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SoCali79

29 / M / straight / Single

Phelan, California

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Owns dogs
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

some of my favorite things listed in keyword format....

**760** ambitious** animals** body art** bowling** chatting** comedy** computers** creative** cuddling** dc's** dirt bikes** food** football** happy** honest** humor** ipod** joking** learning new things** love** making money** meeting new people** minnesota timberwolves** minnesota vikings** mountain dew** movies** music** nature** observing** ocean** outdoors** outgoing** pictures** ps3** shy in person** sky diving** snow mobiling** snowboarding** so cal** tall** texting** traveling** truth** wave runners**

About me:

FOR STARTERS MY NAME IS DEREK..... im 29 years old. i live in the inland empire. I live my life in the moment and take each day for what it's worth. If I feel like doing something or want something, I try doing that or getting it. I try to live my life to the fullest everyday. It's the things you do and the memories you have that matter the most. Most people on my page don’t know this yet but I’m going to be a father! Not just a father either the best father ever! and I dislike fake people. Be yourself.. I like doing anything outdoors but can handle sitting in. The most important things in my life are my family and friends. I'm really friendly unless you give me a reason not to be. I'm goofy and I really don’t care what you or your friends think of my dumbass. I am me so please don’t try to change me. I'm open-minded and caring person. I believe everything happens for a reason, so if you consider that religious then i guess i am. Theres a few qualities I have that surely you won’t find in anyone else. I haven't been in California all that long so I’m just here for a fresh start with some new people, meet some new people and make some friends. I’m a really hard working individual. I dislike drama. I know what I want in my life. i have some flaws that i need to work on if its the death of me. nobodys perfect but i try to strive for excellence in everything i do.

What I’m doing with my life

working and saving money so i can afford to give my kiddo anything it wants.... :)

I’m really good at

a few things but whatever i try putting my focus on

The first things people usually notice about me

my height
my eyes
my personality

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

movies...

I LIKE MOST OF THE MOVIES IVE SEEN JUST ABOUT ALL GENRES OF MOVIES

tv shows (even though it dont ask for it)

FAMILY GUY SOUTH PARK THE OFFICE SCRUBS CALIFORNICATION WEEDS SIMPSONS UFC FUTURAMA THAT 70'S SHOW HOW I MET YOUR MOTHER MALCOLM IN THE MIDDLE 2 AND 1/2 MEN MAD TV SNL ANYTHING COMEDY CENTRAL.....MIND OF MENCIA, CHAPELLE SHOW AND STAND UP COMICS LIKE DANE COOK

music....

I CAN HANDLE LISTENING TO ALL TYPES OF MUSIC. BUT LIKE ROCK/PUNK ROCK BETTER

books...

ANYTHING SUSPENSE/THRILLER/HORROR STEPHEN KING AND JOHN SANFORD ARE SOME GOOD AUTHORS

food...

steak
mexican food
chicken
pizza

The six things I could never do without

my kiddo
my family
my friends
my job
my car
my place of residence

I spend a lot of time thinking about

i try not to spend anytime thinking about the past or present...maybe a little with the present with a kid comming but besides that i think alot about the day im in. spending time in the past or present commits to stress so i try not to be stressed.

On a typical Friday night I am

working
staying at home
helping the family

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

well when i was younger i caught my mom eating the cookies i left for santa. so since then i stopped believing in santa. never seen her hide the eggs on easter so yes i still believe in the easter bunny

You should message me if

if u find me interesting, looking for friends, wanna hang out or talk on here, etc etc