I'm a philosopher and a sailor. I like to travel and I like to have real experiences. I've come to a point in my life where my free time has become fairly valuable to me, so I'm really not interested in wasting it.
But then, wasted time is a bit of a perception issue. I'm great with sitting quietly and doing nothing, I just want to choose to do it.
I don't like getting jerked around, and I don't like lies.
I'm honest, to a fault.
I was a deckhand on the U.S. Brig Niagara till recently, but the winter has come. I'm on a long rout south. She's a damned sexy boat and you know you want her. Wherever my profile says I am, it's probably briefly
So I find myself having a hard time expressing exactly what I want or how it plays into my situation at the moment. My "what I'm looking for" thing doesn't really express it right. I thrive on meaning and passion, but I can only handle so much of it right now. I'm in various ports for four or five days at a time, just kind of bopping about.
I guess I should be as clear as possible. I am in a relationship, but I'm also a sailor, and she may be becoming a sailor as well. With those things in mind, we have come to an understanding. We are together, but we are also often a long ways apart. We are allowed to be with other people during that time. It's somewhere between poly and pragmatic. She's never been in an open relationship before, so we're still figuring out boundries. So you and me, we could be friends, we could casually date, we could sleep together. I almost certainly will not leave her for you, however. If you find this offensive, you should likely move along.
Also, my significant other is somewhat interested in meeting a girl that she can explore things with. She doesn't have a profile in here, so I'm acting as a facilitator.
If you want to be friends, by all means, message me.
The way this plays out is this. If we hang out, there's a decent chance I'm going to start caring about you quickly. If theres chemistry and something sparks, even if it's just for a night, I'll kiss you on the forehead afterwards and tell you you're lovely.
I have no real expectations, because I can't. I can't stay here, and that has nothing to do with any of you; I'm just a sailor.
And if it's just a couple of drinks somewhere quiet and a great conversation, well, I love that too. I just generally like people, so that's what I'm looking for... people.
As an additional thing, I really want to go exploring the salvage islands on the Intercostal Waterway, and really want an exploring partner. If that sounds like fun to you, do get in touch.
I am a man, you don't meet, every day