Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're brainy, a little crunchy, emotionally available, comfortable
in your own skin, and like to talk about anything and
DISCLAIMER: I'm one of those annoying people who has a "type". If
that makes me shallow, so be it - at this stage in my life, I don't
have time for zillions of first dates with people I'm not going to
have any chemistry with. You have a much, MUCH better chance of
meeting me in person if you are: 6' or taller, describable as
"lean" or "rangy" (I find big muscles a turn-off - yeah, I'm weird)
and have a narrow face with a big nose. Bonus points for the combo
of dark hair and light eyes. I don't go for movie-star looks - it's
entirely possible that you may think you're average or weird
looking and I will find you gorgeous. And there are plenty of
people out there who are plenty attractive to others, but to whom
I'm going to say "thanks, but no thanks" because you just don't
push my buttons and I'm not going to settle for less.
FURTHER DISCLAIMER: If you message me and want me to reply, you
will need to (a) write a message that is longer than one sentence,
and (b) demonstrate that you have a sense of humor and can spell.