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38 • Umeå, Sweden • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–35
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For long-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 17
- 6′ 2″ (1.88m)
- Body type
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on university
- Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
- Has cats
- English (Fluently), Swedish (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
I still think I'm a pretty good person. Smart, sensitive, kind, funny if you share my sense of humor. Still single, mostly because of bad choices I think. I guess I can be sort of complicated at times and over think things, but most of the time I remember to just go with my gut feeling. I still don't know what I'm going to be when I grow up. In the the meantime though, I'm having a pretty good life with some amazing friends, my furry flatmates, and fun.
I'm a very honest person as you've probably already guessed, but I'm pretty good at seeing the good things in people so I don't think that would count against me. I'm very curious, I can entertain myself for hours with just an encyclopedia. I like learning new things, not necessarily in the kind of structured way that will give you good grades and a job, but I'm very good at trivial pursuit. I'm open minded to the point where my brain might fall out.
(Who am I then? I guess the short answer is that I'm an honest, intelligent, creative, and sort of unconventional guy. I'm nice. I have a brain but it doesn't seem to do me much good, I fare better when I manage to just follow my heart. I like people and I'm usually happy with most, though I have a streak of shyness. I love to hear people's stories, I'm always trying to figure out who they are and how they view the world. Actually I'm curious about most anything, I can't help trying to make sense of the world around me.
I guess most of the time the it doesn't make sense though, and I'm looking for someone that does.)
I'm in a choir. I actually never listen to that type of music, but it's fun and challenging trying to get it right together with another 30 people.
I work out a couple of times a week. I stopped for a couple of years but I'm very happy to be getting back into shape now.
I used to do kundalini yoga and I've been meaning to come back to it, it made a big difference in my life and I miss it.
I also used to be involved with roller derby, but that didn't really work out. A few years back, I tried classes in acting, massage and Argentine tango, just for fun.
I'd like to spend more time learning languages, it's fun and comes easy to me.
Other than that, I like to cook and spend time with friends, preferably at the same time.
Movies: The latest really great movie I've seen is Broken (2012), one of my favourites ever actually. I also loved Heaven (2002). A Clockwork Orange is a favourite as well. I try to see films that will give me an unexpected experience. That doesn't mean I can't enjoy Die Hard or whatever, it just means that these are the films I remember because they affected me somehow.
I love to read when I take the time to do it, I'm really striving to give it more space in my life. I'll get back to you on this one.
-Honesty - what's the point of any relationship if you're not at least trying to show the other person who you really are?!
-Challenges, if nothing interesting happens in my life I just become apathetic.
-Growth - also sounds really inane but I truly think you can spend a lifetime getting to know yourself, not to speak of another person. It's fascinating and necessary, if you're not getting anywhere, what's the point?
-Hope..I almost said love, but I'm making do with hope :)
-Friends - there's actually a lot of love in my life.
Also, we should have a pretty good match. It's a reflection of sharing basic values.
Other than that I'm pretty friendly and interested in getting to know new people. If it says I rarely answer, it's because I get a lot of messages from people who I have nothing in common with. I mean nothing, like 30% match - I don't know why.
If you think we'll understand each other, I'll be very happy to talk to you!
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