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SmartIsSexy78

35 / F / Straight / Single

Saint Paul, Minnesota

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 16
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Might want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Intellectual chemistry. That's where it all starts with me. You know, the kind where you start a conversation and it just sort of lights on fire. If you know what I mean, let's chat - maybe we can make a spark!

I'm a high energy, intelligent woman who enjoys exploring new places and ideas. I love sunny days, good conversation, and laughing. I know (almost) all the words to American Pie, and am that crazy looking person singing at the top of my lungs in the car. I’m optimistic and often silly, and I walk the line between introverted and extroverted. I’m passionate about learning new things all the time. I enjoy being active and being outdoors. And I like to sleep with the window open for as much of the year as possible...until it gets so cold that I'm afraid it will kill my plants.

I'm looking for a relationship with plenty of laughter, passion, and fun, along with a deeper connection. I love a guy with a quick wit. I want to find someone to live "in orbit with" - two independent, whole people, who are connected by a sort of gravitational force and who increase each others' joy, while each retaining their independent identities. I believe life is meant to be lived 110% - you won’t find me holding back a laugh because I’m trying to look cool, or worrying too much about what other people think of me. So if any of this sounds interesting, let's see if we have a connection!
What I’m doing with my life
I've got a solid job that I enjoy, and I'm learning a lot there...and still working on figuring out what the "dream job" might be. Family and friends are very important to me, so I spend lots of time with them; I also need some alone time and try to carve out space for that as well.
I’m really good at
Um....well, not bragging, that's for sure! I'm a good singer... I'm working on my photography skills...oh, and I'm GREAT at taking naps. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I get a lot of compliments on my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
OK, here's a thing about me. I'm horrible at picking favorites. I have electic tastes and far too many interests, and it all depends on my mood I like to think it's part of my charm. :) But I can tell you that I always have a song in my head, I'm usually in the middle of at least 3 books, I don't watch much TV because there's too much other stuff to do, and I like movies but don't see enough of them.
The six things I could never do without
Music
Learning
Family
Friends
Spirituality/meditation (I'm very liberal, nondogmatic, kind of the exact opposite of fundamentalist)
Water (as in the presence of rivers and lakes - obviously I literally couldn't do without drinking it, and neither could you!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"Big ideas" - I like strategy and analysis stuff. How should we roll out a particular program at work? What are the connections between academic fields that sometimes seem rather separate? How can I best apply my interests and gifts in a way that will fulfill me and also help the world? Oh, and how the heck do I get that photo to look right??!
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no "typical" - I could be at home reading a book, out shooting photographs, at a friend's house helping with a bathroom renovation, petsitting a buddy's dog....the possibilities are endless!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm quite willing to share things...but you know, sharing private things is supposed to be part of getting to know each other, and it helps develop emotional intimacy. So I'm not really gonna put anything here.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
We have some things in common that could spark a good conversation.