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38 Umeå, Sweden Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Mar 1
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
At my last update I didn't even bother to write in English because I thought that it doesn't happen anyway that you meet somebody from a different country make something out of it. Since then I've gotten to know a couple that had an ocean between them, met via OKCupid, and now are married with a new baby. That's gone a long way to restore my faith in love and online connections :)

Who am I then? I guess the short answer is that I'm an honest, intelligent, creative, and sort of unconventional guy. I'm nice. I have a brain but it doesn't seem to do me much good, I fare better when I manage to just follow my heart. I like people and I'm usually happy with most, though I have a streak of shyness. I love to hear people's stories, I'm always trying to figure out who they are and how they view the world. Actually I'm curious about most anything, I can't help trying to make sense of the world around me.

I guess most of the time the it doesn't make sense though, and I'm looking for someone that does.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Studying cognitive science occasionally, working as a taxidriver to pay the bills and to get to hear about peoples lives. Learning to be a roller derby referee. Doing kundalini yoga - well, not right now but it's important to me. Singing in a choir, I almost never listen to that kind of music but doing it makes me happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Figuring out what motivates people. Massages. Cooking. Solving problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've asked around. Most of the answers were pretty standard; nice, open, social, warm, trustworthy and tounge-in-cheek. The funniest and most interesting was "unexpectedly intense". Apparently I come across as quite shy at first but then I explode in congeniality :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: I like it spicy, I've cooked a lot of Indian food but righ now I'm curious about North African cuisine. I think it's morally right to be a vegetarian, but..well I'm not, I eat meat but I really hate how animals are treated. I should find some way to resolve that.

Movies: The latest really great movie I've seen is Broken (2012), one of my favourites ever actually. I also loved Heaven (2002). A Clockwork Orange is a favourite as well. I try to see films that will give me an unexpected experience. That doesn't mean I can't enjoy Die Hard or whatever, it just means that these are the films I remember because they affected me somehow.

I love to read when I take the time to do it, I'm really striving to give it more space in my life. I'll get back to you on this one.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-I guess it sounds kind of girly, but hugs - I love to be close, I need to be close..of course I survive without but it sucks.
-Honesty - what's the point of any relationship if you're not at least trying to show the other person who you really are?!
-Challenges, if nothing interesting happens in my life I just become apathetic.
-Growth - also sounds really inane but I truly think you can spend a lifetime getting to know yourself, not to speak of another person. It's fascinating and necessary, if you're not getting anywhere, what's the point?
-Hope..I almost said love, but I'm making do with hope :)
-Friends - there's actually a lot of love in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Funny words. What makes people tick. What makes people sorry, I mean't I spend a lot of time coming up with stupid puns and laughing to myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Every other week I'm working, otherwise it's derby practice, and then I usually eat something nice, have a beer and fall asleep on the couch :) Saturdays are for having fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I fantasise about being a writer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. feel like it, I'll be happy to just talk for a bit. But honestly I put quite a lot of stock in the matching system of OKCupid so if we have a low match percentage I won't be expecting sparks to fly. But hey, prove them wrong :)