Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Human being. Youngish. Slightly confused. Generally cheerful.
Single, but not actively searching. Open to experiences, but
I don't know my Myers-Briggs type.
Or my blood type.
Or my "type."
If I were being honest, I'd say I'm on here to talk to and hang out
with interesting, intelligent and/or attractive people in a casual
context devoid of expectations. I like connecting with people, but
I'm not a fan of social scripts. Ya dig?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Slouching toward grad school, and thoroughly enjoying the
Currently working on a farm and getting wicked tan.
Also in the process of learning "fiscal responsibility" and all
that adult stuff.
Most likely going back to school sometime in the next couple years,
most likely for psychology. But if I can tell you a secret, I think
it'd be much more fun to move to Iceland and work on an organic
farm for a few years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recognizing the intense, complex, earth-shattering beauty residing
in people and in things-in-general.
Appreciating music. (But not making it, sadly.)
Giving and receiving that elusive thing called Pleasure.
Massage. (See above.)
Plunging headlong into a situation with trust and a naïve
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I'm very grounding. In this day and age, I suppose
that's a very good thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like stuff. Some stuff more than others. Not too important.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxytocin, good smells, the genuine embrace of a good friend, sticky
notes, water, and the assurance that everything can always be made
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing things. And how and when to do them. Only problem is, I
rarely get to the "actually doing things" stage. Floor plans for
rearranging and redecorating my house; complex, months-long
exercise programs; to-read lists; even grocery lists. My life is
perpetual potential energy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably making an early night of it after a long week. Maybe some
wine, probably some candles, good music. Though, as a general rule,
if someone invites me out, I never say no. The life and times of a
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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A primary value I hold in life is Vulnerability. My closet door is
wide open, skeletons in full view. But, there is a difference
between a manic, needy sort of vulnerability, and a secure, honest
one. I strive for the latter, and I respect those who do the
I've never been romantically involved with anyone. Not really
looking to make that happen, and definitely not looking for anyone
who's looking to make that happen. If it happens it happens, but ya
know, person first, relationship second, right?
I may seem to people a strange mix of radiantly warm and coolly
standoffish. I breathe paradox. And yes, that's just as pretentious
as it sounds.
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