July 28th update. Today is my 49th birthday. In honor of this prestigious event I am updating my profile.
I've been living apart and separated from my husband for a year and a half. We are finally in the process of filing papers.
I have a great career, my kids are grown and I have fun hobbies that keep me occupied. I don't need to be with a man for financial reasons. I don't need to be with a man for emotional reasons. I feel like this is probably the first time in my life I have ever felt that way. It's a very good feeling to know you can take care of and support yourself. I'm proud of that accomplishment in life.
So why do I want a man in my life? Well...because when you find a great person who you click with and your life is already pretty good?...well he's like the cherry on top of the ice cream sundae. You don't necessarily NEED the cherry...but it's makes the sundae just a little better.
I'm bit an overly girly, mushy, emotionally dependent chick. I am pretty strong and like to work through my problems. But do I appreciate and value support? Hell ya.
At this point in my life, I want someone to hang out and laugh with. Someone who gets my sarcastic sense of humor. Someone who likes me 80 % of have time...I'm pretty likeable 80% of the time. Hopefully enough to make up for that 20 percent when I'm making mistakes and being a human.
I have no illusions of some guy riding in on a white horse and rescuing me and taking me to live at a castle, happily ever after.
That just doesn't happen. Happily ever after is a lot of damn work by two committed humans wiling to put in a lot of work and effort. For the right person I would do that in a heart beat. I just truly don't know of that person exists for me.
Im photogenic and take a great picture. My profile pic is about 2 weeks old. So for 49 I look good. I'm also overweight. I'm working on being healthier and more active. I may or may not lose weight. I'm not unhappy with who I am or how I look...but I know as I get older I need to take care of myself.
If you only want to be romantic or hang out with fit, HWP girls...I'm not your gal for romance. I might be good friend material. I'm also looking for friends out here. It's bit all about getting laid for me, although my answers to OKC questions make me appear to be a pretty frisky chicky. Lol. That's what you get for answering honestly. So, check out my full length shots. I'm a size 22/24. But I am committing to a year of health and wellness on my journey to 50. I hope to be healthier and less chubby then.
I will reward myself with one of those cougar cruises and just have a hay-day.
I'm fun to talk to, a good listener and I'm a great friend. If that sounds like something appealing, feel free to message me.