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26 M Northridge, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:09pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
EDIT: Added a few sample music tracks, for funsies. Check the Music section.

I also added a bonus round (you have to read the profile to find it) if you're interested in a fun little puzzle that earns major bonus points for solving it. Good luck :)

Be aware before reading: I'm polyamorous so that should be considered when stalking me. I have two very wonderful partners in my life currently whom I love and care for very much, they even have OKC! Ledrial_Estera (who is on the look out for a lovely ladyfriend for herself, if you're interested) and RaeLeeTheCat (who is open to another gentleman caller but she's looking very local). Note, we're not looking for a threesome (or unicorn if you prefer); if we start seeing each other, you're seeing just me unless you specifically ask for that to be different and all involved are on-board.

A direct approach works best with me pretty much across the board. If something is on your mind, tell me. If you're curious about something, ask me. Just be straight with me and subtle as a T-Rex and we'll get along fine. I'm similarly direct; bullshit is exhausting and I just don't have the patience for it anymore.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking notes...

Starving artist, activist, building things, reading. Just generally trying to be happy. A key aspect of my being is that I tend to live by the idea that "no one has ever, when facing death, wished they'd spent more time at work and less time doing the things they wanted to do with the people they loved." This idea is critical to understanding virtually everything about my life. I don't want a career, I don't want a sweet job with a pension plan, I don't want a 401K, I want to be happy. If you're going to come out with "but you need a good job and money in order to be happy" then you probably shouldn't contact me, we're going to wildly differ on our view of the world.

My "afford food and rent job" is with a non-profit as a counselor for adults with special needs in Santa Monica. We teach life-skills to adults with developmental disabilities (if you're one of the residents and reading this, congrats, you're SO busted!). I also do some freelance home and computer repair on the side.

The list of things I'm involved with has gotten so long we're going to handle this in list form:

- Teaching myself Linux. Yay #!

- Teaching myself electronics and working with LED strips. I have a couple of arrays built so far.

- Putting together plans and researching to build my own house, currently the debate is shipping containers or steel frame construction. If you're involved with architecture or design I would love to pick your brain.
I’m really good at
Fixing/making things with limited resources; I'm the Jack of Jank, the Don of Duct Tape, the Kahn of Kludge, the Baron of Bailing Wire, the Czar of Zip Ties, the Sultan of Super Glue, the Guru of Good Enough, and the Imperator of Improvisation.

I also cook a hell of a miner's breakfast.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm six feet and change with long, red hair. What do you think they notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book? All of them. Except "Great Gatsby." Fuck Nick Carraway and his whiny, rich friends. If we hang, I'll probably give you a book, I actually maintain a free bookstore in my apartment. I've recently fallen in love with Orwell's "Homage to Catalonia." I love used bookstores; pawing through piles of unsorted old books with random titles in a dusty corner of a dimly lit shop sounds like am amazing time to me. Jack London's "The Iron Heel" is incredible if a little didactic.

I've seen a lot of movies and I tend to go for the more esoteric and oddball movies. I'm also partial to modern martial arts movies. Historical (or historical fiction) movies are also a go-to for me. TONS of documentaries, I've at least browsed through every freely available documentary on the internet and that is no exaggeration.

My TV taste is a bit limited because I don't have cable and I don't want it. That said, Netflix and shadowy corners of the internet have turned me onto a few things; Alphas, Walking Dead, Firefly, Terra Nova, Rome, and Outcasts. The new Spartacus series, as cheesy bad as it looks, is actually fantastic once you get into it.

My musical taste is impossible to present with any degree of brevity. It ranges from hardstyle to Gothic choral to metal to punk to traditional Arabic to rock to alternative to instrumental to Bolliwood to Irish and on and on ad mortem. You probably wont like most of it and that's OK. I have a PLEX server set up and if you have a PLEX account (free) I'd be more than happy to give you guest access for a taste of what you're in for, musically.

A few sample tracks:
Track One
Track Two
Track Three
Track Four
Track Five

Food is also a mix (SEE WHAT I DID THERE!?), I do a lot of cooking but I have dietary restrictions due to health problems, other than that I try to be open. If you're vegetarian or vegan, that's cool, so long as you're understanding of the fact that I'm not and have no plans to be. I wont throw steak at you if you promise not to accost me with broccoli. I love to cook and though I have a recipe book filled with amazing recipes I've collected I more tend to cook by improv more often. Spicy tolerance is a plus but not mandatory; I have a collection of around fifteen different various hot sauces.

(Because they didn't have that section but really needed it)
I'm a videogame person and I stick pretty much exclusively to the PC for my games. I have an extensive library of titles and it's hard to name favorites. Gun to my head though, I'd have to go with Arcanum, System Shock 2, the Thief series, the Hitman series, and Black & White. And no, I'm not a WoW player, sorry. I've been playing less recently due to work and writing.

I've recently gotten far too involved with Kerbal Space Program. I have never had so much fun failing in my entire life XD
The six things I could never do without
I dislike this question, so I'll pose a question of my own; in a fight between Lemmy and god, who would win?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
"It's time to stop singing and start swinging!"
On a typical Friday night I am
There is no "typical."

Talking, building, cooking, reading, watching, sleeping, playing, writing, cuddling, listening, figuring, loving, making, dreaming, fucking, digging, laughing, breaking, scrapping, eating...

B O N U S R O U N D:
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no sense of "home." When people talk about where they live "feeling like home," that statement has absolutely no resonance with me. I don't know why but I've never in my life had the feeling of "home" anywhere I've ever lived. There's no feelings of wanderlust or itchy feet, where I live is just a place I stay at with no emotional connection. I have no idea why this is, if you have any ideas I'd love to hear them.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-If you are poly, poly-friendly, or just curious. Being poly, I kinda need the people around me to at least be willing to accept that part of me even if they dislike or disagree with it. If you're curious about poly, I'm more than happy to talk about it and welcome any inquisitive individuals.

-If you're looking for a tabletop gaming buddy. I'm down for most games, doubly so if it's Shadowrun or Legend of the Five Rings. Matsu!

-You are LGBTQ friendly.

-You are Jeeja Vismitananda. Google her. She's adorable.

You should NOT message me if:
-You want someone to bar-hop or club with. If you want to go, more power to you, not my scene.

-You have no passions: if you hate everything, everyone, and everywhere, if looking at a basket of cross-eyed kittens does nothing to you, if nothing at all makes your heart pound and your breathing pick up.....don't message me. I have less than no desire to deal with a Daria and I cannot even begin to understand someone who has absolutely nothing in the world to be passionate about. The world is a fucking vast place, there is no reason other than spite to find ALL of it dis-interesting.

-You're half a world away. I'm sorry, I'm looking for someone local. I'm not interested in LDRs.

-You like Bobby Flay. Fuck. Bobby. Flay.

You made it to the end, congrats. If you read the whole thing but still didn't find it to your liking, I still want to leave you with something for being awesome willing to read the whole thing. Enjoy!