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Socialdeixis

35 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:27am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), Russian (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I like foreign languages, linguistics, international studies, public policy, reading, writing, exercising, coffee, hiking, salsa dancing, good music, good conversation, genuine people, a clean environment, creativity, adventure, travel, and interesting situations.

I'm open to meeting nice people for the sake of having a good conversation over coffee or drinks, developing a friendship and going from there. I come from a good family of communicators, poet and psychologist for parents. I feel open to having any kind of conversation, and I appreciate and value differences that people bring to the table.

I spend most of my days over caffeinated.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently working in government in a job that is very fulfilling. I am lucky and fortunate to do what I do in such a great city. Every day I get to help people and I am constantly presented with new challenges and adventures. When I am not at work, I am usually studying to enhance my career. I believe in self improvement and personal growth. I am considering the possibility of pursuing a doctorate.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
If I had to describe myself, I might say that I am good at listening to people. I'm also pretty good at putting myself in others' shoes. Lately, I've been working on being comfortable with vulnerability. A friend lent a book to me by Brene Brown and I was impressed by her work, and trying to incorporate some of her theories into my every day life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'd pay money to know this. Right now I can only speculate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Vonnegut - Slaughterhouse Five, Cat's Cradle
Foucault - Madness and Civilization, History of Sexuality, Torture and Punishment
Chomsky - Manufacturing Consent
Said - Orientalism
Food - Sushi, Chinese, Mexican
Music - Alternative, Indy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Culture, language, exercise, books, conversation, learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually cooking dinner and/or going salsa dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I was 7 years old I stood next to a mannequin and pretended to be one myself. I actually fooled passersby into thinking that I too was a mannequin.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are as doubtful about judging someone based on a few digital images and paragraphs of text as I am. You understand that there is no such thing as "online dating" in that the dating part starts with an actual first meeting, something humans are hardwired to do, and up until that point, regardless of how are percentages pan out based on a few questions created by a group of mathematicians, mind you, that there is no real way of determining whether or not we are a good fit for each other. All of that is to say that the whole process of getting to know each other face to face is to use the many facets of human communication to discover the chemistry we have.

You are sincere, genuine, and want to have a good conversation. I would love to meet someone who is open minded, flexible, and enjoys the diversity of people in the world.