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27 • Allston, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 21–36
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Online now!
- 5′ 7″ (1.70m)
- Body type
- Mostly vegan
- When drinking
- Graduated from university
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay), Hebrew (Poorly), Chinese (Poorly)
I went through two tough breakups recently, so I'm taking a step back to reevaluate things. I want to live by the principle of "fuck yes or no". (http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes) I'm interested in finding someone sincere, honest, and into ethical non-monogamy. I'm looking for people to be independently awesome with, together.
I'd also like to start living by Gene Rodenberry's principle of "not simply tolerating, but taking delight in our differences."
Just to do some weeding out: I'm not tall and I don't have a car. I bike.
On my better days:
Job applications (yeah, the money's running out, but I'm starting to take more pride in the fact that I haven't compromised my principles for work.)
Snuggling with a cat
Playing chess or Lumosity
Struggling with something new
Trying to weigh the pros and cons of any decision
Most of what I listen to is underground hip-hop. Some examples -- Blackstar, Binary Star, Common, Jurassic 5, Mos Def, Pete Rock, The Roots.
I listen to a lot of different genres, as long as the artist is decent. (e.g. Billy Joel, Ella Fitzgerald, Franz Ferdinand, Beck) Video game music, too.
Drama: House, Breaking Bad, Firefly
Comedy: The Boondocks, Futurama, Metalocalypse
Other: Mythbusters, Avatar: The Last Airbender
Depends when you catch me. I go through a lot of different phases of cooking -- previously: japanese, thai, southern. I am in a weird sort of vegan limbo where I'm okay with eating animal products because I couldn't deal with the idea of having food restrictions for some reason. So I went to pescetarianism for a bit, but now I'm setting into veganism again. It's kind of hard for me to look at a meat product without thinking of the animal.
- Honest discussion
- Sunny days (can't wait for the solstice)
- A small, loving animal companion
- Almond milk
- A journal
- you like hiking, biking, motorcycles, board games, or video games (mostly of the puzzle/strategy) variety.
- you can hold a long conversation about an irrelevant topic.
- you have a dinosaur-related username.
- you want someone to send you tons of cute cat pictures.
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