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35 Portland, OR Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:13am
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I rarely like talking about myself - not because I don't have an interesting story to tell - but more so because I truly enjoy getting to know other people and the experiences that helped to shape their lives...therefore, I like to ask questions that reveal those innate details - I am not trying to be overtly nosey or faking an interest to gain your trust - but because I genuinely want to know your story and what makes!

That said, I am straight forward and transparent - for better or for worse, what you see is what you get...sometimes that can be interpreted as brash or possibly stubborn - but, I know what I want and what I am looking for, so can I truly be faulted for being overtly honest? (apparently so, who knew!)

Self summaries on sites like these are some what supplementary...if you are being honest with yourself, the only reason you are probably reading this was some level of attraction based on the pictures you saw...I only say this, because I do the same thing.

I could write about my 35 years of life in here and tell you all that makes me tick - but what good does that do anyone - isn't it more fun to find that stuff out on your own and come to your own decisions about how to then evaluate that individual? I am an open book - not scared of any questions...all you have to do is ask...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Hopefully never mistaking comfort for happiness...and doing my best to challenge myself to constantly do and be better!

My life is a constant evolution of making mistakes, learning from them, and being better for having made them.

I appreciate challenges and the skills needed to overcome them and ascertain one's goals...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
...being modest...

...and also being ironic...

...saying very little while using a lot of words...

Oh...and of course, filling out online dating profiles!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...that I rarely beat around the bush...or not give you my honest opinion (if asked) about something...

I also enjoy those that look at me, notice I have two different colored eyes, and then tell me as if I had no idea...(it's OK if you do, just be prepared for me to be really excited for the news!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
What!!!...No favorite color? - If this section is the make or break for you - I'm sorry - you will have to ask me in person...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Strange that they opted for six...why not five or seven?

That said - I'm not sure if I can really think of something...I know that sounds pretentious...but I guess at this stage of my life I have lost enough to know that regardless of what or who I lose, the sun still comes up - and there is another day to be lived...

Am I reading too much into this question?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. they dropped the ball for the ending of Lost?...or if I liked the series finale of How I Met Your Mother(?)!--- What to eat...what to drink? Where should I go on vacation?

I am like a goldfish - I rarely focus (think about) on one thing all that much, often, or for an extended period of time...

How online dating has created a new form of both
A-D-D and snap judgements/generalizations...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(Hopefully not working)...and if not...I am home to enjoy an adult beverage (or two) and depending on what is suppose to happen Saturday morning...either out and about in The Pearl...or dinner and drinks at home...not having a set agenda on any given Friday night makes them that much more fun and usually leads itself to better stories later!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I had brain surgery at 8 hours old...(insert joke here)...

Well that and I know who killed JFK...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. made it this far and are still curious/interested in the person behind the words...

...isn't dating in the year 2014 entertaining if nothing else???