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44 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 32–43
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:12am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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A few things that are on my bucket list:
- road trip across the US
- learn to handstand and cartwheel
- go stargazing in an empty field/desert
- take a hot-air-balloon ride
- take a trapeze class
- write songs and record a solo album.
- visit the Hermitage Museum.
- learn to juggle
- go see the fjords and the northern lights

Message me if you:
- are strong in your sense of self.
- have a love of, and lust for living.
- are curious and seek out knowledge.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wrapping my mind around the fact that I've lived in San Francisco longer than I've lived anywhere else. Wondering (in the fullest sense of that word). Reading. Working. Dancing. Playing. Performing. (And yes, the last two overlap). Taking too many photographs. Admiring garden path sentences and trying to write some.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing a tap combo to the 'Addams Family' theme song.
Ballroom dancing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My happy demeanor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't have favorites anymore, I just have books/music/movies/shows/art/plays that have touched me/make me think/changed the way I look at the world. Some of those (in no particular order) are: Don't shoot the dog; Impro and the Theater; Attached: The science of adult attachment; The Artist's Way; Frankie and Johnnie in the Claire de Lune; Les Miserables; The Usual Suspects; Nightwish; Jim Reeves; Casablanca.

Current/in progress:
Books A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy; You are not so smart; Sanford Meisner on Acting.

Movies/Shows The Musketeers; Plaza Sésamo.

Music: Fritz Wunderlich; Pavarotti and Friends; Showtunes; Goan folk; various playlists that friends have made for me; Eddi Reader.

Food: Last few times it's been tapas/Mediterranean.

At the Edge of the Ocean
I have heard this music before,
saith the body.
-- Mary Oliver
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Contact lenses.
Time for self-care.
Postsecret with breakfast on Sundays.

PS: how did I forget coffee?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Should I audition for that show? If I could build a machine to suck out the CO2 from the air and spit out gasoline, would that be a good thing? Should I finish getting my pilates teacher credentials? What does that song really mean? Why am I only a 99% match with myself? Will I fare better in the world if I stop being an optimist and turn jaded and cynical? Why don't Americans like the letter 'U' in words? Can we really trust the OKC match percentages now? And what's the deal with aluminium? Is nominative determinism a real thing?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I give pep talks to my robot vacuum cleaner when it gets stuck. And while it has drive (a rather good one too), it has no ambition or motivation so I have to go unstick it myself.

Wesla Whitfield gave me a gold star in one of her master classes. I've been telling everyone this, so it's not very private anymore.

I got my "card", but now am bored with it.
You should message me if
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You're looking for a connection, something indefinable, having some of that je ne sais quoi that fills you with happiness and delight.