

Film: Dreams (Akira Kurosawa), the Piano/Holy Smoke (Jane Campion), Tony Gatlif, Indie, Foreign, Art & Political History/slice of life Films, Documentaries, (Battle of Algiers, Rembetiko, Pitzicatta), Art pieces & mysteries (Maya Deren). Art that is a gift, not an imposition.
The six things I could never do without
Dance ecstasy, moving my body, creating beauty
Celebration, liberation, expansion
Moonlight. Starlight.
Succulent food that makes me moan
Elegant line & movement in art/dance/design/music
Travel that reminds me of the kindness in the world
Relationships that make me laugh and LAUGH!!!
Love, pleasure, the Erotic Arts & daily doses of soulful sensuality
Disregarding the rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next art pieces, designs, choreographies, travels. The invisible world (scent, data, sensations, spirit, synchronicity, pleasure, desire, joy, dreams), our inter-woveness with the natural world, solutions to seemingly difficult dilemmas, bio-mimicry, sacred economics, kindness in communication, but less time thinking, and more time living.
On a typical Friday night I am
On any night I may be creating, dreaming, soaking, dancing, laughing, reading, writing, prowling the streets, roaming the hills, jumping bonfires, gazing at the cosmos, savoring living...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My Moon is in Rohini and Sun, Venus, & Mars are in Scorpio (ruled by Pluto which seeks depth and selective sensual sapient pursuits).
(I'm not interested in a casual romp. Anyone with this many planets in Scorpio doesn't do things casually. Maybe the dishes...).
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–54
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to create something brilliant together.

Your words are Golden.

Your heart is Open.

You heart is light. ( Happy baby, Happy!)

You are a Beauty and a Beast!
You are wise, yet play the fool….
You are brave, but admit the fear.

You look with the Eyes behind the eyes.

You don't want to kiss the mirror. You want to kiss another.

You are not begging door to door for a cup of water.
You are standing with me, at the bank of the river.

You are a well traveled, well read, and WELL MANNERED citizen of the world, planning another travel adventure abroad, learning & growing, dancing & camping, playing & creating.

You've got soul, and everybody knows, that it's alright.
Yeah. It's alright.

You aren't going down with the Kali Yuga, but your inflated ego is!

You are going the distance, and aren't afraid of a woman that...

You are as quick as a whip,
but would never DARE to sting me with it. Wh-tchhhhhh!!!!

You want to take me to, Funky Town!

You are living life as an ecstatic pleasure, an infinitely pleasurable game, not a finite game.

Your actions match your beautiful, soulful, thought provoking, jovial, hilarious, and eros inspiring words.....

You have the capacity to treasure and adore a woman who is completely connected to her own wild innate instinct.

You do not want a princess! You want a Chariot, a Lightning Bolt,
a Robin Hood, a Creatrix, a feline, a falcon, a force 5, a fawn...

You are and want a Quantum Leaper and a Pioneer Heart.
You want Mardi Gras and Hallelujah.

You want the rain.

You want to snuggle and love.
Because you are a Lover.