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43 San Mateo, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:36am
Asian, Pacific Islander, Other
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Catholicism and laughing about it
Space camp
Has kid(s)
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Just ask me.

Quick list:
Family man
Professional with 19 years in (I was young when I joined the force)
Born in Hawaii with family roots still there
Private school educated in the Bay Area (Catholic School)
I've travelled the world and can hold a conversation
I grew up with muscle cars and know my way around most mechanical things, or will figure it out
Easy going, but intense and at my best when the heat is on and I'm needed or called upon
Always striving to better myself
Enjoy cooking, bbqing, and eating great food. I cleanup after myself, too.
Jeans and t-shirt but can rock a suit and tie too
Old fashioned but open and progressive at the same time
Best of all, I'm not perfect!

I'm looking to spend time with someone that's happy and secure with themselves. Honesty, being open and a willingness to grow are important. Someone who is fun loving, intelligent, loves to laugh and make others laugh, kind and is warm to others, willing to take a few risks and be adventurous.

Always down for catching a Giants game. Late night ride on the Triumph into SF for a cup of coffee or Manhattan and take in the city's views. Jumping into the Mustang and heading up or down Highway 1. Road trip to Vegas for a couple of days, it doesn't hurt to have a cousin who's an executive chef at the Bellagio, either!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying the ride and living in the moment.

Balancing life

Looking for new adventures and inspiration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Filling out questionnaires while having a glass of wine or scotch!

My job

Building, tearing down or fixing stuff

Sharpening pencils


Word Scramble

Useless trivia

Giving back massages

Making Owies feel better

Defusing a bad situation


Picking the perfect bouquet of flowers for you ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look young for my age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Lets Explore Diabetes with Owls/ Iron War/ Let The Great World Spin/ The Descendents/ Game of Thrones/ A lot of Classics/ No Country For Old Men/the Road/ Red Dragon/ All Over Coffee/ Calvin & Hobbes/ Bloom County-Outland-Opus

Movies: Enjoyed Interstellar, Gone Girl. Too many to list. Anything with San Francisco as a backdrop.

Shows: I'm attempting to stop. Shameless, True Detective, Black Sails, Banshee, The Leftovers, Games and the Dead.

Music: Foo Fighters! Coldplay, Imagine Dragons, Death Cab, U2, Maroon 5, Pink!, Jack Johnson, Mumford and Sons, RHCP, Gary Clark, Jr., Iz and some good slack key. But I listen to everything 60's-Current... SRV, Marley, Beatles, Journey, Van Halen, Old School Hip Hop, EWF, Marvin, Al Green, ZBB, even the King!

Food: Sushi, a perfect ribeye steak or prime rib, Mex, dim sum, Indian, a great burger, most anything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and Friends




I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How can I make today better than yesterday?

Hawai'i, sooner rather than later.

The next adventure/vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends... Are you feeling adventurous?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Not in cyberspace, dear. ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of my rantings resonates. You are up for a good time! Cool conversation and some laughs over coffee or drinks. Seeing if we can get into trouble... I'll make sure we get out of it!