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39 F Los Angeles, CA

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White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English, French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Snap shot. Age 16: already in the thick of my quest. Working on drawing series & teaching myself to throw, attending Middle Eastern & Medieval dance classes at a University with live historical music ensembles and adult art classes at a city arts center on scholarship, helping with the gentleman's farm I was raised on and tending to my herb and flower gardens, finishing that Marie Antoinette costume for French class - my proposal for an independent study, working at a library saving up for my next self-funded trip to Europe...


(Now you... You are a glorious sea faring galleon. I am the tumultuous, ever changing depth (such is the feminine). I will toss and turn you, (wouldn't that be exquisite), sail you across the mystery, and guide you back home, but you must keep your course. You must go the distance...)

You may find me roaming Powell's Books or SF's Brides of March, the Philae Temple or the Temple of Juno. You may find me steaming in hot springs in the forests of Oregon, hiking the woods of Washington, Half Dome, or across a Roman aqueduct in the south of France, running barefoot in summer thunderstorms, sled riding, or making snow angels.

You may find me dancing at a Goran Bregovic concert, music festival, or Moroccan Palace, delighting in a Louise Bourgeois sculpture exhibition, at the de Young or Wim Wender's film Pina. You may catch me discussing TED talks, new theories or ancient wisdom, playing hide & seek and ghost in the graveyard.

You will find me riding the paradox.

Sincere, sumptuous, (and frequently silly) Siren seeks complementary merman (one who is not afraid of soulful depths) for CREATIVE fires and luscious LOVE, and certainly amazing friends to join the journey. Ones who are caring for the Body Temple, living one's gifts, loving one's life. Filled with optimism & integrity... Those who are Cool in the head and Warm in the heart. Ones who know that one in a million chances happen 9 times out of 10 when the heart is dedicated.
What I’m doing with my life
Co-creating, thought and beauty provoking, inspiring, liberating, keeping and rediscovering traditions... Dancing, designing, art making, culture jamming. Adoring my beautiful, hand-made, fun-filled life!

I love living in my long lean dancer's body, my mermaid hair, my saucy humor and mischievous nature. I live for European paced days: love to work & create in the world, yet savor delicious meals, relish a siesta, dance a Hasapiko. I adore ripe salted tomatoes from my garden, power tool projects, night-time skinny dipping, my legs in back-seamed stockings, silent walks on snowy nights...

Some favorite travels: The remnants of the Ottoman Empire, Ancient Egypt, Greece, and Rome, the Aegean & Mediteranean, Anatolia, Istanbul, the Rhone Valley, the lavender fields of France and Cote d'Azur, Italia, the Swiss Alps, Britain, the Sierras and the Snake River, the Blue Ridge Mountains and Adirondacks, Nova Scotia & New Brunswick, Cross country trips: Oregon to Vermont & the Carolinas to California.
I’m really good at
Wicked come-backs, scintillating conversation, finding a way out of no way, hitting a straight lick with a crooked stick, singing in harmony, drawing up the plans, coming up with a better scheme, winning the costume contest, sinking the shot after never having played, dancing with pure abandon.

Shooting from the hip. Calling it like I see it. Cutting through the red tape. Remembering the ancient traditions. Finding the words that heal our contemporary confusion. Speaking volumes without a word, with just my hands and eyes.

Reveling in the curve of my Love's jawline and clavicle, hands and scent. Sleeping skin to skin, coiled in deep dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
Friends say (I asked!): "Every part of her dances.... She has eyes like deer... She is dangerous in a pencil skirt... Her voice...
Sooo funny... Wonderfully creative....
Apertura y entrega total a la vida".
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
DANCE & MUSIC: Traditional, Contemporary, Club, Modern, Ambient, Electronic, Funk, Blues, Roma, Rai, World (Tunisian, Algerian, Afrobeat, Afro Brazilian/Caribbean/Haitian, Moroccan, Egyptian, Turkish, Andalusian, Transylvanian, Greek, Gypsy, Tanoura, Dervish, Russian, Georgian), Historical, Hula, Hokey Pokey, the Hustle! Aretha, Nina, Etta, Bessie, Emmylou. Whatever moves me.

