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SoftNote1914

34 / M / straight / Single

Nashville, Tennessee

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Black
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am dry, charming, and a good listener.

My Self-Summary

Why is this always so hard? Hmmm....they want me to write more, but I hate talking about myself.

What I’m doing with my life

Working and planning the next move.

I’m really good at

People watching and procrastination.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm really, really, quiet.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Food -I like just about everything, except really really spicy food. Books…I like a little bit of everything. Movies-the more action the better, but I'll watch just about anything that has a good story.

Music-Depends entirely on my mood.

The six things I could never do without

Hmm... there's the obvious stuff, but that's boring. Let's see..excitement, challenge, goals. Um, family, good food, and good credit.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Politics, going to law school, moving. What else? Working out, cooking. Unfortunately it doesn't look like I spend a lot of time thinking, which isn't true. Then again, I don't think daydreaming counts...

On a typical Friday night I am

At home with take out and my DVR. Yeah, that's pretty much it.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Um, I like romantic comedies. That's all you get here.

You should message me if

If: you want to talkk about nothing in particular, you're a liberal, you're bored, you think I'm interesting, you think you're interesting, you're bored, or if you understand "My life is very...complex".