28 Allston, MA
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
There are two relationships I'm primarily looking for:

1. A long-term relationship with someone whom I can have kids with.
2. A relationship for experimentation.

Please don't send "what's up" or "you're cute". Step your game up.

I want to foster the part of me that likes music and dance. You will probably hear me talk about being repressed while growing up at least once. (Like right now.)

I want to live by the principle of "fuck yes or no"( I'm interested in finding someone sincere, honest, and into ethical non-monogamy. I'm looking for people to be independently awesome with, together.

I'd also like to start living by Gene Rodenberry's principle of "not simply tolerating, but taking delight in our differences." I probably won't judge you based on one date.

Just to do some weeding out: I'm not tall and I don't have a car. I bike.
What I’m doing with my life
Working on myself -- journaling, trying to understand my own feelings, trying to act sincerely, trying to eliminate the obvious distractions in my life (e.g. the phone).
Muay Thai.

On my better days:
Online classes
Job applications (yeah, the money's running out, but I'm starting to take more pride in the fact that I haven't compromised my principles for work.)

Snuggling with a cat
Playing chess
Trying to recreate video game music on my keyboard
I’m really good at
Back rubs
Struggling with something new
Trying to weigh the pros and cons of any decision
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably the beard and crazy hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Most of what I listen to is underground hip-hop. Some examples -- Blackstar, Binary Star, Common, Jurassic 5, Mos Def, Pete Rock, The Roots.
I listen to a lot of different genres, as long as the artist is decent. (e.g. Billy Joel, Ella Fitzgerald, Franz Ferdinand, Beck) Video game music, too.

Drama: House, Breaking Bad, Firefly
Comedy: The Boondocks, Futurama, Metalocalypse
Other: Mythbusters, Avatar: The Last Airbender

Depends when you catch me. I go through a lot of different phases of cooking -- previously: japanese, thai, southern. I am in a weird sort of vegan limbo where I'm okay with eating animal products because I couldn't deal with the idea of having food restrictions for some reason. So I went to pescetarianism for a bit, but now I'm settling into veganism again. It's kind of hard for me to look at a meat product without thinking of the animal.
The six things I could never do without
- Regular exercise
- Honest discussion
- Sunny days (can't wait for the solstice)
- A small, loving animal companion
- Almond milk
- A journal
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what kind of person I am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Both NDT's and Carl Sagan's Cosmos have caused me to cry.
You should message me if
- you can give me sound fitness advice.
- you like hiking, biking, motorcycles, board games, or video games (mostly of the puzzle/strategy) variety.
- you can hold a long conversation about an irrelevant topic.
- you have a dinosaur-related username.
- you want someone to send you tons of cute cat pictures.