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SoccerBarret

23 / M / straight / Married

Asheville, North Carolina

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am ammusing, thoughtful, and bashful.

My Self-Summary

Hey, my name is Daniel. I enjoy nothing better than to sit at home and read a good book that in no way pertains to this reality. I have a decent paying job. I'm terrible at spelling. I am always willing to learn new things. I am usually thoughtful about most things, and try to better myself by self-analysis, and sometimes I'm even successful. I can live without all the luxuries of life, but i would rather work my way up until i can afford them. I can be old fashioned about some things, I do my best be honorable and respectful, even chivalrous at times.
I have the tendency to be practical more often then not. I drink green tea and eat decently because its good for me, and I try to do yoga (though I don't get around to it very often). I suppose it should also be said that I don't drink alcohol except as a benefit to my health, so usually one beer a night, on occasion two, never more than two.

I have the wonderful tendency to smile to myself, at things I am thinking, at something that someone else says that reminds me of something else, just randomly. *shrug* I have a sunny disposition, I can't help it.

*UPDATE*
Ok, so, Somebody just recently asked "what I was like" and when I wrote an answer it actually just flowed out... so, I figured to add it to this. Maybe it will be closer to who i am than what is above:

I am a person who always likes to have a smile on his face, even when it is inappropriate. I laugh both when i am nervous and relaxed. I am goofy, I am a dork/nerd. I play to many video games, though I have been slacking off a bit lately in favor of human contact.

I like my privacy, so its hard for me to get out and meet new people. and when I do I don't always act natural around them at first. I never go to parties, I don't go to bars or clubs. I don't smoke and drink sparingly. I am quite satisfied with my state of mind and have no wish to change it.

I think I end up trying to be chivalrous. Though in today's time and age, I can only pull it off to some extent.

I don't like conflict, I will sway to one side or the other to avoid it, but I will never go against my core beliefs. If I must, I will stand up for what I must. And when I do, I will not back down until satisfied with the outcome. I am slow to anger, but when angered, the one who arose me to such a state will have reason to give pause.

I love and nourish my books. I don't like to let people I don't trust borrow them.

I care about to much, to many things. I try to be callous towards a lot of it, but I really do care to much. I hate things that go to waste without just reason.

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What I’m doing with my life

I have all but finished school, and I'm working full time now. I did take karate, but I hate fighting, but I would never forgive myself if I needed to defend someone i cared about but wasn't capable. I am moving into a new apartment soon... as in the middle of June.

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I’m really good at

I'm good at math, but I haven't practiced it since I first started college... about two years ago. I'm used to be an Excellent soccer player, but I've fallen out of practice due to the whole school and work thing. I also have my hand at woodworking, building and designing furniture and such.

Really, I'm not half bad at most anything. Every now and again I will run into something I can't do well, but mostly anything I can't do well, I can figure out and do passably well.

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The first things people usually notice about me

I guess the first thing anyone notices about anyone is how they look, and people do say I'm something along the lines of handsome. I never much thought so,so take that how you will. I am also mostly in good cheer, a right little sunshine one might say. I have the tendency of smiling with ALL the muscles with my face, so my whole face crunches up a little. Haha, I'm gonna have wrinkles at the age of 30 but I'm not worried about it. It will give my face even more character =)

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

well, i usually read fantasy type books. I enjoy them and have a collection that is almost unreasonable.... almost. I don't watch a great many movies simply because I haven't anyone to watch them with, though i did love "10 Things I Hate About You." I will listen to most music with the exception of rap, heavy metal and most metal. and I will eat just about anything, and am a fair hand a cooking.

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The six things I could never do without

Ok, seriously, if there is anything you can't do without, then you are simply too attached... that being said, my books, my books, my books, my books, my books, and my books. = ) I don't worship them, but I just might go stir crazy without them.

I suppose I am a little attached to a few things... like... my books... well, also my computer, the internet, my car, food - and I mean that in an "I'm still a growing boy" kinda way, soft beds are always nice, and comfy, warm, fresh sheets!

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I spend a lot of time thinking about

random things that flit across my mind. Some of them are even useful. I simply let my mind wander wherever it may.

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On a typical Friday night I am

at home, doing whatever comes to mind. books, on occasion video games. That's usually about it though...

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a romantic

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You should message me if

Okay, I should change this part now that I'm married. If you want to chat, then feel free to message me. Its not going to turn into anything more than that though ;)

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