29 Bangor, ME
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My self-summary
Hopeless romantic seeking her perfect match!

Sometimes I’m selfish, immature, insecure, and impatient but I’m genuinely a good person with good intentions. I’m an open book, almost to a fault. I’m a vegetarian who occasionally eats fish, shrimp, lobster (since February 2010). I’m not your typical girl. I can get ready in 15 minutes. I’m not into expensive jewelry. I’d never want to live in a mansion. I’m very social. I enjoy making people laugh. And I’m pretty good at it too. Those that don't know me wished I talked more, those that do know me wish I talked less. I’m typically a leader, not a follower. I’d do almost anything for anyone. I’m very affectionate. I love kissing and cuddling. I’m a huge flirt. It just comes natural to me. I am shy as well. I like playing with hair and having mine played with as well. I’m a great kisser. I'm also a tease and I love it. But when I get teased, I hate it. My feelings get hurt easily. I’m random. I’ve been known to be a little flighty on occasion. I will do something faithfully for a couple weeks and stop. I’m working on it. I use smiley faces and hearts whenever possible. I like to cook. I love animals and children. I tend to “adopt” random homeless animals (birds, cats, dogs, etc.) that I find outside. At least temporarily until I can find them a new home. I’m a little (a lot) competitive. If we get into a Monopoly game, expect to play for HOURS. We play ‘til the death. ;-) I love money and shopping. I enjoy video games and movies at home. I really enjoy the outdoors (hiking, camping, hanging out on the beach). I’ve never been horseback riding but I think it sounds romantic. I love the rain, the rainbow. Anything that glitters or sparkles. I get distracted easily but I like to think I make life interesting. I want someone who I can have fun with. But someone who will sit at home doing nothing with me and still make it fun. I don’t care much for the bar scene but I do go out with friends for karaoke almost every Sunday night. Sometimes I get sucked in by reality television. People are fascinating. I can be very persuasive, therefore I usually get my way. I enjoy photography. I love black and white photos. I think they show the true beauty. I like to make lists. I’ll sit down and read a book cover to cover if it’s something that interests me. I’m known to write some pretty decent poetry when inspired. I prefer to be around someone who is sure of themselves. There's nothing more depressing than being around someone who's depressed. I try to stay positive in almost any situation. I try not to have regrets. I look at everything as a learning experience. Past relationships have made me more cautious and have made me more aware of the fact that I need to watch for the red flags. They've also shown me that you can't "force" chemistry. If there's no attraction there, there's nothing you can do about it. Our instincts are powerful forces. I don’t take things too seriously. I love music and lyrics. And quotes. I don’t like driving too fast. Especially if I’m not the one driving. Death scares me. I want someone that lets me know what they're thinking. And someone who thinks about me. I want stability, something I can depend on. I want to be swept off my feet. I believe love has no gender. Anyone has the possibility of falling in love with anyone else.

Lately I can’t seem to find anyone that holds my interest. I’m looking for THAT person. The attractive, charming, sweet, caring, passionate one to fall hopelessly in love with. I don’t feel that I ask too much from someone. I’m quite simple to please. I’m a very giving person and always try to make sure my partner is taken care of. I have been hurt and used by many people in my life and now I’m looking for the one that can change all that. My name is Nicole. I am 28 and attractive (at least I think so). I don’t want to meet someone that already has a girlfriend or still has drama from their last girlfriend. I am not here to make your girlfriend jealous or to help you ease the pain from your horrible breakup with the girl you still have feelings for. You need to be completely available. Both physically and emotionally. I am smart and somewhat of a grammar freak. It drives me crazy when people misspell simple words. Also, when people speak/act like they are uneducated. It’s just not attractive to me. I am not looking for a “thug.” I need to be with someone I can take out in public and be proud to be seen with them. I rarely go out to clubs/bars. I don’t dance. I do, however, enjoy a game of pool once in a while. I have always wanted a close family. I enjoy a good book once in a while but prefer writing over reading for the most part. I used to write a lot of short stories and poetry but haven’t lately as I need to feel inspired and I don’t. I love ALL KINDS of music. Depending on my mood… I could listen to country one minute and hip hop the next. I enjoy watching television sometimes. I’m really into comedies. I have an amazing sense of humor and like to find the funny in everything. I also enjoy chick flicks on occasion. I want to find someone who enjoys going out and doing things. I’d like to go camping, hiking, mini golfing, bowling, etc. I think thunderstorms are romantic. I need someone who pushes me to do my best and won't drag me down. I want someone who is open and honest about what they are thinking/feeling. And I will try to do the same. I'm not really into tattoos or piercings.

I am funny, smart, and honest
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time as a certified pharmacy technician. I also work at a daycare when my schedule allows it.
I’m really good at
EVERYTHING! Haha. Just kidding. I am good at a lot of things though. I'm good at cooking. I'm also good at playing games (board games /video games, not head games). Hmm... I'm good at writing when I am inspired. I'm pretty good with spelling and grammar, which I think are both important as I am a mild perfectionist.
The first things people usually notice about me
My boobs. Unfortunately :( I'd like to think it was my smile or my eyes. Also, my sense of humor. I look sweet and innocent but I am always making people laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I LOVE comedies. I like all kinds of music. I love any kind of food. I'm pretty easy to please.
The six things I could never do without
1. Friends/Family (where would we be without their love and support?)
2. Paper/Pen (I love making lists. Plus, when I am inspired I LOVE to write).
3. Cell Phone (I love staying connected with people. I am a big texter).
4. Car (I love being able to get up and go as I please).
5. Money (Who doesn't love money?!? I LOVE to shop).
6. Love (There's no greater force on Earth).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything. My mind is always going about something.
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing after a crazy, busy week at work
You should message me if
You think we would get along. Even if it's only for friendship. And if you have the following qualities:

Age: 21-35
Lives within driving distance of me.
Sense of humor
Honest (I can’t stand liars.)
Intelligent (You don’t have to be a genius.)
Good hygiene (Please shower every day. Oh, and brush your teeth.)
Non-smoker (I quit after 8 years and it grosses me out.)
Don’t do ANY drugs
Don’t drink all the time (Once in a while is okay. I do occasionally drink.)
Have a Facebook profile. (I feel like everyone should have one by now. Both of my parents and even both of my grandmothers have them!)