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Snugglemaven

44 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 38–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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How do you summarize a self? I have always been able to read people and I often tell people that I have a 97% accurate gut. We moved around so often that as I a child I was always the new girl so making friends doesn't come easily to me but when I finally get to know someone deeply I become a friend for life. I am very successful but never lose the fear that I will lose it all when the next great recession hits so I work my tail off and worry non-stop about work... except when I turn it off and then I do.

I want to write a novel. I wish I spoke Spanish. I respect logic and reason. I haven't had a long-term relationship in over 8 years and haven't dated more than one or two dates for more than 4 years. Maybe I've lost my mojo. I feel more at ease when my house is clean. I have the habit of twisting and playing with my hair. I like cars in the way teenage boys do. I am frequently lost and refuse to ask directions. For about 3 years I have been eating cereal for breakfast, lunch and dinner. When I go to parties I frequently get the feeling that I don't belong... for some reason I don't fit - so I avoid them usually.

Rock climbing gives me peace. Lately I have felt lonelier than usual. I am extremely fit and I don't have trouble with my weight and I don't like to date people who are overweight. I tend to like men who are tall, dark and handsome and rarely have I ever found a blonde man attractive - not to say it's impossible - just rare. I love greek salad and tawny port and massage and laying in bed reading on the weekends. Or extreme sports. Depending on my mood.

I want intimacy but I am afraid to be loved. I want to love but I don't trust many people. My therapist once told me "Fair is for 5 year olds" but I still wish life was more fair. That said, the universe owes me nothing.

I would like to shoot someone in the tea party with a high capacity magazine - just unload the entire clip - so they would understand what the parents of a 6 year feel when they lose their child to a gun toting lunatic... but nothing would change...We've lost our moral compass. shhhh... I'm thinking Canada.
What I’m doing with my life
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I want to sell my company and travel the world with a partner. Not so easy to make happen.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am an amazing friend. I am a great conversationalist. I am honest, reliable, sincere, involved and intelligent. I am mediocre but love rock climbing. I kick butt on a snowboard. I am a successful business owner. I am loyal. I am confident when I am not being totally insecure. I am really athletic if I am not depressed. I learn new things quickly. I am a good writer and one day hope to write a novel or my memoir but I am afraid it will get a giant O stamped on the cover.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My intensity. Some people find me intimidating. I am confident, attractive, intelligent, and kind.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read non stop. I am reading The Clown by Heinrich Boll. I rarely watch movies And don't often go to shows. Large crowds and loud noise makes me nervous and uncomfortable. I prefer quiet conversation with close friends
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
knowing I can make it on my own
familia cereal
my brains
change
good haircuts
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to find true happiness...when does life happen? Sometimes I catch myself waiting for something... Not sure what. And this is it. This is my life.

I want to travel around the world with someone I love. I was thinking today I want to take a year off work and see every country... not just visit but walk the streets, climb the mountains, swim in the rivers and meet the people.

I want to find the love of my life and take off with him... together we will live, live, live... But I am not waiting around for this to happen. In fact I have my doubts it's possible. But it's fun to dream.

I am extremely independent, self-reliant, strong, capable, and typically contented to be alone. But it would suck to be old and alone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Feeling grateful for the weekend so I can recover from the intensity of the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I wonder if my childhood makes it impossible for me to relate to healthy people or healthy people to find me attractive.
You should message me if
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Message me if you are intelligent, open minded, and available for a relationship. I am not interested in hooking up. I want long, intense conversations. I want to meet someone who has something to teach me... someone with good friends and the capacity to care. Someone who challenges me. Message me if you are attractive - extremely attractive - and interesting, funny, capable, loving, loyal, monogamous, and looking for love... I won't settle for less.