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  • Ages 30–45
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Last online
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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
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Grrr, my introvert side truly hates this part, but I know I must, so here are a few morsels for the clamoring masses. ;)

Currently back in school FT in the medical profession after the art didn't work out, but still dream of using my creative skills in some way (thank you Steven Pressfield). Bay area (spec. e. bay) native, but have had short stints in AZ (feh!) and NY (yeh!).

I'm a bit of a quirky aloner if anyone remembers that descriptive, and as such tend to spend a lot of time indoors working on one project or another, but I do like being dragged outside for a hike, a bite, a sip, Canadian geese-tipping, etc.
What I’m doing with my life
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Mainly schooling while fueling (5 pt unintentional rhyme score!) myself by drinking lethal amounts of caffeine, but I like to make time to paint/draw, hang out with friends, and I'm presently learning to strum the gee-tar. I try to exercise as well, with highly mixed results. Thank god for my skinny genes, and skinny jeans as well.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hmm, I have mixed feelings about these list things, but what's the worse that could happen (...)?

Books: Historical stuff, Bukowski, Hesse, Murakami, Tolkien, Tolle, Robbins, Le Guin, Poe, Chandler, Aspirin, Cook.

Food: Yes, I like well cooked food of many different ethnicities, but I'm also a recovering picky eater from childhood, so I still have quirky things I dislike which I know I should not dislike and yet I still dislike. Yeah hummus, I'm talking 'bout you!

Movies/tv: too many to list as I'm a serious netflickafile, here's a bunch of newish and oldish favs -- Memento, Anchorman, American Psycho, Balls of Fury, Blade Runner, Best in Show, China Town, Rushmore, Adv. of B. Munchausen, Tenacious D: The Pick of Destiny, The Shining, Youth In Revolt, Searching for Sugarman, Louis, Walking Dead, Game o' Thrones, Breaking Bad, Flight of the Conchords, Homicide, the Wire, Comedy Bang Bang, the Tic, Ugly Americans, East Bound 'n Down, Workaholics.

Music: Opeth, Butthole Surfers, most things Jack White, Butthole Surfers, NIN, Bob Dylan, Tori Amos, Dandy Warhols, Pink Floyd, Zeppelin, Beatles, Morphine, Beastie Boys, many more. I like listening to new artists too. I don't do rap/country too much, but there are exceptions to every rule.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I like to stay open to whatever the Gods/Goddesses of Friday bring me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My belly button is half inee half outee.
You should message me if
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You like funny wierdos/dorks w/a heart of gold.