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Socratys

23 M Lawrence, KS

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:10pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Catholicism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Human being. Youngish. Slightly confused. Generally cheerful.

Single, but not actively searching. Open to experiences, but cautious.

I don't know my Myers-Briggs type.

Or my blood type.

Or my "type."

If I were being honest, I'd say I'm on here to talk to and hang out with interesting, intelligent and/or attractive people in a casual context devoid of expectations. I like connecting with people, but I'm not a fan of social scripts. Ya dig?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Slouching toward grad school, and thoroughly enjoying the slouch.

Currently working on a farm and getting wicked tan.

Also in the process of learning "fiscal responsibility" and all that adult stuff.

Most likely going back to school sometime in the next couple years, most likely for psychology. But if I can tell you a secret, I think it'd be much more fun to move to Iceland and work on an organic farm for a few years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Recognizing the intense, complex, earth-shattering beauty residing in people and in things-in-general.

Appreciating music. (But not making it, sadly.)

Giving and receiving that elusive thing called Pleasure.

Massage. (See above.)

Feeling feelings.

Overthinking.

Communication, articulation.

Plunging headlong into a situation with trust and a naïve fearlessness.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I'm very grounding. In this day and age, I suppose that's a very good thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like stuff. Some stuff more than others. Not too important.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxytocin, good smells, the genuine embrace of a good friend, sticky notes, water, and the assurance that everything can always be made better.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Doing things. And how and when to do them. Only problem is, I rarely get to the "actually doing things" stage. Floor plans for rearranging and redecorating my house; complex, months-long exercise programs; to-read lists; even grocery lists. My life is perpetual potential energy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably making an early night of it after a long week. Maybe some wine, probably some candles, good music. Though, as a general rule, if someone invites me out, I never say no. The life and times of a neurotic extravert.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A primary value I hold in life is Vulnerability. My closet door is wide open, skeletons in full view. But, there is a difference between a manic, needy sort of vulnerability, and a secure, honest one. I strive for the latter, and I respect those who do the same.

I've never been romantically involved with anyone. Not really looking to make that happen, and definitely not looking for anyone who's looking to make that happen. If it happens it happens, but ya know, person first, relationship second, right?

I may seem to people a strange mix of radiantly warm and coolly standoffish. I breathe paradox. And yes, that's just as pretentious as it sounds.
You should message me if
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You are at least one of the following:
Intelligent
Attractive
Fun
Uncertain
Lost
Confused
Happy
Depressed
Grounded
Human
Breathing
Alive