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29 M Pittsburgh, PA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
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Mostly anything
Graduated from university
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Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French

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My self-summary
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I'm at a point in my life where I'm committed to being a better version of myself. Reading is a big deal to me. So is writing. I'm a feminist, or I advocate feminism, or whatever. I'd rather be good than smart. I play the drums. I'm ignorant and I know it, so I'm curious. I'm unashamed, so I'm nosy. I'm glad I'm a little bit older. I know myself more.
What I’m doing with my life
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trying to become a teacher
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Teaching, Listening/Disrupting, writing, scheming, Jeopardy, drums, big ollies and heelflips, tricksterism/hijinx, holding my liquor, chopping wood, dealing with people, tending, grilling asparagus, rhyming
The first things people usually notice about me
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Can't no one say anything bad about Helen Keller around me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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shoegaze and space rock. i've probably listened to rap at least a little bit every day (The Wu-Tang Clan changed my life. Thank you!) for the last 10 years. i love opera and classical piano. (Scriabin!) What's that song on the mix on the Voyager satellite? The wedding song? I forget where it's from, maybe Peru. And 20 year olds want to call me a hipster for this shit? smgdh. LaMonte Young.

99% of skateboarding happens outside of videos (and videogames..), magazines and contests.

Lately I've been LOVING Elizabeth Bishop. Also reading The Battle for Homestead by Peter Krause. Some other stuff for school. I'm taking a Women as Writers course right now that is awfully cool. Motherfuck Rand.

Mm, the edacious mode.....scallops, oysters, asparagus, sushi, crab rangoon, pirogi, grilling, a good red sauce, blueberries, mustard greens, camembert, coconut water, peas, cherry ice cream, spak brothers, tacos, FRUIT

I like to watch Democracy Now! And Jeopardy! Kung Fu movies from the 70s. Bergman. Stalker.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, Love, My Crew, Surprise, Luck, RAWNESS
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Styles. What's right, what's good. What's holy. Mind/Body. The luck of one's face. Writing. Skateboarding. The nature of faith. Friendships between women. What other people know. Rhymes. Technology. Mental health. the NBA. Education. Raising children. How can I get a laugh? Philosophy of science, science as discourse, divisions between the sciences. Ways in which people who live very different lives can relate. The opposite sex. Sleep. Hard hacks. God. How close am I at any given moment to living on the street? Happiness vs Wellness. Poetry and the state of recitation. Pain as an eardrum. What is all this about, anyway? Scheme team. Apranihita.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(1)reading or (2)raging. take your pick.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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People ask me, "hey, what's your spirit animal?" I say, I AM a fucking spirit animal.

I wonder. Do all of these women who post pictures of themselves in Israel smiling in front of vast landscapes like they're at the fucking grand canyon think much about how that looks? You know, to anyone who gives a shit about anything besides themselves?
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