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43 San Mateo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:22pm
Asian, Pacific Islander, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Space camp
Has kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Born in Hawai'i and attended private school in the City.

I'm outgoing, adventurous, spontaneous, playful, easy going, and optimistic. At the same time I'm introspective, mindful, reserved, understanding, passionate and dedicated.

I love to travel and have been to France, Switzerland, Italy, Germany, England, Denmark, Russia, and Japan.

Professional man, dedicated to my career and good at it. My work rarely gets dull, and my day can go from quiet to super intense at the drop of a hat. It also allows me time for my children and my own time on Friday and Saturday nights.

I enjoy spending time with and raising/co-parenting my kids, cooking/grilling food with and for friends and family. I also make time for myself, Giants games or other sports, chilling out with a good movie or book and glass of wine, or coffee. Running and working out to stay fit and healthy are essential to my life and career. Enjoying a great restaurant or meeting up in a bar with friends for some drinks. I prefer smaller venue music events, big concerts are cool too.

I always strive for balance in all aspects of my life. Personal growth is important in life. Giving my best to everyone I encounter on my journey through life is important.

I'm looking to spend time with someone that's happy and secure with themselves. Honesty, being open and a willingness to grow are important. Someone who is fun loving, intelligent, loves to laugh and make others laugh, kind and is warm to others, willing to take a few risks and be adventurous.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying the ride and living in the moment.

Balancing life, family, work and play.

Raising children to be the best they can be.

Looking for new adventures and inspiration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Filling out questionnaires while having a glass of wine or scotch!

My job

Building, tearing down or fixing stuff

Sharpening pencils


Word Scramble

Useless trivia

Giving back massages

Making Owies feel better

Defusing a bad situation


Picking the perfect bouquet of flowers for you ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look young for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Lets Explore Diabetes with Owls/ Iron War/ Let The Great World Spin/ The Descendents/ Game of Thrones/ A lot of Classics/ No Country For Old Men/the Road/ Red Dragon/ All Over Coffee/ Calvin & Hobbes/ Bloom County-Outland-Opus

Movies: Enjoyed Interstellar, Gone Girl. Too many to list. Anything with San Francisco as a backdrop.

Shows: I'm attempting to stop. Shameless, True Detective, Black Sails, Banshee, The Leftovers, Games and the Dead.

Music: Foo Fighters! Coldplay, Imagine Dragons, Death Cab, U2, Maroon 5, Pink!, Jack Johnson, Mumford and Sons, RHCP, Gary Clark, Jr., Iz and some good slack key. But I listen to everything 60's-Current... SRV, Marley, Beatles, Journey, Van Halen, Old School Hip Hop, EWF, Marvin, Al Green, ZBB, even the King!

Food: Sushi, a perfect ribeye steak or prime rib, Mex, dim sum, Indian, a great burger, most anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and Friends




I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I make today better than yesterday?

Hawai'i, sooner rather than later.

The next adventure/vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends... Are you feeling adventurous?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not in cyberspace, dear. ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of my rantings resonates. You are up for a good time! Cool conversation and some laughs over coffee or drinks. Seeing if we can get into trouble... I'll make sure we get out of it!