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42 M San Mateo, CA

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Asian, Pacific Islander, Other
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Born in Hawai'i and attended private school in the City.

I'm outgoing, energetic, adventurous, spontaneous, playful, funny, optimistic, easy going. At other times I'm introspective, mindful, reserved, understanding, passionate, dedicated, determined, focused and intense. Friends, family and colleagues say I have the qualities of kindness, creativity, honesty, integrity, loyalty, trustworthiness and compassion.

I love the outdoors. Hiking or running around the Bay Area. I have a strange sense if direction.

I clean up well and easily slip into a suit, for a fun and exciting night zipping through the City for some great food and wine. The right cocktail is good too! I enjoy all types of conversations, I can go light to heavy depending on who I'm with and what we feel like talking about.

Collected passport stamps from France, Switzerland, Italy(for a day), Germany, England, Denmark, Russia, and Japan.

Been at my career for 18 years, and I'm good at what I do. Lots of interesting stories from over the years and it rarely gets dull. It also allows me time for my children and my own time on Friday and Saturday nights.

Dad to a handsome 19 year old gentleman, and 2 beautiful young ladies, 11 and 14. They are my best creations to date!

I enjoy raising and having fun with my kids, walking the dog, cooking/grilling food with and for friends and family. I also make time for myself, Giants games or other sports, chilling out with a good movie or book and good glass of wine, or coffee. Running and working out to stay fit and healthy are essential to my life and career. Enjoying a new restaurant or meeting up in a bar with friends for some drinks. I prefer smaller venue music events, big concerts are cool too.

I always strive for balance in all aspects of my life. Personal growth is important in life. Giving my best to everyone I encounter on my journey through life is important.

I'm looking to spend time with someone that's happy and secure in their own skin. Honesty, being open and a willingness to grow are important. Someone who is fun loving, intelligent, loves to laugh and make others laugh, kind and warm to others, willing to take a few risks and be adventurous.

Or even someone cool to just hang out and chill with. There's always room for new friends!
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it! Living in the moment.

Balancing life, family, work and play.

Raising children to be the best they can be.

Planning day to day activities and regaining the spontaneity of my teenage days.

Looking for new adventures and inspiration!

I make it a point to learn something new every day.
I’m really good at
Filling out questionnaires while having a glass of wine!

My job

Building, tearing down or fixing stuff

Sharpening pencils

Erasing stuff


Word Scramble

Useless trivia

Making booboos better / Clipping a Bulldog's toe nails

Defusing a bad situation/Conflict management and resolution, especially if I'm not directly involved. ; p

Grilling (brushing up on my kitchen work, a little rusty, Pops was a chef)
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not as innocent as I appear... ;-)

I look young for my age (Usually after my age is asked. Thanks for the great genes Mom!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Right now?

Books: Lets Explore Diabetes with Owls/ Well Being/ The Descendents/ Game of Thrones/ A lot of Classics/ No Country For Old Men/the Road/ Red Dragon/ All Over Coffee/ Calvin & Hobbes/ Bloom County-Outland-Opus

Movies: Just enjoyed "Begin Again" (The American version of "Once"). Too many to list. Anything with San Francisco as a backdrop.

Shows: I'm attempting to stop. Although TRUE DETECTIVE was hands down the best damn show this past season. Black Sails wasn't to shabby.

Music: Foo Fighters! Coldplay, Imagine Dragons, Death Cab, U2, Maroon 5, Pink!, Jack Johnson, Nickelback, RHCP, Gary Clark, Jr., Iz and some good slack key. But I listen to everything 60's-Current... SRV, Marley, Beatles, Mayer, Journey, Van Halen, Old School Hip Hop, EWF, Marvin, Al Green, ZBB, even the King!

Food: Where do we live? C'mon...
The six things I could never do without
The sound of laughter and feeling of unconditional love from my children

The sweet smell of a medium rare ribeye steak I just grilled or that first fruity or smokey inhale of a great glass of wine

The perfect rhythm, as music fills my ears at just the right moment

The soothing touch of sunlight hitting my skin

That warm embrace from the person I love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How can I make today better than yesterday?

How cool and wonderful my children are!

The complexities of being a 14 year old nowadays!

The next spontaneous adventure/vacation.
On a typical Friday night I am
Depends... Are you feeling adventurous?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You can type...

Just kidding!

Any of my rantings resonates. You are up for some fun! Great conversation and some laughs over coffee or drinks. Maybe taking a goofy bulldog out for a walk. Seeing if we can get into trouble!

Let's just have fun! Who knows where that might lead...