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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:42pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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My family genes bestowed upon me the creative, free-thinking spirit of a graphic artist (my mom) and the logical, deep-thinking mind of an engineer (my dad); as a result, I have eclectic tastes and a deep appreciation for the arts, especially music. At the same time, my ever-inquisitive mind pushes me to ask questions, seek the truth -- I can't stand liars, cheats and people who look for the easy way out -- and attempt to fix things when they break. Plus I can skate (ice and roller), cook and play the drums. Sometimes all at once ;-)

I'm into winter sports (skiing, snowboarding, ice hockey), all kinds of food (if you're nice, I'll make my award winning grilled cheese), lots of music (playing it, listening to it, watching it, experiencing it), British comedy, and have a soft spot for all animals.

I believe everyone has something to offer and I care a lot about the world we live in and what can be done to keep it from freezing/melting/exploding/being invaded by aliens or whatever apocalyptic event is on today's front page.

My journey has taken many twists and turns - some by my own choosing, others by circumstances way out of my control - but where it's led me now is one of the most exciting and rewarding places I've ever been. Life's ups and downs are something we all have to deal with, and I try to stay as balanced as possible and just enjoy the ride. If you feel the same, then we're off to a great start.

A wise man once told me "Enjoy today, love those around you, be kind to everyone, be an example for others to follow." Can't say I'm on point with all four every day, but I do make the effort.
What I’m doing with my life
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A brainstorm I had a few years ago has evolved into an amazingly rewarding business at the intersection of the nonprofit and sports worlds. It's creative, super fun and has connected me with incredibly bright, dedicated and passionate people.

I also play drums in a funk & soul band, which keeps me sane, centered and very, very groovy ;-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Asking Questions: If there's one thing I know it's that I don't know everything.

Making Grilled Cheese: As I alluded to earlier I know enough moves in the kitchen to be dangerous. My grilled cheese skills won me a nifty trophy and my latest culinary creation was blueberry chipotle smoked chicken chili. Yes, I said blueberry chipotle and yes, it was amazing.

Staying Grounded: Just my nature I guess, but I try to stay balanced and bring an open mind to every situation.

Taking Vacations: Although I haven't had one in quite a while, I am a great traveler/explorer/seeker and have a long list of places I'd like to visit. At the same time, I'm also a guy who is happy to sit his ass in a chair on the beach with a great book, an adult beverage (fruit slice & tiny paper umbrella, por favor!) and just chill out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! that I'm not from LA, but they can't seem to place where. I've lived here for over 25 years, but I grew up in Northern New Jersey, just outside of NYC so I have a bit of shared perspective on the east coast/west coast thing. Maybe I should've mediated the Rap war of the early 90's and we'd still have Biggie and Tupac?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music is huge part of my life. I've been playing drums since age 13 and still play in a funk & soul band. I listen to a wide range of stuff, with a heavy dose of 60's soul, 70's funk, acid jazz, Stax-era r&b, and current artists like Greyboy Allstars, Soulive, New Mastersounds, Sharon Jones & the Dap Kings, Galactic, Breakestra, Mayer Hawthorne, Soulive. I also dig a lot of roots rock/alt country, alternative and indie rock, old school hip-hop, punk rock, 80's power-pop, 90's brit-pop and I love a good mash-up ("The Beastles" Beastie Boys vs The Beatles is an all-time favorite). Lately digging down-tempo stuff from Cinematic Orchestra & Groove Armada. Last two shows I saw were Lake Street Dive (awesome!) and Southern Soul Assembly (awesome-er ;-)

Currently reading Roy Choi's book "LA Son." Yes, I'll admit that I have a man-crush on the king of food trucks. The guy is a genius. And a bad-ass.

I'm hooked on the Snap Judgement story-telling podcasts. The Moth stories are great too, but I've been into Snap lately on long drives.

A few movies I dug: Sherlock Holmes, Big Lebowski, The Thin Red Line, Traffic, Little Miss Sunshine, Blues Brothers, Napoleon Dynamite, Fandango, 48 Hours, Anchorman, Syriana, Usual Suspects, Snatch, Wall-E, Exit Through the Gift Shop, Despicable Me 2

Food: Yes, please! While I do eat healthy most of the time, I have a weakness for maple/bacon anything or a good cannoli (of which there are none to be found in LA, so far...)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A Drum Set
My Dog
Snow (seeing less of it every winter, which is sad)
Ginger Beer (the spicy kind, that makes my nose twitch)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. to not think too much and just "be."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Every week is totally different for me, so every Friday night tends to be as well. But the best ones are when my band is playing, the drinks are flowing and booties are shakin'!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I miss my dog. He passed away recently, and since there isn't a "had dog" option in the profile I'll leave "has dog" as he's still around, to me at least.
You should message me if
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If you like live music and lively people; if you can teach me the Argentine Tango; if you have a basic understanding of what "icing" is in hockey.

You should NOT message me if...
You're looking for the perfect guy who works 9-5 M-F, takes 2 weeks vacation every year, drives the newest Audi/BMW/MBZ and has a 5BD house in the "310." Sorry, that's not me. Happily, not me.

If you want someone who's a dreamer and a doer, a risk-taker, a motivator, an instigator and most of all, a real gentleman, then we're definitely off to a very good start.