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51 Bromley, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What if the Hokey Cokey really IS what it's all about??

The fact is that it starts with the photos. If you didn't like those, you won't be reading this! But I'm just a nice guy looking for that special someone.

I'm genuine, confident & witty, with a knack for putting you at ease. Trustworthy, tactile & honest. But doesn't everyone say that?

I don't make a habit of swimming with dolphins, scuba diving, mountain climbing, horse riding or racing fast cars. I have no photos of me holding up a large fish. (Unless I happened to have been placing it next to some chips & someone took a photo I don't know about!) I'm not training to be an astronaut and as much as I'd like to run a campaign to have bacon recognised as one of my five a day, somehow I doubt I'd be able to secure the funding.

But I can play the guitar & dance salsa to a reasonable level. I'm tactile, a bit of a romantic on the side, I have a kitchen & I ain't afraid to use it & I've mastered a few other rudimentary tasks like putting the toilet seat down.

I have two beautiful daughters (15 & 17. We couldn't agree on names so we decided to number them instead.) They live with their mum & spend every other weekend with me.

The beard comes & goes. Opinion is divided amongst my nearest & dearest as to which is best. One thing's for sure, in person I look & seem nothing like my actual age.

Well, if you got this far, not only do you deserve a medal but you should definitely drop me a line.

Let's face it, what's the worst that could happen? A good laugh? A decent meal? And maybe that spark that we're all looking for!

After all, you miss 100% of the chances you don't take.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work-wise, I'm a creative retoucher for a major branding & packaging design agency. Outside of work, I love to socialise, eat, drink & be merry. Classical concerts & opera pepper the landscape while the geek in me likes to keep up with all my favourite TV shows & movies. More travel is on the horizon, too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job.

And making you feel comfortable, like we've known eachother for years.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In person I look & seem a lot younger than my photos would suggest.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Interests wise, I'd say music is my main passion. My eclectic taste covers all the main food groups. Lots of guitars, orchestras & synths, minimal, maximal, if I like it I'll buy it, although after Oktoberfest down my local I don't think I'll be buying oompah music any time soon!

So, hugely varied but a good sample would be: The Beatles, Radiohead, Prokofiev, Björk, Amp Fiddler, Shostakovich, Tom Waits, Prince, Chopin, Debussy, Rush, Led Zep. Autechre, Jeff Mills, David Bowie, Stravinsky, Elbow, Boards Of Canada, Ravel, Sibelius, The Cure, Wagner, Gary Numan, Kraftwerk, Yes, Depeche Mode, LCD Soundsystem, Vaughan-Williams, Coltrane & Mozart.

Films are pretty high on the agenda, too. (Granted it's mostly science fiction, but I'm open to anything & have been known to watch the odd "chick flick" without even slightly moaning!)

As for books, I mostly read non-fiction (quantum physics is a particular favourite) but I love Pullman's "His Dark Materials" trilogy & Patrick Ness' "Chaos Walking" trilogy. ("The Knife Of Never Letting Go" is just astonishing, even if it is teen fiction!) Mitch Albom's "The Five People You Meet In Heaven" is another favourite & I love the James Bond books. (Charlie Higson's Young James Bond books were great, too.)

Also, I love going back to the source with classic children's books, Winnie The Pooh, The Oz books, Peter Pan & of course Dr. Seuss.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from the obvious, (time with my girls & air to breathe), I don't think there's much I couldn't do without. But those things I especially like include coffee, hugs & kisses (in my world they're one thing), bacon, the sound of rain when I'm not out in it, strong English cheddar & great sex.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Songs I've not written down yet... And what to have for dinner. Yeah, songs & dinner. And you. I think about you a lot, too. Who & where you are & how amazing it'll be when we finally meet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At your disposal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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... Won't be on here, that's for sure. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
... If you have a few spare words that need using up. Or, you know, if you just want to say "hi" & see if I bite.