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Smithsfan4life

30 M Verona, WI

My Details

Last Online
Jul 25
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Available
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm looking for the last piece to a mostly complete puzzle.

I believe in true love and I'm eternally grateful I was able to find it so early in life.

Five years ago, I married the girl of my dreams. With all the wonders she has brought to my life, she introduced me to polyamory, and an existence I can never turn back from. Thanks to her I know a love and sense of family I never thought could be possible. I have made a life with her and her fiancée, that I am very happy with.

Now I'm wondering if there might be someone else out there for me, a second soul mate if you will, who would like to join me in all of this.
What I’m doing with my life
At the moment I'm working as a line therapist, which has me spending most of my time teaching relationship building and development skills to children on the autism spectrum. It's fun, engaging, and rewarding work that I'm totally in love with.

Aside from this I will be resuming my undergraduate degree this fall. My intent is to obtain my BA in biology education to become a high school biology teacher and LGBT youth advocate.
I’m really good at
Getting lost in my own thoughts

Baking delicious pies- particularly pumpkin and other fruit pies

Roasting poultry- the ducks I cook for Thanksgiving are drool worthy

Executing artistic endeavors- I enjoy many artistic hobbies, from drawing and painting to sewing and embroidery, and I'm generally really good at most anything I try my hand at.

Small romantic gestures- I enjoy performing small romantic gestures. It's not at all uncommon for me to give someone I' care about a random bunch of fresh picked flowers, cutesie love notes, poetic verses, or small gifts for no reason.

Making up horrible puns.
The first things people usually notice about me
My hair. It's voluptuous and gets a lot of attention.

Aside from that, people tend to notice that I'm intellectual. I have a ton of interests and hobbies, a corny sense of humor and I'm very lovable. I can come off as a bit pompous at first, but that tends to fade once you get to know me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book is Battle Royale by Koushun Takami. Favorite movie is The Orphanage. Show-Farscape, Song-Please, Please, Please, Let me get what I want this time-By: The Smiths, and I'm a sucker for most all types of sushi.

I'm odd in that I'm so opinionated I actually have favorite everything. Go ahead, think of a category, any catagory, and I bet I have a favorite thing in it. No, seriously, try it! :P
The six things I could never do without
1. family
2. written word
3. love/intimacy/passion/romance
4. nature
5. physical activity
6. music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
, Wondering why people think the world is such a horrible place.

Feeding homeless people.

Why the trip going somewhere always seems to take longer than the trip back, even if you follow the same route.

I find myself fascinated by individual histories. I like to visit cemeteries and think about the lives of the people there. What were their occupations, were they happy, did they die with regrets, are they remembered or thought of fondly? I especially find myself often wondering how people died, particularly if they were young. I guess this also explains my fondness for the "Spoonriver Anthology" by Edgar Lee Masters, one of the greatest poetic works in existence.

I think a lot about travel and places I'd like to see.

If I could imbue my younger self with the knowledge I possess today, how would I change things?

Wondering how my perception of the world differs from that of other people.

This is really just a fraction of my day to day thoughts. I honestly think about so many things, it would be impossible to document them all.
On a typical Friday night I am
Up for anything! I'm new in town and don't know very many places or people. I'd really like to meet someone who can show me around.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
It's not especially private but I was an exotic dancer for two years and I have learned some really fun tricks from my experiences.

I'm also transgender.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 20–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are into nerdy hobbies. You have a bit of a penchant for punky inwardly gothic boys, who are obsessed with all things macabre. You like amazing music. You are curious. You think nice, gentlemanly guys with glasses are sexy.