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44 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–43
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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A few things that are on my bucket list:
- road trip across the US
- learn to handstand and cartwheel
- go stargazing in an empty field/desert
- take a hot-air-balloon ride
- take a trapeze class
- write songs and record a solo album.
- visit the Hermitage Museum.
- learn to juggle
- go see the fjords and the northern lights

Things that are no longer on my bucket list:
- lots.

Things that should be on my bucket list:
- ooh, shiny! Can I pull off hiking the Pyrenees and be back in time to rehearse for that show?
What I’m doing with my life
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Wrapping my mind around the fact that I've lived in San Francisco longer than I've lived anywhere else. Reading. Working. Dancing. Playing. Performing. (And yes, those three overlap). Taking too many photographs. Admiring garden path sentences.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ballroom dancing.
Finding my way around a strange city.
Getting lost in my neighborhood.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My happy demeanor.
And the glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/music/movies/shows/art/plays that have touched me/make me think/changed the way I look at the world: (in no particular order) are: Don't shoot the dog; Impro and the Theater; Attached: The science of adult attachment; The Artist's Way; Frankie and Johnnie in the Claire de Lune; Les Miserables; The Usual Suspects; Nightwish; Jim Reeves; Casablanca; The Brothers Bloom; Mamet; Les Miserables; Tosti;

Current/in progress:
Books A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy; The Dictator's Handbook: How Bad Behaviour is Almost Always Good Politics; An actor prepares.

Music: Fritz Wunderlich; Pavarotti and Friends; Showtunes; Goan folk; various playlists that friends have made for me; Eddi Reader.

Food: Last few times it's been tapas/Mediterranean.

At the Edge of the Ocean
I have heard this music before,
saith the body.
-- Mary Oliver
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Contact lenses.
Postsecret with breakfast on Sundays.
Slipping between cold sheets on the bed.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Should I audition for that show? If I could build a machine to suck out the CO2 from the air and spit out gasoline, would that be a good thing? Should I finish getting my pilates teacher credentials? Pulling hair (not mine). What does that song really mean? Why am I only a 99% match with myself? Will I fare better in the world if I stop being an optimist and turn jaded and cynical? What's the deal with aluminium? Is nominative determinism a real thing?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I give pep talks to my robot vacuum cleaner when it gets stuck. And while it has drive (a rather good one too), it has no ambition or motivation so I have to go unstick it myself.