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35 M Portland, OR

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Last Online
Yesterday – 10:12pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Japanese (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
My educational background is in foreign languages and linguistics, international affairs, and public policy. I grew up playing sports, and in college I became intellectually driven with a thirst for knowledge. I work out at the gym six days per week, read two or three books at any given time, try to keep up on my foreign languages, and I like to go salsa dancing once or twice per week. I also like writing in my journal in the form of short stories or poems.

I'm a social person, but I'm also very independent and enjoy my alone time. I like meeting new people and socializing, but I don't NEED to be in the spotlight. I'm hoping to meet someone who is similar. I was raised to think with an open mind, taking all perspectives into consideration when making decisions. I have a very busy life and I try to keep a regular schedule during the week. I do not abuse alcohol or drugs of any kind.

I'm interested in meeting someone to start off as friends and possibly grow into something romantic. I'm not here to fool around or play games with women. I'm a sincere guy, come from a good family, and I practice ethical morals in my relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently working in government in a job that is very fulfilling. I am lucky and fortunate to do what I do in such a great city. Every day I get to help people and I am constantly presented with new challenges and adventures. When I am not at work, I am usually studying to enhance my career. I believe in self improvement and personal growth. I am considering the possibility of pursuing a doctorate.
I’m really good at
If I had to describe myself, I might say that I am good at listening to people. I'm also pretty good at putting myself in others' shoes. Lately, I've been working on being comfortable with vulnerability. A friend lent a book to me by Brene Brown and I was impressed by her work, and trying to incorporate some of her theories into my every day life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'd pay money to know this. Right now I can only speculate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Vonnegut - Slaughterhouse Five, Cat's Cradle
Foucault - Madness and Civilization, History of Sexuality, Torture and Punishment
Chomsky - Manufacturing Consent
Said - Orientalism
Food - Sushi, Chinese, Mexican
Music - Alternative, Indy
The six things I could never do without
Culture, language, exercise, books, conversation, learning
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm usually cooking dinner and/or going salsa dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
When I was 7 years old I stood next to a mannequin and pretended to be one myself. I actually fooled passersby into thinking that I too was a mannequin.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are mentally and emotionally stable, enjoy having intellectual discussions, are willing and capable of looking at yourself objectively, care about what's happening in the world and want to be engaged in it, have goals for yourself, a good communicator, sympathetic, compassionate, mature, and want to have a good time.

I'm also looking for someone who is down to earth, doesn't have an enormous ego, and has a realistic view of herself. I'm not interested in someone who thinks she is better than everyone else or walks around with a huge sense of entitlement.