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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:02am
5' 5" (1.66m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish, Russian
My self-summary
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I try to live my life finding the joy in every day. Sometimes I have to look hard, and I don't always succeed, but I think life is too short to spend getting worked up.

What I care about most above all else is simply to have people in my life who I can love and who can love me back, just as we are. If that includes a special man who will walk by my side, I'll be thrilled. If it doesn't, I will be content to enjoy the love of good friends. I am fiercely loyal to those who are important to me.

Fitness, physical activity, and healthy eating are very important to me, for both the physical and mental/emotional benefits. I work out several times a week, and do yoga now and then. Hiking, camping, biking, are all high on my list. I also really enjoy getting lost on a crowded dance floor. I also practice meditation and mindfulness.

I very much enjoy a great meal with or without a nice glass of wine. But it doesn't have to be super fancy to be good. If it's a great example of a burger, or a delicious, ripe peach, that works for me. I like to cook at home as well, and like to play around trying new recipes. I'm not always successful, but it's fun. I really enjoy putting together a dinner for friends, or one special person.

Like most, I enjoy theater, and movies. I lived in New York in a past life, and miss being able to go see a new Broadway play whenever I want. But, I try to get up there for weekends now and then to see what's good.

I lived oversees when I was younger, and I've had the travel bug ever since. I've been to many places around the world, but have many more on my list. And, there's plenty of fun places to explore in the U.S. as well. The trick is finding the time.

I like to play golf, but do so poorly and not nearly as often as I'd like. Big tennis fan, but play even worse than I golf.

I play the piano, but strictly as a hobby, and almost always only for myself. I suppose I have a degree of insecurity about my playing. But, even though I'm not terribly accomplished, it provides me a great deal of comfort. If I play in front you, it means that I've let my guard down to a certain degree.


Ultimately, I'm looking to find a partner to share life's triumphs and tragedies, and even just the day-to-day mundane. Someone to tell how my day was. Someone to plan trips with. Someone to watch bad movies with. Someone to pick out the perfect tie and shirt with. Someone to smile at from the other side of the room at a party. Someone to dance with. Someone to grow old with.
What I’m doing with my life
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Still working on figuring life out. I feel like it's a constant process, and there's always something new to learn. For work, I practice appellate litigation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making chocolate. Empathy. Seeing the other side of an argument. Listening. Helping. Learning languages. Driving stick shift. Reading maps. Choosing restaurants. Painting (rooms, not art). Persevering.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My bow tie.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've listed a few in each category just to give a sense of the kinds of things I enjoy:

The Brothers Karamazov. Crime and Punishment. Dune. Foundation. It. The Hours. The Corrections. The Twenty-Seventh City. Tales of the City.

Little Shop of Horrors. Rocky Horror Picture Show. Jesus Christ Super Star. Pippin. Wicked. Kinky Boots.

All About Eve. Mr. And Mrs. Smith. Election. Harry Potter. Moulin Rouge. Amelie. Breakfast at Tiffany's.

Science Channel. History Channel. Ab Fab. HGTV. Food Network. Project Runway. Family Guy. Tosh.0
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love. Kindness. Understanding. Compassion. Friendship. Self-respect.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next trip. And my next cup of coffee.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No typical Friday night. Could be anything from home watching tv to bear happy hour to hopping in the car for an adventure.
You should message me if
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You have a good heart and a good head.