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SoftOx

40 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Dislikes cats
Speaks
English, Japanese (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Why hello there! Thank you for stopping by.
Intelligent and Kind hearted guy. Looking for that little lass to add spice and excitement to my already busy and productive life.
Lets travel, eat, and laugh together. Lets learn a new language, lets explore new restaurants. Let's talk and see who has the wittiest jokes, the silliest face, or the best stories! Lets start off as friends, and then we can get to know each other better. I lived overseas a bit in Asia during my twenties, have a thing for Graphic Design, and would fall underneath the following: Visual, Spatial, Kinesthetic learner. Personality falls under ISTJ. If you are an intelligent, accomplished woman (this is relative) who reads more than I do then you probably already have my vote for president. I can come across as shy at first, but if we're cool, you'll see I'm curious, warm, considerate, and have immense loyalty to those that are important to me. I've actually managed to make rooms full of people erupt in laughter when I propose to do so. a lot of people on OKC say, I want this, i want that, don't do this, don't be that. That's all fine and good and perfectly valid, but I say, let's try this thing called "compromise" and I'll meet you halfway. Maybe somewhere in between you and me we'll find "us". :)
What I’m doing with my life
Currently work as an Educational Advisor helping college students get Financial Aid and get ahead. 2nd job as a freelance Designer in the evenings. I'm also shadowkickboxing, stairmastering and enjoying the rigors of full time employment with the Grad school in the evenings.
Bags under my eyes, carpel tunnel, and sleep deprivation, not so much. Since I joined this site, regularly sifting through profiles to see what other like minded folks are reading. Making new friends and getting to know interesting people.
I’m really good at
I make a mean omelete with lox, spinach, and fresh vegetables.
I have an impressive axekick, but don't use it much anymore.
Getting much better at Design. Deconstruction. Creative Direction.
Analyzing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height and build. The nice ties and pressed shirts also help.
I was into French cuffs for a while but I kept losing them.
I'm told I have a lot of presence, but its probably just a carryover from my old Martial Arts days when I had to psych out guys twice my size.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read the Times, Wired and Computer Arts regularly. Marketing texts galore.
Recently started plowing through all the wonderful articles in the Harvard Business review for creative and organizational insights.
The six things I could never do without
Creative expression.
Intelligent conversation.
Laughter within and without.
Sunshine and your smile.
Your hand in my hand.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Grad school homework! of course, if we hit it off, then I may just have to reorganize my priorities won't I? :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying fresh sushi somewhere in the city, reading a magazine in the park, and finding out what gallery or exhibition to go to. Wondering where my future friend/wife is right now.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm extremely resilient and adaptable. I also have the strong ability to read people very well.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 26–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like what you see, you like what you read, and your looking for a friend or a potential match. Please be fit and well educated, as I value these qualities highly. If I do not reply to your message, thank you in advance, but if I do not feel its right, I would not want to waste your effort or your time.