RECOMMENDED READING: Inanna Queen of Heaven and Earth: Her Stories and Hymns from Sumer; The Way of the Superior Man; My Side of the Mountain; Women Who Run with the Wolves; Tagore, Rumi, Mirabai, Hafiz, Neruda, Nin, Brezsny, Jung, Campbell, the I Ching.

ART: arte povera, street art, folk art, installation art, environmental art, public art, interactive art, temporary art, performance art, Indigenous art & architecture, artful gardens, eco art, elements of BRC, Wilmarth's glass orbs inspired by Mallarme, Banksy, Doris Salcedo, Magdelena Abakanowicz, Marina Abramovic...

CUISINE: Persian flavors, Japanese sensibilities, French everything! Carbonara, bolanese, gnocchi, souvlaki, perogi, bulgoki... Turkish kofte, Moroccan tagine and chicken with pickled lemon rind and olives, Cajun Crab boils, Tartare, platanos maduros. Basil, parmesan, olive oil, red wine, repeat. Anything made with pleasure and love. (I hope you are a BRILLIANT cook and want to make me fat and happy!!! Happy comes easy, fat does not).

FILM: Dreams (Akira Kurosawa), the Piano/Holy Smoke (Jane Campion), Tony Gatlif, Indie, Foreign, Art & Political History/slice of life Films, Documentaries, (Battle of Algiers, Rembetiko, Pitzicatta), Art pieces & mysteries (Maya Deren). Art that is a gift, not an imposition.
The six things I could never do without
Dance ecstasy & creating beauty
Celebration, liberation, expansion
Moonlight. Starlight.
Succulent food that makes me moan
Elegant line & movement in art/dance/design/music
Travel that reminds me of the kindness in the world
Relationships that make me laugh and LAUGH!!!
Love, pleasure, the Erotic Arts & daily doses of soulful sensuality
Disregarding the rules.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next art pieces, designs, choreographies, travels. New decor for the yurt I built and will it require 2 solar swamp coolers or will 1 suffice? The invisible world (scent, data, sensations, spirit, synchronicity, pleasure, desire, joy, dreams), our inter-woveness with the natural world, solutions to seemingly difficult dilemmas, bio-mimicry, sacred economics, kindness in communication, but less time thinking, and more time living.
On a typical Friday night I am
On any night I may be creating, dreaming, soaking, dancing, laughing, reading, writing, prowling the streets, roaming the hills, jumping bonfires, gazing at the cosmos, savoring living...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My Moon is in Rohini and Sun, Venus, & Mars are in Scorpio. (I'm not interested in a casual romp. Anyone with this many planets in Scorpio doesn't do things casually. Maybe the dishes...).
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–58
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to work together to create something brilliant and beautiful: a design, a concept, an art piece, a garden, a travel itinerary, an action plan!

You are completely creative, collaborative, conversational, hilarious and loving!

Your words are Golden.

(That means your profile is 100% true
and you keep your Word.

We know where you headed
by what game you playin....)

Your heart is Open.
Your heart is Light ( and Happy! )

You are a Beauty and a Beast!
You look with the Eyes behind the eyes.

You don't want to kiss the mirror.
You want to kiss another.

You are not begging door to door for a cup of water.
You are standing with me, at the bank of the river.

You are a well traveled, well read, well mannered, and a HEALTHY, FIT, FUN AND FABULOUS citizen of the world, planning another adventure abroad, learning & growing, dancing & camping, playing & creating.

You are as quick as a whip,
but would never DARE to sting me with it. Wh-tchhhhhh!!!!

You want to take me to, Funky Town!

You've got soul, and everybody knows, that it's alright. Yeah. It's alright.

You have your camping bag, ruck sack, and Playa gear ready to roll!
(yes, I mean Burning Man)!

You are living life as an ecstatic pleasure, an infinitely pleasurable game, not a finite game.

You do not want a charade of a princess!
You want a Chariot, a Lightning Bolt,
a Robin Hood, a Creatrix, a feline, a falcon, a force 5, a fawn...

You want a Quantum Leaper and a Pioneer Heart.
You want Mardi Gras and Hallelujah.

You're a radical feminist and womynist, which means you don't just "love" mujeres; you through your words and actions re-spect, support, en-courage, elevate, honor, and in-spire us.

You too would love to find an ecstatic, passionate, creative partnership!
New friends and kindred collaborators welcome!

You want to snuggle and love because you are a Lover....